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When I see the teacher, I communicate with him more.
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First, let the child feel the feelings that are being expressed. We should allow children to express their fears and dissatisfaction with their teachers. Parents can listen to their children's emotions with an accepting attitude.
For example, don't be afraid, what's scary, the teacher is good. In this way, it is actually a denial of the child's feelings and cannot help the child solve the problem. We should help children release negative emotions, such as we can say!
You get nervous when you see a teacher, don't you? Worried about making mistakes, right?
Let the children express this negative feeling. When emotions are processed, children can take our guidance to spontaneously generate positive coping strategies.
Second, giving false instructions to the teacher. Parents can make false decrees to teachers, saying that teachers approve, affirm, and encourage their children.
Some children think that the teacher criticizes him because he deliberately can't get along with him, or he doesn't like him. At this time, parents should make positive guidance. You see, the teacher is so busy and still paying attention to you, just to make you better, right?
If the teacher doesn't like you, he may not care about you at all. I believe that children will not be so afraid of teachers when they hear such explanations from their parents.
Third, communicate with the teacher. There was once a child who often disrupted the order, was criticized by the teacher, and then was very afraid of the teacher. Later, the teacher learned that it was because the child was severely restrained at home and the child was eager for it.
Cancel, release. Through mutual consultation between teachers and parents, they decided to change the education model.
At home, parents will give their children more space to move. At school, teachers often encourage children to express themselves more and go on stage more. After a period of time, the child becomes more focused in class, takes the initiative to raise his hand, often takes the initiative to chat with the teacher, dares to look into the teacher's eyes, and greets the teacher warmly.
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Psychological research shows that fear of teachers is because of fear of making mistakes, fear of being criticized and punished, not having a good feeling about themselves, and low self-recognition. How to resolve the emotional pressure of fear, improve self-recognition, and be confident and brave in the relationship?
1. In the face of emotional pressure, the grievances, anger and other feelings in the long-term relationship can be explored through writing: "let the teacher stay away", "the teacher will criticize people", "the teacher will scold people" ......In the process of writing, the deep feelings in my heart surged, and I faced years of grievances with the concept of embracing, so as to completely face and clear up the emotional pressure. Eventually, the emotions dissipated and we ushered in a calm and calm.
2. In terms of behavior, find a teacher who has a good impression of you and start practicing, starting with a simple greeting and greeting, and encourage yourself to insist on chatting and friends.
In the process of paying attention to and engaging in common hobbies, I constantly discovered and revised my own identification in the process, and it turned out that I first subjectively determined that I was unpopular, and then psychologically projected to the teacher that I did not welcome myself, and found that I could be so accepted and welcomed.
Allowing yourself to make mistakes, allowing yourself to oppose the teacher, allowing yourself to be angry and angry, accepting yourself and respecting yourself, you can also accept the teacher's misconduct in the face of a group of students, and maintain a sense of respect for the teacher.
3. Gratitude rises. A good teacher is a stepping stone to climb the mountain of success in life, and there must be a good teacher in life, our parents have given us life, and a good teacher has given us wisdom. Gratitude leads to the wisdom of teachers and leads us to success and sublimation.
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Every teacher has a kind heart, there is no need to be afraid of the teacher, as long as you don't make mistakes and complete the homework assigned by the teacher on time, why should you be afraid of the teacher? Is it because of bad grades? You should have more contact with the teacher, so that you will gradually feel that the teacher is also very cute.
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If you are afraid of the teacher, it must be that the teacher is more severe with you, or you are more naughty and have been punished by the teacher. Only in this case, you will be afraid of the teacher, in fact, there is nothing to be afraid of, as long as you study hard. Be disciplined, and the teacher will not treat you badly.
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Teachers are also people. Teachers are also ordinary people, just like you. As long as you are bold, ask him a question that you don't know, and then chat with him more after class, you will find that the teacher is not so fierce and so afraid.
It's best to look for a female teacher who is younger. They are relatively new to teaching in schools. And women are relatively gentle.
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First of all, I think you should be confident in everything, you have to think that the teacher is also a human being, the teacher is not a god, and the teacher is not as terrible as we imagined, I think it is good to get along normally, if you think what the teacher said is wrong, then you can not listen.
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In fact, the teacher is not scary, if you have time, you can go and talk to the teacher in private, if you don't dare, go with those students who have a better relationship with the teacher, you will find that the teacher is actually very approachable.
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Why are you afraid of teachers? He won't eat you, so don't be afraid of him. Be brave and face it.
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If you know a teacher who is good for you, then I don't think you should be too afraid of him. You can have a positive communication with the teacher, see where the two of you have a common entry point, and then you are afraid that the teacher's mental state will change.
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You, he, you're too scared of the teacher, what should I do? The reason why you are afraid of the teacher must be that you are studying. Poor. Or is she more naughty and so on, she always criticizes. You should work hard, and Mr. Shang Jin will like you. You won't be afraid of the teacher.
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What if I'm too scared of the teacher? First of all, the teacher is a person who teaches you knowledge, the teacher's work is very hard, you must learn knowledge under the teacher's teaching, and you can't have a gap with the teacher, so I think you should maintain a good teacher-student friendship with the teacher, only in this way, you can be conducive to your learning, okay?
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In fact, there is nothing to be afraid of, teachers are also human beings, and they have mistakes, and they can be considerate and understanding of students, don't think too much.
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Actually, no, no, there is nothing to be afraid of, he can't eat you, what are you afraid of him for? It's just that some teachers are more strict, but some wild teachers are more strict and treat their classmates equally. Be bold, don't be afraid.
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There is no need to be afraid of the teacher. The teacher told the truth, it is for you. He makes you study better and get better grades.
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There is no need to be afraid of this, everyone has a different personality and temperament, the difference is great, the teacher's original intention is to teach and educate people in the hope that their own efforts, students can gain something, so there is no need to be too afraid of carrying too much baggage on the body.
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If you are afraid of the teacher, you must exercise your courage and face your teacher bravely.
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In fact, the teacher is not so scary, you can try to amplify the courage a little.
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Some teachers are really strict, but as long as you study hard and do what you have to do, the teacher will not get along with you. Therefore, you still have to work harder. Win the teacher's approval.
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For teachers, we should not have a certain degree of fear, or should we respect teachers, teachers, for us to be strict, but also for our good, not to, because this will be fearful.
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That's because you have a shadow on the teacher, so it's okay to be afraid to see them, just adjust your mentality and face it well.
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Fear of teachers and fear of meeting teachers means that your academic performance is not very good, and if your academic performance is good, then you must like to see teachers.
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I'm too scared of the teacher, what should I do? Why are you afraid of teachers? You can communicate with the teacher to see what you are afraid of the teacher.
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The teacher has nothing to fear, and he has done all the homework assigned by the teacher.
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You, what are you too afraid of the teacher? Maybe you're a timid kid? Are you afraid? So you have little guts? So I'm very afraid that the teacher is still doing bad things and not daring to see the teacher?
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Very normal.
Everyone is a little afraid of someone who is stronger than themselves.
But. Never mind.
Rising to the challenge is another human quality.
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There's a potato in front of you
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There is no need to be afraid of teachers, teachers are actually more kind, the kind of people who are rigid on the outside and soft on the inside, teach you knowledge, guide you, in fact, teachers are both good teachers and good friends.
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What is the teacher most afraid of.
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Summary. Hello, it is normal for children to be afraid of teachers, but if they are very afraid, you can communicate with teachers and let teachers communicate with children more verbally to eliminate this fear.
Hello, I am sorting out the answer according to your question, please wait a while Hello, it is normal for children to be afraid of teachers, but if they are very afraid, you can communicate with teachers, and let teachers communicate with children more verbally to eliminate this fear.
It is better for parents to communicate with teachers or to let children take the initiative to communicate.
He is not afraid, he is already afraid, once the teacher scolds his classmates loudly, he feels that he is scolding himself, the teacher not only scolds but also knocks on the head, which he is also very disgusted with, and the teacher often occupies their extracurricular time.
Parents should communicate with the teacher first, and ask the child to go by himself, he may not dare to go.
If you are afraid, the teacher may have physically punished the student
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Summary. Hello I'm Mido, a counselor, and he communicates with the teacher, so if we want to solve the root cause of this problem, we need to know what is behind our fears
What to do if you are afraid to communicate with your teacher.
Hello I'm Mido, a counselor, and he communicates with the teacher, so if we want to solve the root cause of this problem, we need to know what is behind our fears
If you need some way, then! We can use it to distract us! Try to communicate, you can be self-affirming, but in general, these methods are only a symptom and not a cure!
Well, it's a safe space, and we offer one-on-one service! Are you willing to open your heart and explore yourself? Let's have a good chat!
Fear of being scolded. Dear, you can think about it, you are afraid of being scolded, then you have no communication, how can you think that the teacher will scold you! Are we setting a limit to our own mindset?
Is this fear due to our lack of self-confidence? It is said that our teacher He has had this kind of scolding experience before!
I was scolded before, but now I am afraid of doing anything wrong and have no confidence.
I don't know how old you are! Dear subject, I saw that I was eager to communicate with the teacher, but I was afraid so I couldn't complete this exchange! It will make you feel a little sad and lost, and at the same time, your heart is very entangled!
I have had such an experience before, which means that this past experience has left us with a scar! So let's deal with it next, okay?
Dear subject, if it is convenient you can choose six rounds of 2-hour service, we will continue to **
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It is common for children to be afraid of teachers, and this is often due to a number of reasons. If your child is afraid of the teacher, here are a few things you can consider to ease your child's fear:
1.Understand your child's situation: Understand why your child is afraid of the teacher, which may be due to some negative experiences the child has experienced in the past, or the teacher's way of organizing classroom activities, language expression, etc., which has caused the child's fear to increase.
2.Communication with teachers: It is recommended to communicate between parents and teachers so that teachers can understand the child's situation, give feedback on the child's ideas, and the parents' positive and cooperative attitude.
3.Guide the child: communicate with the child psychologically, ask the child about the specific reasons for the teacher's fear, and give a highly pure response, so that the child can get a deep understanding and carry out heuristic education for the child's professional skills;
4.Pay more attention to children: By paying more attention to children and spending more time with children, they can enhance their sense of security and self-confidence, so that they can feel the support and love of their families, teachers and society, which will help alleviate their fear of teachers;
5.Help your child adjust: At the same time, you can also help your child accept some psychological adjustment methods, such as relaxation techniques, breathing exercises, self-motivation skills, etc., to improve your child's mood and fear of Lu Heng, so that he can better adapt to the school environment.
It should be noted that children are afraid of teachers and need to pay attention to them in time, so it is necessary to establish an effective communication mechanism among parents, teachers and students, and on the premise of ensuring the healthy growth of children, it is especially necessary to listen patiently to children's ideas, conduct in-depth communication and rationally solve problems.
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