If something is missing in married life, it will be inevitable to separate in the end?

Marriage is not as free as falling in love, and there is no freedom before marriage, marriage is more like a siege, locking the two in a small world, the quality of the relationship is all up to their own decision, whether it is joy or sorrow, both people need to work together, only one party works hard The relationship is unstable, but if it is not getting along properly, love loses the initial sweetness, then the marriage relationship is "in name only", and if there are these three things in life, then the two will either part ways or live in the end.

Verbal conversation.

To get along, what you need most is to have something to say, under the same roof, but there is a lack of verbal communication, then it will be difficult for this relationship to come to the end, and you will only hold it in your heart, too lazy to say it, and you don't want to say more; The heart that is drifting apart will only make each other the most familiar strangers, and home is just a temporary resting place, so how can you talk about feelings without even talking? Without communication, you can't get into each other's hearts, let alone share joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and in the end, it's just about each other's lives.

Lost trust.

Trust is a cornerstone in the relationship, but also a guarantee for the longevity of the marriage, if there is no trust, you will only be suspicious, suffer from gains and losses, will not give the other party space, always suspect that the other party has something to hide from themselves, check the post, ask, look at the mobile phone and other behaviors, will only make people feel bored and disgusted, and eventually affect the relationship between husband and wife, love each other try to trust, don't focus on each other, you can find your own interests and hobbies, and use your energy and time on the right things.

There is no economic support.

Love without bread is not long-lasting, even if it is said to love, but there is no economic foundation, it is difficult to support the superstructure, the rest of the life is still long, if such a day is not visible, few people can persist to the end, life is for hard work, men's self-motivation, women's support, in order to bear a family, poor couples are not unreasonable, if the feelings are consumed, the marriage will come to an end.

Lack of trust, lack of companionship. Trust is the foundation of marital affection, and if there is no trust, then the relationship is very easy to break down, and without companionship, the relationship between the two parties will not last.

The first is trust, if two people lose trust, there will always be conflicts, and it is inevitable to separate after a long time. Second, community property is also important. A family should be a community, and if individuals earn money and spend it individually, if their hearts don't go together, they won't be much better in the end.

Third, children. If two people do not have children in common, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts after a long time, which is also the key to a stable marriage.

Money, affection, etc. Lack of money, life can't go on; Without affection, the couple will not live long.

Trust is the most important thing between husband and wife, if you lose trust, both parties will be suspicious of each other, so that the marriage becomes full of cracks, respect is also essential, only the husband and wife respect each other, in order to maintain a happier marriage, to maintain a certain sense of space in the marriage, only the husband and wife have their own lives, so that they can become more confident and cheerful, there will be more topics in the relationship, the husband and wife need to have care and love for each other, only always put each other in mindto be able to understand each other.

Without mutual tolerance, mutual trust, mutual communication, and mutual respect, it is difficult to go to the end without these things.

If two people have no trust, no sense of responsibility, no responsibility, and no tolerance, it is very difficult to get to the end.

Many people around me are either busy getting married or on the way to get married again. That's what life is all about. Those who want to get married are looking forward to getting married. The married people around me are looking forward to returning to the carefree years when they were single and alone.

Whether you've been married or you're fascinated by marriage, it's important to remember that these are the things that are the most indispensable in marriage.

1 Economic independence.

Why are today's articles and news constantly persuading women to be financially independent? Because money can deal with large local problems.

My cousin was only 20 years old when she married her husband. It was the most wonderful years of life. Listened to the man's sentence:

I'll raise you. is greedy for life and afraid of death to devote himself to married life. The first love and honey to the later tea, rice, oil and salt.

Every time she reached out and asked her husband for money. I feel like I'm a dwarf. The impatient expression on her husband's face stung her deeply.

When you don't even have money to stay in a hotel. Only then did she understand that maintaining a marriage by affection was basically a joke. Love without economic roots is more like a dandelion, which disperses as soon as the wind blows.

2 Independence of personality.

It's a bit arbitrary, so let's just say it. is that there must be my own judgment, the Qing Dynasty has long since fallen. Those in-laws who instill in you the three obedience and four virtues must think clearly, what kind of woman should be the husband's family, the man is in charge, and what the woman should do is to give birth to children for him, wash his hands and make soup.

After a woman gets married, she especially likes to dress up herself, and she dresses up beautifully every day. Her husband was not pleased. I work hard every day to earn money, and she spends it in a dashing manner.

The husband began to persuade his wife. thought she was the most beautiful without makeup. In the end, the woman gave up all the clothes and makeup that dressed her, and her husband was snatched away by other women who dressed up as the time.

Of course, the independence of personality should stand on the basis of economic independence, otherwise it is easy to fall.

3 Live with a sense of ceremony.

The sense of ceremony is not pretentious, it is about making this day of your life special. Too many women give up many wonderful things for the sake of their families, for their husbands, and for their children. gradually became the greasy aunt we didn't want to be when we were young.

Occasionally, it adds a little spice to my life. Let me understand something different.

The three things that cannot be lost in married life are one: love, two: any independence, and third, spiritual abundance.

Self-esteem, self-love, and self-improvement. Women should not lose their self-esteem in love, which will make the man, i.e. the family, look down on you. Self-love, how can others love you if you don't love yourself. Be sure to have your own business.

The first is not to lose your job, the second is not to lose your love of beauty, and the third is not to lose your investment in yourself.

I think in marriage, we decide that we can't lose ourselves or our potential, but also our temper and our character, which we can't lose.

There are three things that cannot be lost in married life, the first is to improve yourself, do not stop the track of progress with the society, the second is not to waste your life at home without working, and the third is to have your own life and your own small world.