What to do if you are betrayed by someone, I am a person who has betrayed others, what should I do

Updated on psychology 2024-03-30
3 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    For example, there are some words that I don't use anymore, and every time I want to use them, I'm careful to bypass them and switch to another one so that I can miss you one less time.

    For example, there are some places I won't go again because there are so many of your footprints there.

    If you don't go, you can lose some memories again.

    For example, I changed my habit that I used to have a sweet tooth, and because you like it too, so the sweets are yours, and I changed to spicy food.

    For example, one day I stumbled through a photo album and found that you were on it, so I stopped going to that and I could forget about you a little more.

    For example, one day I accidentally opened a drawer, stumbled upon the bracelet, and immediately locked her deep under the box.

    In this way, you can no longer think of the person who gave the bracelet.

    For example, there are some stars, I like them, you like them, but I was defeated by you, she belongs to you, I don't like them anymore.

    For example, there are some songs that I like and you like, because you like them first, and even if they are moving, I will not listen to them again, let alone sing them again, so I will give them to you.

    That way, I won't think of you when I hear or sing these songs.

    For example, when I see friends who know you together, I may or may not mention you, but I try to avoid talking about you so that I don't think of you again.

    For example, if someone asks me one day, will they still miss you?

    It took me a long time to put your name and image up, and by then, I had completely forgotten about you

    Perhaps, the most effective and complete way to forget a person is:

    Find someone instead.

    It's like you've forgotten me, it's just so crippled that I can't learn it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In fact, it's not that you don't forgive others, but that you can't let go of yourself.

    He's just a passerby in your life, it's already over, just let him go, you still stay in this internal friction, thinking about why he betrayed the old Sakura Shed Waiter, why is he so hateful, wasting his mental time and experience, and wasting it to do more important things.

    The biggest loss is still yourself.

    There is reincarnation in the way of heaven, who is spared by the sky!

    I believe that a person who can do such a thing as betrayal must not be strong in his heart, he must also be a weak person, and he may also be suffering from self-blame and guilt.

    Why don't you turn around and thank him, thank him for reminding you that you don't take it lightly in the future, or if you are missing in some way.

    Forgive him for his cowardice and cowardice.

    When you think like this, don't you feel better than when you feel resentful and resentful?

    I have only recently had some small realizations, because I am in the midst of being betrayed, and the pain of day and night consumes my time and energy, delaying everything that should be done in a hurry.

    But when I thought about it and treated it the other way, I found that everything had changed, and my world was slowly returning to peace. When you change, the whole world changes.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can ignore it, but stay away from it.

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