After giving birth to a second child, is it right or wrong to have a second child?

There are many people who have been troubled by the second child and have been entangled in whether they should have a second child, so there are many parents who have given birth to a second child because they always have to take care of their children and have no intention of managing some things at home, so the family will actually become more messy because of this, so is it right or wrong to have a second child? <>

Everyone stands from a different point of view, and may have their own different answer to this question, so from my personal point of view, I think there are still certain benefits to having a second childFirst of all, when giving birth to a second child, you can give your child a companion partner, and the child has a partner to accompany him in the process of growing up, which also has certain benefits, and when he has a person to accompany it, it can feel this sense of responsibility, and it can also let the two children grow up with each other, in fact, this is also a certain benefit for the two children. <>

There are many people who will say that after the second child, there is no time to take care of the family, no time to take care of themselves, and no time to work, then it will make life very urgent, it is indeed a second child, and the time will be used more on the child in the future, so there are many things that can not be completed, but this is not a wrong behavior, every child needs to be accompanied by others in the process of growing up, and needs others to take care of it, every child is born not sensible, and we need to take care of it. This is completely understandable.

There is no right or wrong to have a second child, only whether you can stick to itWhen you see some of the negative changes after giving birth to a second child, don't ignore the positive impact of having a second child, in fact, there are many times when a second child can bring us a lot of happiness, this happiness is irreplaceable by other things, so at this time will you also think that this is a correct choice?

Life is one's own, there is no right or wrong to have a second child, some people only have one child and their life is still a mess, and some people are equally happy when they have three or four children. Now there is no need to worry about whether the second child is right or not, since it has been born, then focus on how to solve the existing problems.

One more child has one more burden, eating, drinking, Lazar and education are really physically and mentally exhausting, and it is not a problem for some families with good conditions, and it is better for families with poor conditions to have less, so as not to suffer both adults and children.

It is right to have a second child. Because you have found a playmate for your child, so that he will not be so lonely, so that he can still rely on when he grows up when he is in trouble. At present, the chicken feathers of living in one place are only temporary, and they will get through.

I don't think there's anything wrong with opening up the two-child policy, but because of all kinds of problems with having a second child, I think this question should be asked to the parents of the child, who want a second child, but they don't weigh the pros and cons, so there will be problems.

That's right. For small children, they always want to have a companion, and one person is more lonely, so having a second child can allow two children to grow together.

It is right to have a second child, and with a second child, the family will be lively. With a second child, the first child in the family also has a friend to play with, so having a second child brings benefits to everyone.

Now the state advocates the two-child policy. Because if you want a second child, you can give your child a companion and make him less lonely in this world. When you are old, it also lightens the burden of your first child.

This should depend on the family conditions, and whether you really want a second child, if you have a second child, if the family conditions do not allow it, you should not give birth.

I think it's up to the individual. I will feel happier when I have a second child, and the eldest has a companion, although life is a little chaotic at the beginning, but after that, I will be happier.

Having a second child is actually a wrong choice, because now the marriage is unstable and the cost of raising children is very high, so it is wrong.

Many parents will consider having a second child after giving birth to a child, and will also think about why they want to have a second child. Some parents feel that it is for their own future pension problems, in case their children are not filial enough and do not have one more child, then their old age life will be lost. There are also some parents who think that they choose to have a second child because they are afraid that a child will be very lonely now, so having a second child can give their children a kind of companionship.

In fact, no matter what kind of thinking you have to have a second child, you must be completely responsible for the child. <>

Don't be biased, after choosing to have a second child, you should also pay attention, and don't be biased between the two children because of the age gap. There are many parents who will say to the older brothers and sisters in the family that you are the elder brother or sister, so you have to let the younger brothers and sisters, such remarks make the younger brothers and sisters feel very tired, because in their minds they are also the first time to be a child, why keep letting others? Therefore, parents must pay attention not to be partial when educating their children, otherwise it is better not to have a second child.

In addition, parents should also put all their efforts into the process of accompanying their children to grow up, so that their children feel that they are looking forward to them growing up. The two children should be treated equally, and they must not be patriarchal. Patriarchy is the stubborn thinking of the older generation, this kind of thinking is very bad and completely wrong, don't choose to have a second child in order to have a son, otherwise you will feel more uncomfortable if you have a daughter.

Respect the child's thoughtsIf parents choose to have a second child because they are afraid that their child will be lonely, this idea is also good, but don't think about the child's idea in advance. Sometimes the child may not want younger siblings, and in such a situation, all the thoughts of the parents seem to be a little superfluous. As a parent and father, you must think more about your child, and don't always make decisions for your child from your own position.

As the population tends to age, the country has fully opened up the two-child policy. The significance of having a second child can increase the proportion of adolescents, slow down the process of aging, and also promote consumption. For families, you can let your children have one more person to accompany you, and when you are old, you will have one more person to support you.

Some people give birth to a second child in order to give Dabao a partner, and some people like children very much, so they hope to have another baby, and some people have a second child in response to the policy because the country has such a policy.

It is in response to the country's two-child policy, and many people have a second child in order to have a company for their children, so that their children are no longer so lonely.

It is to allow the child to have a companion, but also to reduce the child's stress and promote family relationships.

Hello everyone, I'm a mom of two babies! The eldest daughter is 8 years old, and the son is about to be 3 months old, from the daughter out to the present with the second child, I have always been with the child by myself, very simple My idea has always been to be able to give birth to raise, and no one else is obliged to bring you a child! If you can't bring it, don't give birth, I may say it more directly, but that's the way it is.

Do you have the same idea as me?

Every day, in addition to taking care of children, I will brush ** when I have time**Ah, I see a lot of families with two children, some with their own children, and some families to help with children! There are those who can't eat with their children, those who can't do housework with their children, and those who can do anything with their children, I don't know which one you belong to?

My daughter is 8 years old and in the first grade, and I need to prepare three meals a day for her, help her homework after school, and practice the guzheng icon. My son is about to be three months old, exclusively breastfeeding, and someone who called Yinslip said that if you have two children, the house must be a mess, and you can't do anything! Wrong I make sure that the house is clean every day, I don't have a habit of cleanliness, but I don't allow the kind of people who can't sleep at night if they can't clean up the house [cover their face].

I can be the kind of person who can never be idle, my daughter went to kindergarten at the age of three, I went to work while picking up the child, I felt very busy every day, after having a son, I returned to the family as a full-time wife, I plan to wait for my son to go out to work after kindergarten, no matter how much money I make, I just hope that my life is full and wonderful! Be a good role model for your children!

When I got married, I was asked for a bride price, and when I bargained, I felt like I was a cabbage in the market. At that time, I was too young to resist because of moral kidnapping. And before that, I was convinced that my parents were all the same and that there was absolutely no preference for sons.

From then on, my heart began to change painfully. I have been married for ten years. Now I live and work to support my family and children, and I will also give money to my parents.

Although the house I bought only last year is also being repaid by my housing provident fund. If I get divorced, I don't want anything, but I will leave it to my children due to the pressure of life. I don't want to see my parents, and I don't want to see my in-laws.

Divorce is not very likely, my husband loves me very much, and the children are very cute! With the rapid development of society, the phenomenon of "preference for sons over women" is becoming more and more rare in our lives. The slogan that both boys and girls are the same has gradually spread throughout China.

Although most young people now accept the idea of new education, they do not have so many requirements and restrictions for having boys and girls in their lives.

But inevitably, in our lives, there are still many old people who retain their previous stubborn thoughts. In their minds, only the boy is the hope of the whole family, the candidate for succession. Therefore, in the previous family, people had the pride and ambition of not giving birth to a boy.

And some old people will bring this kind of thinking into their next generation. So for daughters-in-law, they also have only one requirement, and that is to give birth to a grandson for themselves. If the daughter-in-law is not satisfied with giving birth to a grandchild, then in life, they will make it difficult for the daughter-in-law in every way.

1. The key depends on parents and family.

There are pros and cons to one thing, and a second child is not necessarily bad for you. Whether you will have a little playmate or a little influence on you depends on what kind of family your family is, what the atmosphere is, whether your parents are patriarchal, and so on. If your parents are more open-minded and will not shout at you everywhere because the second child is small, and will not let you lose anything, why stop it?

If your parents are patriarchal, and you are worried about your status, of course you have to come up with the right and effective solution.

2. Consider family conditions.

On the premise of looking at the parents, it is also necessary to help the parents consider the factors of family conditions. If the family conditions are good, after giving birth to a second child, it will not make you lose your original life, so you can not stop it; But if the family conditions are not good, it is not recommended for parents to have a second child, because it is difficult to raise one of you, not to mention that Liang Yin has to raise a younger brother and sister!

3. It's also good for you.

If your parents add a younger sibling to you, it will be better for you to take a long-term view. If you are an only child, when your parents are old, the task of supporting your parents will fall on you alone, but if you have a younger brother or sister, you can support your parents together at that time, which will reduce a lot of burden for you.

4. Parents are not there to take care of you.

After many years, your parents are gone, and you are old, but your younger siblings are still young, and you don't have no relatives, wouldn't it be nice that your younger siblings who are in the same vein as you can take care of you.

Children are the greatest hope and sustenance of the family. Family life is fun when you have children. I think it's best to have two children at home.

The reason why I say this is because it is too lonely to have one child at home, it is too heavy to have three children at home, and it is best to have two children without being tired and taking care of each other.

1. An only child family with a child, the child is too lonely.

It seems ideal that a one-child family can devote all their resources to this one child. ......But the reality is that the child is very lonely. ......Without peers, the child's daily life will feel lonely and not have the fun that the child deserves.

Such a state is obviously not good. Therefore, it is not ideal to have a child in the family.

2. Having three children at home is too burdensome, which is not good for parents and children.

If you have three children in the family, the burden is too heavy. ......Such a family will not only be busy in daily life, but also affect the quality of life, which is very disadvantageous for both parents and children. ......Therefore, a family with three children is also not ideal.

3. If you have two children at home, you will not be tired of taking care of them, and the children can also take care of each other, which has the best effect.

Compared with the loneliness of having one child and the heavy burden of having three children, a family with two children is just right. ......The burden brought by the two children is not too big, the parents can cope with it, and because they have playmates with each other, the children will not feel lonely, and the two children can play together, take care of each other, and fully enjoy the fun of childhood. ......Therefore, the situation of having two children in the family should be ideal.