What if you don t want to share a house with your girlfriend, and you re afraid that she will be ang

Since you are already your self-considered best friends, there is no problem, you must understand each other when you can come together, and you must be considerate of each other if you have problems. If there is anything that can be laid out and said clearly, the two sides cherish each other and will not turn their faces casually.

In addition, you can also find an excuse, such as a boyfriend, and there are relatives at home who want to live with you. In fact, if you don't have a boyfriend, it's good to have a companion, take care of each other, and discuss things with each other, but it's really inconvenient to have boyfriends, if it's because of this, tell the truth.

You just say that you are inconvenient, for example, the company is too far away, and you can't make it convenient. Or say you have parents who want to play and need a place to live, or or your boyfriend will come to you, so it's inconvenient.

If you find a company and stay in the company, then directly explain it to your girlfriends, don't explain it more and more vaguely, causing unnecessary misunderstandings, then it's not worth it, so don't have any scruples, don't think nonsense, honesty is the best feeling, good luck!

If this is the case, you can say that you live with your relatives, or your relatives are also looking for you, so there is no way to refuse, as long as you say so.

You can sincerely say that you like to live with her, but the company requires new employees to live with the company for the first few months and cannot come out because the training courses are very close.

Since it's a girlfriend, it's okay to just say it.

Sometimes if you think too much, the more complicated the relationship becomes.

There's nothing to be embarrassed to mention, sooner or later, you're going to have to move to the company. Either the company is busy during this time, and the leader has arranged a room for you.

Since it's a best friend, then tell her the fact that you can't share a house, you can say: I'm afraid I can't share a house with you, my new job has a dormitory, close to the company, in order to work overtime safely, I am ready to move to the company dormitory. Otherwise, you can also come to work in our company, so that we can live together again.

People always pursue love and eternity, but they always forget how to maintain and manage their marriage. How many people still stick to the vow they made at the wedding, "no matter what the situation is, always love him as one" When in love, the wind and snow can be expected, and each other is showing all their love to each other all the time, and the occasional small surprise will always move the other party. Once you enter marriage, only firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea remain, and you will no longer talk about romantic surprises.

Living with girlfriends is not as good as you think, and it can be the fuse that destroys each other's friendship (and couples too!). ）。

Living habits are too poor.

Of course, good friends are happy to stay for a few days, but if you live together for a long time, you really have to consider each other's living habits! If a person has a habit of cleanliness, a person is super casual, and the two together are absolutely **There is no other option For example, hygiene habits will be the fuse of quarrels with each other One may be put on the table for a long time after eating, and the other will be sorted out immediately, you see, can this not quarrel?

Utility bills. Although it is said that it is most convenient for two people to live together and divide the water and electricity bills equally, if one person wants to save electricity and only turn on the fan, and the other person is crazy about the air conditioner, or everyone is at home at different times, some people may feel that they don't have to pay when they are not there, which is really a tricky problem! Therefore, it is recommended that before living together, we must first communicate the apportionment method that is acceptable to everyone, so as not to cause too many problems in the future.

Cleaning and cleaning. If you live together, you will have common spaces that everyone will use, such as bathrooms, living rooms, kitchens, etc., and it is important who and when these spaces should be cleaned. If you are unfortunate enough to share a room with a roommate who doesn't like cleanliness, it will really be a nightmare.

Refrigerator repentance food.

Right! You really read that right! There are really super thunder roommates who will steal food that is not their own Obviously, the drink or milk that I just bought back, the ice will sometimes disappear inexplicably in the refrigerator, strange! Is it hard to eat what you bought?

Take someone home for the night.

The most important thing to live under the same roof is to respect each other, sometimes friends may bring the other half back for the night, but if the frequency is too frequent, it will really bring a lot of trouble to yourself, after all, home is a place to relax, you don't want to open the door and find one (or several?). Strangers sit in their living room! This is my home!

There are many times when it is good to get along and it is difficult to live together, but a girl's girlfriend should be much better.

When I was in college, I had two like-minded good friends, who were also good roommates, and later good girlfriends, and we agreed to rent a house together and work together in the future, but God didn't fulfill people's wishes, and with the graduation season approaching, we had to go to the ...... of separation, just like those couples

After graduation, I came to Shanghai alone, in the vast city of Shanghai, I feel that I live very lonely every day, commuting to work by myself, when I rest, I can't even say a word all day, because no one can speak, sometimes I really wish there was a salesman to call me **, although they are both in another city, but they don't live together, so the three of us have become only able to communicate and chat in the WeChat group. Tell about the happiness and sadness of every day.

Later, by chance, the place where I worked was going to recruit a macro person, one of my friends happened to have an idea to come over, so I recommended her, and then, we were together, living together, even the workstations were next to each other, we seemed to have returned to the campus era, eating and drinking together, chasing dramas together, being late together, and being scolded together, although the salary is not high, but every day is really happy, every time I send a circle of friends, I can attract a lot of envious voices, not to mention others, I envy myself, hahaha

I think it's okay to share a room with friends, but you need to have your own space, especially in the city of Shanghai, and you have to share a house if you want to live in the city! After all, the house price is too expensive! [Yun Bei] shared housing must have their own space, must see if friends are suitable for sharing together, sometimes go out to play together do not feel, but after really sharing a house together found that you may not love hygiene, do not love housework, then you will be miserable!

The best thing to do is to go to his house and see [haha] wait, what am I talking about?! In short, sharing a house is the same as living in school, everyone is humble to each other, become friends, and then deepen their feelings and become better friends! [doge]

I think that when sharing a house with others, we should first consider the following three points: 1. Three views of personality.

Are your friends(s) who share the house generous? Is emotional intelligence OK? Is the gossip mouth broken? Is there something to say? Is there a possibility of bad intentions? Can you tolerate each other with your personality? You have to think about it.

2. Habits of life and principles.

That's too broad! From commuting time, going to bed early and late, taking people to stay overnight, and as small as bath time, you have to consider whether everyone is in tune with each other.

3. Money issues.

Everyone is not a trench, and they don't want to be a long-term wrongdoer. Buying groceries, daily necessities, going to restaurants, etc., how to divide the money should also be one! Open!

Begin! Target! Time!

Wait! Say! Clear!

Clear! Anyone who rents a house knows that sharing a house is "wanting to rent a better house for less money", and sharing a house with friends is not to worry about strangers being unsafe, and secondly, to be able to take care of someone in a strange city, and to have someone to talk to when work is stressed.

But just like couples living together, there will also be people who break up because of the other party's snoring, poor hygiene habits, and other details. It's the same with friends sharing a house, whether the relationship is good or not, and whether you can live together, are two different things.

My friend regretted sharing a house with her best friend, and the two of them often had constant friction because of trivial things in life. For example, she is too tired from work to come back to the rental house and don't want to talk, but her girlfriend insists on talking to her.

At first, it was all trivial, and the noise was over. But both of them have a lot of work pressure, and their emotions are always easy to be detonated by trivial things in life.

Later, the two of them didn't have the intimacy they had at all, who didn't mop the floor and who didn't wash the dishes, and who used more electricity this month, and both of them began to become very careful.

A friend said, "Before sharing a house, who would have thought that 'girlfriends' turned out to be quite unreliable. ”