In married life, why should husband and wife learn to sleep in separate beds?

Marriage needs to be kept fresh, and a certain distance from each other can be properly separated in order to see each other better, otherwise looking at each other is like looking at yourself, and life will become indifferent as time goes by.

Some couples sleeping together will affect their sleep more, for example, men are prone to snoring when they sleep, which can easily affect women's rest. However, it is not recommended to sleep in separate beds for a long time, which will affect the relationship between husband and wife.

Because learning to sleep in separate beds allows both parties to have their own privacy, to a certain extent, to enhance the relationship between husband and wife, and can make husband and wife more intimate.

Because of inconsistent schedules or inconsistent requirements for the soft and hard of the bed, both parties will have a better sleep when they sleep in separate beds.

1. There are very few opportunities for communication between husband and wife, they are working separately during the day, and they can only chat for a while at night to communicate and communicate, and once they sleep in separate rooms, they will even lose the last opportunity to communicate.

2. After a long time of separation, the relationship between two people will become weaker and weaker.

3. After being separated for a long time, both people are likely to need each other less and less.

First of all, sleeping in separate beds will make two people have less time and opportunities to communicate. Because they are busy with their careers, they rarely speak in common, and if they don't communicate much when they go home, then the two of them will inevitably become strangers more and more. Also, sleeping in separate beds will make the relationship between two people weak.

Finally, people who sleep in separate beds are prone to extramarital affairs. Feelings are actually very fragile, and we need to take care of them carefully, don't be separated casually when you can get along well, and don't choose to be silent if you can communicate well.

Because each couple's relationship mode is different, some couples sleeping in separate beds will affect their relationship, while some couples are still in good relationship even if they sleep in separate beds. In modern society, many couples not only sleep in separate beds, but may also live apart for many years. The way husbands and wives get along has changed a lot, and we have to accept the different states of getting along with each other.

Many people think that if the husband and wife sleep in the bed, it will affect the relationship between the two people very much. About two people sleeping in separate beds, does it really affect the relationship? Why?

Here's what I think:

1. Some couples sleeping in separate beds will affect their relationship, but some couples will not.

Some couples may not be used to sleeping with their other half after they get married, so such couples will choose to sleep in separate beds. And some couples don't have any special resistance to sleeping together, so they will sleep together. As for whether the husband and wife will sleep in separate beds will affect the relationship, this cannot be generalized, some couples will affect the relationship between the two because of sleeping in separate beds, and some will not.

2. In modern society, many couples not only sleep in separate beds, but also live apart all year round.

In fact, in modern society, everyone has their own life, even if two people are married, they may all have their own jobs and have their own lives. Nowadays, many couples will not only sleep in separate beds, but may also live separately all year round.

Third, the way husband and wife get along with each other has actually changed a lot.

Compared with the previous and today's husband and wife relationship mode, in fact, a lot has changed, many couples in order to live a very happy and happy life with both people in the marriage, they will plan their lives at their own pace. If the relationship between the two is affected because of sleeping in separate beds, then this type of marriage is undoubtedly a failure.

It really affects; Because of sleeping in separate beds for a long time, it will make each other have a feeling of living together, and they will be extremely unserious about their feelings of being rough and teasing, and they will ignore each other for a long time, so that the relationship will slowly fade, and this situation will make the husband and wife very unharmonious. Stool tour.

It will really affect the relationship, because if Hu Xiangluo and the two people don't understand each other's inner thoughts after they are separated, there will be contradictions between the two people, so the final relationship will also be trapped by the shadow pants leaking banquet.

Yes, it will affect the feeling of fierce spine between the two people, and the two people will feel that they don't love each other at all, and they will become very indifferent in life. Gaps will slowly develop.

As for why couples can't sleep in separate beds, I think there should be two reasons:

1. The relationship between husband and wife sleeping in separate beds is weakened.

In marriage, the closest time period for husband and wife is at the time of rest, you must know that you are busy with work and life during the day, as long as you are able to talk quietly to each other during the rest period, talk to each other, and vent your dissatisfaction with each other, this way can make the feelings between husband and wife deeper, but after sleeping in separate beds, this unique way to make the husband and wife close to each other is gone, and the feelings of the two people are naturally light.

2. It will make the other party feel that you have been disgusted with him.

Husband and wife continue to sleep in separate beds, giving each other the feeling that you no longer love her, feeling that you once began to dislike each other, and not even sleeping in the same room, so that some people will wonder if you are someone outside, under the influence of such thoughts, the relationship between the two people is getting weaker and weaker, and finally it is possible to cause a breakup in marriage.

It may be that the relationship between husband and wife will gradually fade after the separation, and after the separation, the husband and wife will have less time to communicate and get along together, which will easily affect the relationship between husband and wife! Some of them are so serious that they will cause the husband and wife to go their separate ways and completely break up their relationship! However, is it true that if you don't sleep in separate rooms, will the relationship last for a long time?

I think it's for sure! It mainly depends on the person, depending on the way the couple gets along with each other and the way they understand and communicate!

The breakup of the relationship between husband and wife is not just caused by the separation of rooms! His heart is not with you, even if he is in the same bed, it is a strange dream! Can you keep his people, can you keep his heart? If the hearts are together, there will be no emotional crisis when they are thousands of miles apart! The heart has its love, the end of the world!

Therefore, whether the husband and wife are divided into rooms depends on the situation! Normal couples should not sleep in separate rooms, unless due to special circumstances, such as children, affect the rest of children or adults! And even if the husband and wife sleep in separate rooms, this is not the basic reason for the emotional crisis between husband and wife!

Nowadays, many people are running around for work during the day, and couples basically have no time to communicate, so the best time to communicate before going to bed at night is the best time to communicate.

If the husband and wife sleep in separate beds for a long time, they can't understand each other's thoughts, and the feelings of the beam book slowly fade, and there will be a lot of contradictions, affecting the feelings between the two people.

The husband and wife sleep in separate beds, which is really the first loss that will affect the relationship Qin Lao, because once they sleep in separate beds for a long time, the two people will slowly become strangers, and even have nothing to say, which will directly affect the relationship between the two people.

It will indeed affect the relationship between the husband and wife, because the split calendar burns the bed and sleeps, and slowly there will be a lot of contradictions in the limbs, and the husband and wife will quarrel frequently.

Can you judge the quality of their relationship from whether the husband and wife sleep in separate beds? In fact, this is not the case, because the basis of the relationship between husband and wife is that they are comfortable with each other. If the husband and wife sleep together every day, but they can quarrel for half an hour for a trivial matter such as not turning on the air conditioner, or the man snores very badly, and the woman has a nervous breakdown and can't sleep well all night, then in fact, the quality of the couple's marriage is not necessarily better than that of the couple who sleep in the room.

There is also a situation where the couple chooses to sleep in separate beds, but it is obvious that the relationship is very poor. Because this decision is not comfortable for both parties, maybe the man thinks: Oh, this child is too noisy, I'll go to the study to sleep.

And the feelings of my wife: I didn't have anyone to help me all night, I felt very lonely inside, I felt left out, I couldn't figure out what my husband was thinking now? I wonder if he's having an affair with another woman?

Therefore, there are three prerequisites for sleeping in separate rooms.

The first premise is that the two of you hit it off with this decision

That is to say, the two of you don't care about whether we have a good relationship depends on whether we sleep together or not, we care more about the quality of getting along. For example, men think it's comfortable for me to sleep in a big bed by myself, and women feel the same way. For another example, both husband and wife have some habits of reading and studying before going to bed, so sleeping together may disturb each other, and choosing to sleep in separate rooms is a behavior that is beneficial to both parties, so in the case of hitting it off, sleeping in separate rooms is completely valid.

The second premise isYou also have to make sure that after the room is dividedCoupleslife

Because physical contact is a very important part of intimacy, and if you also increase the pleasure and emotions of this contact by sleeping in separate rooms, it will be even better. We often see some jokes about this man before going to bed, let his wife turn over the brand, see who will sleep for you tonight, you see that this kind of puja will promote the relationship between husband and wife.

The third premise is that you have to have some other formIt can be a substitute for your bedtime communication

Mr. Hu has always emphasized that husband and wife must share more and talk more about their feelings in their daily life, so this time before going to bed is the best, you can talk about the pressure at work today, and what you are happy about today. So if after the subdivision, there may be less communication in this area, what do you want to use to fill it or replace it? You can use WeChat to chat, although we are in the same room, but we use text to communicate is actually quite interesting.

Or you watch movies and TV series together every night before you go to bed, and then talk while watching. Or you can take a course together, and you can discuss it in the process of learning, and talk about what happened today, which is a good idea. In general, as long as the core of the relationship between you and your husband and wife is strong enough, what kind of form it is is not the most important.

I don't think this can be judged, because some couples like to sleep in separate beds, and when two people have conflicts, but when two people reconcile, they will become very affectionate.

Of course not, everyone's thoughts are different, some couples have a very good relationship, but they still sleep in separate beds.

This is not okay, sometimes it is related to personal habits, and some couples are more privacy-conscious.