Why do the elderly become more selfish as they get older, and why do some elderly people behave self

Although it can't be said that I am becoming more and more selfish, I must be getting older, I have thought through everything, and there are no taboos and taboos when I think about it, so I seem more selfish, which is possible.

The old man is old because he can't do it, he is always worried that no one will accompany him or her, and his children have their own homes, and they do have too little time to spend with them, so they think more about themselves, and they seem to be much more selfish than when they can take care of themselves.

As the saying goes, the old have something to rely on, but now people live under great pressure, sometimes their families can't support them, and they can't do anything about the elderly, so the old people must think about themselves, and they are not selfish, and there are extenuating circumstances.

The older a person gets, the more like a child The temper changes and becomes elusive, and when he gets old, he will generally magnify and strengthen his previous personality, and some of the elderly will become greedy, which is a normal law, and the countermeasure can only be to persuade slowly.

I think that people are getting older, just like a child, and their temper is slowly getting bigger, and they want others to follow him, after all, the elderly have been all the way over, and when they were young, they were let by others, and when they were young, they loved others when they were anniversary, and now that they are old, they must want others to let others let themselves.

It may be that the older you get, the more you think about it, and the more you care about your family, the more selfish you seem.

It's not that the old people are more selfish the more they look at it, you just see the old people you can see, in fact, more old people are very generous and open-minded. After all, I have lived all my life and experienced so many things, and many things have been taken lightly.

Not necessarily, it depends on the mentality of the elderly, some elderly people are more open-minded, and there may be some elderly people whose conditions are very poor and have no support, so you have to consider your own later life.

The more you grow up, the more you can't see filial piety.

Some people have an extremely bad temper when they are young, and they are selfish when they are old, and they don't want to get along with such old people for a day.

Is it because they don't give you money?

The first reason: selfishness by nature. It's just that some people still know how to exercise restraint when they are young, and their performance is not very obvious. And after getting older, the old man's ability to judge right and wrong will decrease, so the things in his nature will be more directly exposed.

The second reason: psychological reasons. Mainly from the psychological gap.

In particular, the elderly, who are more successful and strong before retirement, want to maintain their pre-retirement social and family status after retirement. When this expectation is overly expressed, or because it is not recognized by others who need it, it will show that his thoughts are more self-centered, unwilling to trust his relatives, and not caring and considerate of his family.

The third reason: economic factors and health factors. When the elderly are financially dependent on their children or are often sick or chronically ill, they can be rescued from psychological problems. In fact, it is also a manifestation of a lack of security.

Because sometimes the elderly also show the most selfishness, that is, because the elderly are also a particularly selfish person when they are young, so they will also be a selfish person when they are older, because their personality has never changed.

Because these elderly people are not treated well by others in their lives, and they are also a particularly selfish person, they are also a particularly bad person, so they will show selfishness, which is also a thing that there is no way to do.

If the old man is particularly selfish, all aspects must be for himself, because when he is old, he can't earn anything, so he can only rely on a little selfishness, so that he can pass well

Because, it's not the elderly who show selfishness, but those who are selfish are old, so they are still that kind of people.

Selfishness has nothing to do with age, only with character flaws.

I think this still depends on the individual, I believe that most of the elderly will not behave selfishly, it depends on how you think about this in your heart.

The more selfish the elderly, the easier it is to live longer. Selfish seniors pay more attention to their own needs and health, such as a balanced diet, proper exercise, good sleep, etc., these lifestyles can help to improve immunity and physical health, and prolong life. In addition, selfish elderly people may pay more attention to the relationship between family and friends, actively communicate and imitate each other, and get more support and companionship.

However, selfish seniors may also face difficulties in family relationships, financial management, health care, etc., which may have an impact on longevity. Therefore, whether they are selfish or selfless elderly, longevity is related to many factors such as their lifestyle, social relationships, health management, etc.

My colleague Bao Na and her husband were both admitted to 985 University from a small county town in the northwest, and then worked in the imperial capital and got married and had children. From Bao Na's pregnancy to the 3-year-old child, her in-laws locked the house in the county seat, and came to Beijing to squeeze in a 60-square-meter house with her son and daughter-in-law, taking care of the children during the day, cooking for the little couple, and sleeping on a folding bed in the living room at night. Now the child is in kindergarten at the age of three, but the in-laws don't care about the child and throwing the child to their son and daughter-in-law and returning to the county to care for the elderly.

Bao Na complained that she was so tired to death in the company at work, rushing to kill in the workplace forest, and calculating the time in minutes so as not to delay picking up and dropping off the children, and racking her brains on the way to think about what to cook for the children, but her father-in-law played Tai Chi in the sports park of the county, and her mother-in-law danced square dance, and when she was happy, she went to travel, leisurely, and what was even more odious was that every holiday, her mother-in-law would remind her son and daughter-in-law that she should go back to the county with gifts to visit the elderly.

Why are these two old things so selfish? "Bao Na is not even.

This is reminiscent of Su Daqiang in "It's All Good". Su Daqiang's actions coincidentally show that he is the most selfish one, and he doesn't care about the child's feelings at all. The relationship between the children, no matter how much the children quarrel or fight, as long as it does not affect him, it will be fine.

He didn't care at all whether the children had a good relationship or not, as long as the children met his own requirements. You must know that Su Daqiang is just 63 years old, and he has no other problems except high blood pressure, so he even wants his children to take care of him all the time, and he doesn't even cook for himself. Su Daqiang's father is really speechless.

But think about it from the perspective of the elderly, what is wrong with dedicating your life to your children and enjoying yourself at the last moment of life? If you have done the limit for your children, but you have not been rewarded for a long time, some elderly people will feel cold and become cold to their children.

There is such a sentence in "The Story of the Small Window": "When you get old, you feel that all your fate is exhausted, and the slender tong is in charge of people; There is still one thing to care about in the spring, only in the flowers blooming. “

Because they consciously "end their fate", they were once in the sea and everything was bearish, so some old people became cold-hearted.