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How not to be nervous about your speech How to make a good speech.
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To make a good speech, you must first make all kinds of preparations, first of all, you must write a good script, which requires you to read more books, learn more, observe and experience life, so that the content of your speech can be richer; Secondly, you should use some skills flexibly, and then do more practical exercises.
Read books and learn to accumulate various knowledge and materialsNeedless to say, there is a lot of knowledge in the head, which will be directly reflected when speaking, such as the accumulation of stories, good words and sentences, the integration of various knowledge, the ability to draw inferences, agile thinking, and so on. In the matter of reading and learning, if you are inefficient, you can learn to master the ability to read quickly, such as using the "Elite Special Speed Reading Memory Training Software", it is very easy to master the reading speed of one or two thousand words per minute (hands-on).
Learn to give off-script speeches。If you just stare at the manuscript and don't make eye contact with the audience, then the effect of the speech will be greatly reduced. Among them, memorization speech is a stupid way, but it is also a good way.
It is to write down what you want to say word by word, and then adjust and recite it word by word, sentence by sentence, and paragraph by paragraph until you are familiar with it. The other is impromptu speech, although impromptu speech does not require memorization of the speech, but it also needs to be prepared in advance to avoid falling into the embarrassing situation of sudden pause or deviation from the topic. So before giving an impromptu speech, make a clear outline and main points in advance, and conceive and rehearse it in your mind beforehand.
If you are worried about forgetting words or missing words during the presentation, you can keep your speech, frame diagram, or notebook in front of you.
Use voice and body language。Different voices can convey different emotions, and intonation and speed of speech are two key elements. When speaking, it should not be a single tone or speed, but there should be ups and downs.
In terms of specific methods, you can use a pen to mark out the sentences you want to emphasize when preparing for a speech, and then practice; Slow down when introducing important concepts and explaining complex theories, and don't be afraid to pause; When it comes to anecdotes or lighter places, you can slow down; It should be expressed in a natural, colloquial rhythm. In addition to sound, body language can also bring words to life. There are no set rules for body language, any posture that makes you feel comfortable will do.
For example, if you choose to stand, it is recommended that you spread your feet apart naturally when standing, and use your hands and arms to emphasize what you want to say. Or walk back and forth on the stage, stopping at important places; Or sit down and give a speech.
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Seeing this question, share a piece of knowledge you learned in the Peace of Heart Leadership Speaking course.
Most speakers are afraid of not speaking well, afraid of being laughed at after speaking, afraid of making a fool of themselves, afraid of not getting everyone's affirmative ......
What are these mindsets? We can call it the mindset of taking. For the speaker, it's an incorrect state of mind.
For those who have a desire for the heart, what you say will not be the most important part from the heart. You have a sense of vanity and put pressure on you to give a good presentation no matter what. You have a lot of pressure and you have to speak well in order for the audience to praise you and praise you.
Speeches don't have to be good, but what you say has to be useful to others. The correct speaking mindset is: sharing.
It's like if you have 10 pieces of candy and give 1 to each of the 10 audience members in the audience, is everyone happy? But if you ask 10 audience members for 1 candy each, will it be very nervous? Which mindset is more relaxed when you have candy for others and when you ask for candy from others?
Undoubtedly, of course it is easier when giving to others!
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As a speaker, you should always pay attention to the state of the audience when standing on the podium.
I remember that in Xinhe's leader speech class, Mr. Sun Jian once gave us an analysis about the reception of the audience. Every speaker wants his speech to be persuasive and powerful. If the speaker can think and analyze the problem from the perspective of the audience, then such a speech is often more convincing with emotion and reason.
In the speech, the speaker envisions himself in the position or situation of the audience, and satisfies the psychological needs of the audience to the greatest extent, so that the speaker and the audience are psychologically compatible, so that their speech can be listened to and accepted by the audience.
This is a point to note, and I hope you find this sharing helpful.
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A wonderful speech, you can do the following:
1. Try to use words that the audience feels unique, such as ancient poems, famous sentences, famous sayings, or new words that are relevant to the advantages and disadvantages of the times, so as to be fascinating.
2. Try to use comparative sentences and circular sentences to get twice the result with half the effort and attract the audience.
3. Try to use the method of echoing from beginning to end, highlight the key points, and launch the ideal effect.
4. The whole speech should pay attention to the logic of thinking, from shallow to deep, and explain the arguments and arguments clearly and clearly.
5. Prepare in advance, including memorization; A speech without manuscript paper is much more effective than a draft with it, and it needs to be read proficiently.
6. It is very important to know how to support things and have a good beginning; At the same time, the ending should be powerful and concise, and evocative.
7. Keep abreast of the audience's dynamics, know how to stop in moderation and strike while the iron is hot.
8. When everything is ready, you should pay attention to the manuscript, if it is a general meeting, it doesn't matter, if it is a more important occasion, it is recommended to use the special paper of superior quality contract as the manuscript, so that the things in the hand are more weighty, not so shabby.
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If a person has a strong ability to work and learn, but he doesn't like to talk, doesn't know how to communicate, and is not good at expression, can he be recognized and valued by classmates, teachers, colleagues, leaders, and subordinates? So being able to speak is an important skill for you to express yourself, defend yourself, and show your worth.
There are also many people in the workplace who have leadership skills but do not have the ability to speak, so leadership is weakened. In the face of subordinates, the speech is incoherent, the majesty is lost, and the efficiency is reduced? In the face of superiors who don't know how to communicate, interpersonal tension, and hopelessness for further promotion?
How many times, in the face of the endless talk of colleagues and friends, there is only envy?
So how can you improve your presentation skills? I think there are three points.
1. Look more
Read more books and articles on speech and eloquence. Speech has a strong scientific and artistic nature, therefore, the speaker must carefully and systematically read some speech-related books such as: speech, logic, psychology, linguistics, communication, etc., fully grasp the knowledge and laws of speech, lay a solid theoretical foundation, and then from theory to practice, with theory to guide practice.
In this way, you can improve your speech and eloquence level in practical application. If you find the above books boring, you can add 173 0106 3706 to receive the following e-books. You can also receive the system materials of Teacher Wen Ruohe's speech course.
2. Listen more
We wanted to improve our presentation skills, and the idea didn't come out of nowhere. It is likely that you feel bad about speaking at a regular meeting, but there must be other colleagues who have performed well and you want to learn to speak, so we need to listen to their speeches more to learn presentation skills. But what should you do when someone else's learning method, the way of speaking, may not be suitable for you?
Maybe choosing a speaking agency is a better choice for you at this time, there are teachers who teach a variety of methods, there are many classmates who are equivalent to you, and the distress is the same as you: the same speech is nervous, the same fear of speaking in public, the same want to improve your speech skills.
3. Practice more
Practicing speaking is like an exam in school, you study, you do the questions, but you still have to pass the exam (practice public speaking, work report, regular meeting speech) to detect the learning effect. Through the comments of the lecturer and the cognition of self-performance, let's see the effect of learning.
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