How do you view the phenomenon of bride price in marriage?

I think the phenomenon of giving a bride price for marriage is a very reasonable phenomenon, after all, the woman's family has raised the bride so much, and she will marry into the man's family in the future, and this is a long-standing tradition of the Chinese nation.

I think that giving a bride price for marriage is a sign of respect and attention to the bride, as well as respect for the bride's family, after all, marrying the daughter who was raised by someone else's hard work.

I think it's normal to give a bride price when you get married, because the bride price money may be a kind of protection for the woman, so let them rest assured, and the bride price money must not be too much.

The phenomenon of giving a bride price for marriage is an unspoken rule in China, which is very common, but I think that now the bride price for marriage has become a comparison. It's very bad for this phenomenon.

I think the phenomenon of giving a bride price for marriage is very normal, but it does not mean that the sky-high bride price is normal.

Now the bride price for marriage is amazing, and many people are not for love, but for money, and they can also see the interests and selfishness in the eyes of some people.

I think it is really necessary to give a bride price when you get married, because after all, the daughter who has been raised by someone for decades can't marry into your family for nothing.

First: whether the man gives the bride price or not is actually a matter of respect for the woman. Second:

Whether the man can get the bride price can accurately explain the man's family background, and the woman's parents are down-to-earth. Third: If the woman has a reasonable bride price and the man starts to think about it, then you still expect the girl to live well after marriage? ?

At least it shows that the man is difficult to speak and unreasonable. Fourth: Don't bride price, the man still thinks that the girl must have something bad and is in a hurry to get married, and even thinks that the girl is a "bargain", and it doesn't matter to the girl after marriage, it's a big deal to divorce, and he didn't pay much money anyway.

Fifth: If the woman does not receive the bride price, outsiders must think that there must be something wrong with the girl, and even look down on the woman's family.

I think it is necessary to give a bride price for marriage, because after all, the daughter who has been raised by others for decades goes to her in-law's house, and she should give something in return.

Why did the daughter who was raised by others give it to you for nothing? You don't necessarily treat other people's daughters well, marry a wife and don't give a bride price and want someone else's daughter for nothing, where does the face come from?

I think the bride price phenomenon is very common, many families will ask the other party to give the bride price, and some people will also choose to buy something to accompany them.

I think that giving a bride price for marriage is also a manifestation of your determination to live happily ever after the other person, and the money after marriage is all the two of you anyway.

It is normal to give a bride price, but it is not normal to ask for a bride price.

The main reason is that if you get married, you don't have the responsibility to support your parents, otherwise it can be free, and your daughter must pay a dowry to her parents if she has filial piety, and if her daughter has no filial piety, it is equivalent to buying her, isn't it?

It's all from the countryside. I met a girlfriend last year while working in Suzhou. I was Anqing, Anhui in 93, and Lianyungang, Jiangsu in 97.

I have bought a car for 120,000 yuan in 15 years, and the woman wants a bride price of 200,000 yuan, and she has to buy a suite in Suzhou, you must know that you can buy a 100-square-meter house in Suzhou, and the cost of marriage plus decoration will be about 3 million, and finally they broke up. In July this year, I returned to my hometown of Anqing, Anhui Province, and bought a house with a down payment.

The bride price is to be given, but there can be no comparison, love is not measured with money.

No matter how much, you have to give a point, and if you don't pull out a dime, you can't say it.

I can only say that I envy the people who can give so many bride prices for marriage, and don't want me. The bride price was given 36,000, but she paid for a car worth more than 100,000 yuan, which was so annoying.

The bride price must be given, but it must be done within one's means.

If two people have a good relationship and are about to get married, but they can't talk about it because of the bride price, then see if the woman's demands are too high, and if the other party is not rich, then the demands are not too outrageous.

Combined with the economic conditions of the other party.

Every place has its own customs, just like the bride price, each place has an approximate price, but not everyone can afford it, if the man's economic conditions are not very good, but also have to combine the other party's conditions, can not be a bite to decide, here are all given so much, so it is not interesting.

Recognize the other person's sincerity.

For many girls, the amount of the bride price is really not a condition for deciding whether to get married or not, but for fear that the other party will not be sincere. For example, if you want to take advantage of the woman's convenience, but you don't want to give it even if you have money, this kind of is too frightening, and if you really don't want the bride price, the man will say that you can't get married. Therefore, if the other party is sincere, it will not be difficult to talk about it because of the bride price.

Don't get married for a while.

The amount of bride price required is generally decided by the woman's parents, and it is only for the sake of the daughter's life that is somewhat secure after she marries. Therefore, if you have no money at all, and you can't even afford to pay the bride price, then your married life will be of no quality, and it is better not to get married for the time being.

Work hard to earn money.

Don't get married for the time being, it's not that you won't get married, but you must first work hard to earn money, and when the conditions are ripe and you have money to support your expenses after marriage, it's not too late to get married. Of course, this income does not only refer to men, but also to women.

End the relationship.

If the two parties have no affection in the first place, the other party has no sincerity, and they do not want to give a bride price, and they originally planned to get married, but in the end they get stuck on the bride price, and neither party gives in, then it is better not to get married. Otherwise, even if you get married, you will be noisy and noisy, and you will not be happy.

In China, bride price and dowry have always been an issue that must be faced before marriage. The bride price refers to the gifts and money that the man gives to the woman when he marries the woman, while the dowry refers to the woman's use of the dowry as pre-marital property, heir status, and necessary items for the marriage ceremony. These two concepts have a long history of emergence, but their importance and influence in contemporary society are still considerable.

However, with the progress of society and the development of the times, bride price and dowry have carried too many social expectations and emotional pressures, and different regions and families will have completely different understandings and opinions about them. Some believe that bride price and dowry are the traditional way of expressing the number of ceremonies and family status in a wedding, while others believe that they are symbols of feudal ideology and carry too much greed and profit.

How to balance the bride price and the dowry has always been a question worth considering. First, there is a need for a legal system that clearly regulates and regulates bride price and dowry to prevent them from becoming irregular. Second, in matters related to bride price and dowry, people should not only consider personal interests, but also consider more general social values, such as the protection of freedom of marriage and the preservation of family harmony.

In addition, the standard of payment of bride price and dowry needs to be properly balanced. When determining the specific amount, the two should be carried out on the basis of mutual consultation, and it should not be treated as a matter of money alone, ignoring the true meaning of marriage and the solid foundation of the feelings of both parties. Focusing on emotion, the bride price and dowry will be encouraged within a reasonable range to achieve a balanced effect.

Although bride price and dowry still carry important traditional and cultural values in society, we should seriously consider their deeper meaning and influence, retain reasonable content, and effectively standardize and adapt them to ensure their smooth implementation. As an important part of China's prosperous marriage culture, we hope that more newlyweds will be able to grow up happily in the family in the future.

Chinese bride price is a time-honored tradition and an important part of marriage and family. The bride price has always been an important wedding ritual in Chinese culture, mainly referring to gifts from a man to a woman, usually including gold and silver jewelry, red envelopes, furniture, electrical appliances, clothes and other items, the amount and value of which vary depending on factors such as region, social status and wealth level.

However, with the progress of society and the change of people's concepts, the bride price is no longer a necessity in marriage. Nowadays, more and more people are beginning to oppose the bride price, believing that it is a commercial act, which leads to the financial burden of many families, and also causes unnecessary pressure and conflict.

Therefore, although the bride price still exists in China, more and more people are beginning to accept the notion of no or less bride price. Some regions** have also begun to introduce policies to limit the amount and value of bride prices to protect the financial burden of families and the rights and interests of consumers.

In conclusion, although the bride price has an important position in Chinese wedding culture, it also faces more and more doubts and opposition, and people should respect each other's choices and avoid the impact of excessive consumption and commercial behavior in order to establish a healthy and equal marriage relationship.

I don't think the bride price should be a criterion for a person to choose whether or not to accept a marriage. As a tradition, the bride price should be based on sincere care and blessing, rather than a commercial transaction or consumption behavior.

Therefore, if I were to get married, I would respect my partner and our family traditions, but would also try my best to avoid the bride price becoming a burden on our marriage. I believe that in a marriage, the most important thing is mutual care, understanding and support, not the amount or value of the bride price. If my partner is able to think the same way, then we will start our married life very happily.

It is normal for the bride price to be remembered for marriage, which is also the tradition of disturbing the burial of auspiciousness in China for thousands of years. The amount of the bride price can be negotiated by both parents, but the sky-high bride price should not be required.

Hello, friend.

As an object, because of the disagreement on the bride price, most of them have been encountered, but in the end they will be resolved peacefully, which is conducive to the concept of the two families and the happiness of the two people's married life in the future.

If two people have a good relationship and are about to get married, but they can't talk about it because of the bride price, then see if the woman's demands are too high, and if the other party is not rich, then the demands are not too outrageous.

Combined with the economic conditions of the other party.

Every place has its own customs, just like the bride price, each place has an approximate price, but not everyone can afford it, if the man's economic conditions are not very good, but also have to combine the other party's conditions, can not be a bite to decide, here are all given so much, so it is not interesting.

Recognize the other person's sincerity.

For many girls, the amount of the bride price is really not a condition for deciding whether to get married or not, but for fear that the other party will not be sincere. For example, if you want to take advantage of the woman's convenience, but you don't want to give it even if you have money, this kind of is too frightening, and if you really don't want the bride price, the man will say that you can't get married. Therefore, if the other party is sincere, it will not be difficult to talk about it because of the bride price.

Don't get married for a while.

The amount of bride price required is generally decided by the woman's parents, and it is only for the sake of the daughter's life that is somewhat secure after she marries.

Therefore, if you have no money at all, and you can't even afford to pay the bride price, then your married life will be of no quality, and it is better not to get married for the time being.

Work hard to earn money.

Don't get married for the time being, it's not that you won't get married, but you must first work hard to earn money, and when the conditions are ripe and you have money to support your expenses after marriage, it's not too late to get married. Of course, this income does not only refer to men, but also to women.

End the relationship.

If the two parties have no affection in the first place, the other party has no sincerity, and they do not want to give a bride price, and they originally planned to get married, but in the end they get stuck on the bride price, and neither party gives in, then it is better not to get married. Otherwise, even if you get married, you will be noisy and noisy, and you will not be happy.

I think the bride price is a bondage to marriage, and I don't approve of the sky-high bride price.

First of all, the bride price is a guarantee for the woman's marriage, and the high bride price is a pressure from the marriage for the man. Two people are going to enter the marriage hall, not the grave of repaying the loan. The bride price is a custom from ancient times to the present, but the sky-high bride price is no longer in line with the law of modern social development.

It is a blasphemy of love, an insult, a kidnapping of interests that measure feelings in terms of money, and it is necessary to sort out the values in marriage.

Secondly, in the long run, the bride price is "destined to evolve with the evolution of people's lifestyles and the transformation of their spiritual outlook, and precipitate impurities in the great waves of the times". "Precipitating impurities" may be a long-term process. Fei Xiaotong thinks:

The responsibilities of both men and women before marriage — the importance of which is to extend the personal marital relationship to the responsibility of many and to expand the marital relationship from a personal emotional hobby to a complex social bond. Of these obligations, the most notable are reciprocal services or reciprocal gift-giving of an economic nature". Today, more and more noisy men and women are "eager to marry love", and the appearance of sky-high bride price makes people say "can't afford to love".

The bride price is too heavy, and love is weightless.

In the end, love is a matter of two people, and the knot of the bride price needs to be solved by two people, and it needs to be rationalized.