How to grasp every balance in life

There will be a balance at every turning point in life! Everyone has their own four seasons, so don't compare your own winter with someone else's day. Lose calmly, gain indifferently, fight for the inevitable, and go with the flow.

Many things in a person's life are predestined, often can not have both, should choose the big and give up the small, trust your intuition, don't put too much pressure on yourself.

When it comes to balance, I don't usually look for it. Because, in this world, the more you deliberately seek to solve many things and things, then it will often deviate from your predetermined track. Everyone has their own ideas and principles for doing things.

You just have to be firm in your thoughts, grasp your principles, and go with the flow, and that's enough. With this foundation, then the point where things have developed is the balance point of its own choice. What you need to do is how to improve its shortcomings, remedy its mistakes, and think about the insights it gives you.

Just as Mr. Lu Xun said: There is no road in the world, and when there are more people walking, it becomes a road. What applies to this question is that there is no balance point in the world, you don't have to think too much about it, according to your principles your mind chooses, then this choice is its balance point, and at the same time you are yourself.

I've always held to the idea that being a person and doing things are the same thing. Philosophically speaking, being a human being is a metaphysical virtual concept, and its existence is proudly embodied in doing things;

And doing things is a metaphysical and real way, how can the two be the same thing? In a country like China, where morality, ethics and political ideology are relatively high-pressure, success or failure is often the difference between success and failure.

Become the standard by which a person is evaluated. It's sad, but it's also realistic!

In this case, it seems that doing things has become the whole value that we ordinary people want to pursue—not only for food, clothing, shelter and transportation, but also for the evaluation of the secular concept of existence in this society as a physical person.

So, how do you do it? Perhaps everyone has different opinions on this issue. However, as a media person, how do you do your job well? Mr. Wang gave us a profound and vivid "education lesson" today!

As Mr. Wang said, as a qualified media person, you must improve yourself in terms of concepts and methods. Mr. Wang put forward the concept of "serving the people", and further proposed the method of "serving the people" around this concept. If the idea is compared to the human soul or the spiritual world, then the method is the human body.

Only by combining the two perfectly can one become a person in the sense of a physical concept.

However, it is clearly not enough to be a person as a physical concept – because human behavior and way of thinking are directed rather than blind. Therefore, in order to integrate a person in the full sense, there must be a command system, only in this way can we do good deeds - this command system is the "brain" - only by using the brain to think about everything around us can we complete the judgment of the world more comprehensively!

Circle the above ideas into our actual work, that is, the principles, skills, attitudes, thinking, etc. that we must adhere to when we complete our work! As a "media person" who has just set foot but is far from entering the door, there are too many things that need to be learned, explored, and integrated slowly, and strive to find a balance between ideas and methods, and put into efforts in order to experience and progress!

Life is a balance, you have this, you will inevitably miss it. You want to get everything, and you often lose more as a result. I have three thoughts on this: having a goal, being grateful, and being altruistic.

1.Have a goal Set a goal, use the goal to guide the action, you will not deviate, and you will be more determined in your heart if you persist all the way, and you will not get anything.

2.Be grateful Be grateful, your mind will be peaceful, as long as you are alive, you must be grateful, grateful to your parents, grateful to your brothers and sisters, grateful to your other half, grateful to your children, grateful to your colleagues, and grateful to everyone and everything you meet in your life.

3.Altruism Altruism is self-interest, and many times, it is necessary to think in the distant direction, not just look at the immediate interests.

Be a person with goals, a firm heart, gratitude, and altruism, and you can balance your life. Balance is the wisdom of life, the wisdom of reconciliation with oneself and the world.

Desire is boiling water in a pot, and the human heart is tea in a cup. The water boils because of the heat of the fire, and the heart is not alarmed by the coolness of the cup.

When you understand a person, you will be moved; When you see through a person, you are disappointed.

When you see through people and things, you will learn not to be too good to people, you will understand that people's hearts are fickle, and you will understand that relying on yourself is the most peaceful.

When you see through everything, you may be more comfortable and more accepting of the worst.

When the heart is full of sunshine, the face will be radiant. Those who are always grateful are happy with themselves and others; People who always have a heart of appreciation are also pleasing to themselves. Stool guess stool.

For the bumpy life, you need to use your own applause to increase your strength, rather than being at the mercy of fate, it is better to be a strong person in life.

Only by turning the mood of complaining about the environment into a motivated force can we guarantee success.

In fact, life is a kind of balance, we live in this world, in fact, we want to achieve a balance, with this, we will definitely lose or miss that. So sometimes you want to get everything in the world, and you tend to lose more because of the imbalance in your heart. Sometimes don't expect absolute fairness in life, as if it has to be fair.

In fact, the word "fairness" is like two ends of the scale, the more you give at one end, the more hope you carry at the other end. Just like between friends and friends, between husbands and wives at home, and between children, in fact, as long as you endure more, you will get more hope.

Sometimes we are in the midst of many contradictions in this world, or when life is going to a low point, don't be too pessimistic, because we will eventually cross one obstacle after another and go up. When you're at a low point, don't be disappointed; When you are at the peak of your life, you should also think that this is temporary, and don't get carried away.

Don't be too attached to life, a balanced mindset can help you study Buddhism well.

Sometimes you choose, make some efforts on your own, persevere, and go through this road, just be worthy of your heart.

This life is nothing more than walking in the process of life, each of us is walking in the process of life, "the dew between the flowers of glory, the frost on the grass of wealth", everything is illusory. Having more may bring you more pressure and may cause you more troubles, so the life that life does not bring and death does not bring should be natural, and you should know what it means to be at peace with what happens.

There are many things in the world that you can't see too far, and sometimes if you see through them, you will feel heartache. Sometimes there are some troubles, but it's good to be able to go with the flow.