How to get intimate with couples in love, and what should couples in love pay attention to?

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First things first: positive and correct communication.

Don't communicate with all the ideas that you know about the other party, as the interaction increases, the relationship becomes more and more intimate, we will think that we know the other half very well, but what we think is not necessarily what the other party thinks. And this kind of idea of imposing on the other party will not only lead you astray, but also bring great distress to the other party. If there is a problem that needs to be communicated and solved, it is to ask the reason, not to announce the result, and do not use your own ideas to characterize the other party.

Never take things for granted, convey your meaning correctly, and communicate with a consultative mindset. If we understand our shortcomings, we should say them at the beginning of the relationship, firstly, to give the other party a preventive shot, so as not to cause a huge gap in the heart in the future; Second, you can also show your honesty and show that you value the relationship. If you don't understand your own shortcomings, then you should take the initiative to make the other party happy after making the other party angry, and then be reasonable.

The second thing: give yourself positive guidance.

In the period of love, none of us listen, only believe that the other party is the best, and only see the good of the other party. But after the love is the dangerous period, in the dangerous period you will only slowly look for each other's shortcomings, and you will use a magnifying glass to see, the mentality is completely different, and you have become a person who "finds fault". At this time, you should do this, although you know a lot of the other person's shortcomings, but you can look at them in a positive light, think that his shortcomings are secondary, his strengths are primary, and there is a priority.

In the bottom of your heart, you think that the other person is the best, do not compare your other half with other people, ignore some people who you think are better and have thoughts about you, and keep your distance from them.

The third thing: believe that the other person will get better and better.

When we are in love, we will have a lot of expectations, we will find all kinds of advantages in each other, and feel that he is the prince charming in our hearts. But after this period of time, we will find that we are different from our other half, whether in personality or living habits, which will be much different from the perfect partner we imagined. There will be contradictions and differences between you, but if you are willing to continue to understand each other, negotiate your differences, be willing to compromise step by step, continue to accept each other, and appreciate each other from the bottom of your heart, then you will form a kind of confidence between you - no matter what difficulties you encounter in the future, both of you will be able to overcome them hand in hand.

Then you will definitely become partners for life, because you firmly believe in each other that each other will get better and better.

Summary: As the saying goes, "boiled frogs in warm water", we are often the least likely to notice the danger during the love period, but it is the most dangerous time, because when we are slowly presumptuous, although the intimacy has risen, it will slowly pile up a bunch of questions in the other party's heart, and the time of the volcano eruption is when you break up. It's hard to be consistent, but if we face it with a positive attitude, we will be able to grasp the steady happiness!

Couples in love should pay attention to preventing the weakening of the relationship, which means that they need to constantly promote the warming of the relationship. In addition, in daily life, it is necessary to maintain a sense of distance from each other, so that there can be a relationship in this relationship. Degree.

Couples in love should pay attention to their privacy and control their desire to control. But as a girl, I think that safety should be paid more attention to in love. Girls who are in love must protect their bodies and pay attention to safety in all senses.

Don't say what the boy says, this person is not necessarily the one who can accompany you to the end, if something really happens, it is the innocent girl who bears the consequences in the end.

Couples in love, in the process of getting along, must know how to take the initiative to pay for each other. We must also know how to tolerate and understand each other. Only in this way can the relationship between couples become better.

In love. couples should keep their proportions. Often, sometimes there will be complaints when you are in love too much.

So although it is a passionate love, it is also necessary to master consumption. There is also the scale of feelings, after all, there is still a lifetime, and it is worth the world. I don't know what will happen in the future, so don't be in love and not be married, Xie is pregnant, this is a very bad thing.

This is a monetary moderation, don't think that it's not appropriate to spend money lavishly, you must know that you will earn money later in life. Consumption requires both parties to restrain each other, one to save, the other to earn money, so that love will be sweet forever.

In love, couples must pay attention not to show their emotions too much, and let this emotion slowly integrate into each other's hearts, so that it can be long-lasting, although don't pay too much at once, you will feel tired.

There are many issues that couples in love should pay attention to, don't do something excessive, don't hide anything from each other, and you must stop in moderation and don't hurt each other.

Don't rely too much on each other. This is mainly for girls, girls usually rely on boys after falling in love, and want him to do everything, once or twice may be nothing, but after a long time, boys must be tired and annoyed, so girls must remain independent, do what they can do by themselves, and don't rely too much on boys.

When it comes to money, you have to be clear. Many girls feel that after falling in love, they feel that they go out to buy something to eat or something, and it is natural for a boy to take money, in fact, maybe you are in love, but maybe your relationship is not to that extent at all, always spending boys' money will also make them feel uncomfortable, girls should also be independent in money, even if he doesn't let you spend, but sometimes you must rush to pay.

If it is not yet to the point of talking about marriage, do not choose to live together. Nowadays, cohabitation is more popular, and many couples choose to live together after talking for a long time, but after being together, many shortcomings are easy to expose, making the other party feel unacceptable, and finally choose to break up, which is very harmful to both parties.

Couples in love should pay attention to special girls, and be careful not to give the first time to a man casually, if a man gets your first time, he will not cherish you, which is a common problem for men.

Couples in love should respect each other, have a sense of boundaries, and even if you are a couple, you should maintain a certain level of safety distance and privacy.

Couples in love should pay attention to more communication, more communication, should understand each other, support each other, tolerate each other and answer appreciation, for their own future, should be to change themselves, for each other to change themselves will be better, so that each other is more satisfied, two people should work together with each other to move towards the marriage hall, should pay attention to change their own shortcomings and shortcomings, so that each other is satisfied, two people will really grow for a long time, a hundred years together.

Couples in love should pay attention to grasp the proportion, don't be happy and sad, but also pay attention to mutual respect, understanding and tolerance, and give each other a certain space, so that two people can continue to be together after falling in love.

Couples in love must pay attention, two people must trust each other, do not doubt each other, if there is a conflict, you must solve it, do not escape, if you escape, it will also make this contradiction become a bigger and bigger contradiction, and it will also affect the relationship between the two of you.

There are a lot of things that couples in love need to pay attention to. For example, two people must learn to communicate, and they must learn to be more understanding and tolerant. When there are small problems, learn to look at them calmly instead of making a big fuss. Respect each other in the process of getting along together, these are all things to pay attention to.

Couples in love should pay attention and try not to do some things that touch the bottom line of the other party, for example, you know that the other party hates some material things, but if you do this, he will definitely have a lot of good impression of you, so try to leave a good impression on the other party during the love period, and slowly let the other party know what he likes more, or some shortcomings in all aspects of his body, and let the other party accept it little by little, instead of exposing too much at once.

There is nothing special to pay attention to when a couple in love, the only thing to pay attention to is that two people should be honest with each other, don't lie, and be nice to each other.

Whether it is a couple in love, or a senior at what stage, you should respect each other, don't feel that talking about a relationship with each other means that you have to completely let the other party be completely attached to you, first you have to respect others as a complete person, and then you can say that you respect each other emotionally.

Couples in love should pay attention to giving each other a certain amount of space, and at the same time, they need to care more about each other, because only in this way will the relationship not fade!

1. Stay up late at night just to chat with each other.

I always tell you not to stay up late and don't stay up late, but when the two of them chatted and forgot the time, they forgot the previous advice. "It's not early, you're not sleepy" "Not sleepy, not sleepy, what about you" "I'm not sleepy, I want to chat with you" "Well, I'm too, then let's talk again". So, this conversation was talked about until the second half of the night.

Staying up late is not good for your health, but it's okay to be crazy in love. Staying up late just to chat with each other is a crazy thing that many couples must have done!

Second, you don't feel tired after a day of shopping.

Couples in love always feel that being able to stay with each other is the happiest. Generally, girls like to go shopping, and boys will accompany them. Two people can walk from morning to night, walk through dozens of streets, and still don't feel tired.

If it were an ordinary person, it would definitely not be so. However, couples in love don't think so, and they are happy for as long as they go shopping together.

3. Learn things for each other that they didn't dare to try before.

This usually happens to the woman. The girl doesn't know how to cook and stir-fry, because she used to be raised as a little princess at home. When I entered the kitchen, I was afraid of the sound of oil burning, and I was afraid of cutting my fingers when chopping vegetables.

But in love, she felt that these things could be tried, because she believed that in the future, boys would pamper her as a little princess like at home. So learning things that I didn't dare to try before, people who are in love think it's worth it.

Fourth, be willing to give everything.

In love, boys can talk back to their beloved women and their biological mothers. Even though he knows that he must be filial and filial, he has no way to do it for the sake of his beloved. Girls can also choose to marry away for the sake of their beloved, which is more crazy, but it is unknown whether it will succeed in the end.

In the process of falling in love, two people will give everything they have without reservation. Crazy for love, this is an essential one.

People in love have been crazy about each other and love. The above four performances may not be very comprehensive, but people in love must have done these four crazy things!

Couples in love should trust each other. When two people get along, trust is the foundation, and only by trusting each other can they feel happy in love. If one party is always suspicious, it will only cause two people to suffer from gains and losses, which will only lead to a rift in each other's feelings.

Distrust can only lead to two people being upset and even insecure. Suspicion will only make each other further and further apart. Therefore, when two people get along, the most basic and basic thing is trust.

2.Empathy. Everyone's thoughts are different, everyone has their own ideas, so you can't ask each other to think the same as your own, and many couples have conflicts, mostly because they have their own opinions and don't think about the problem from each other's perspective at all.

So, over a long period of time, there will be more and more quarrels, which will definitely lead to a weakening of the relationship. Therefore, when there is disagreement between couples, we must learn to think calmly, learn to communicate with each other more, and try to empathize as much as possible, so as to avoid a lot of contradictions.

3.Know how to satisfy the other person's psychology. Boys like to be admired, understood and needed, while girls need respect, thoughtfulness and comfort, so that after understanding each other's inner needs, they can meet each other's hearts and make the relationship more stable.

Therefore, in the process of getting along, you must understand what the other person really wants.

Talking about a sweet love is a happy thing, and if you can, everyone wants this relationship to last forever. Many lovers will choose to observe and test the other half in the process of falling in love, so couples should pay attention to these three places, don't hit the thunder into cannon fodder!

1. Freedom of making friends.

Do you allow your boyfriend (girl) friend to have friends of the opposite sex? The question in the idol drama is: Are you jealous?

Sometimes it feels like the other party's single friends of the opposite sex are like spare tires; Some are worried that their new friends of the opposite sex have intentions on their partners; Sometimes I feel that the other party's opposite-sex friend is too good, and I turn myself into scum in seconds, and my male (female) friend empathizes and doesn't fall in love.

The other party may slowly lose contact with friends of the opposite sex in order to reassure you, which seems to strengthen a layer of insurance for love, but it also has to pay a price. You have to spend a lot of time and energy with your partner, be his or her emotional sustenance, and be careful to prevent others from taking advantage of it.

It is better to give the other person the freedom to make friends, and when you do this, trust that your partner can also allow you to make friends of the opposite sex. Falling in love is a kind of fate, as long as the other party and friends of the opposite sex maintain the boundaries that friends should have, be generous and tolerant!

2. Privacy. During the love period, we can use the excuse of wanting to know more about each other, and let the other party tell us about their past experiences and current moves. You have a topic to talk about, but be careful, if you ask the other person to report to you in every detail, it will be a bit unfamiliar, of course, if the other person is willing to share it with you.

Everyone is an independent individual, has their own small circle, respects each other's privacy, to a certain extent, maintains the freshness and mystery of love and communication, and "distance produces beauty" is not unreasonable.

3. Money. If you fall in love, dating, and giving gifts all need to cost money, so you should pay attention, don't think that if the other party loves you, you have to be willing to pay because your financial situation is not as good as the other party, your own conditions are better than the other party, or you think that boys should spend money for girls. It's fine once or twice, but if it's like this every time, there will be an imbalance in love. Maybe you have met true love, and the other party is really willing to spend money for you, pay attention to "satisfaction".

If one day you have a quarrel, you have to accept the other person's complaints, and every time it is his or her money that is spent.

In any case, money is a sensitive topic, and it hurts feelings when you figure it out. You can give each other a little gift appropriately, or treat the other person to a meal once in a while, depending on the situation!

However, the emotional matter is not accurate, I have the ability to be qualified, I hope that couples in love should pay attention to these three places, of course, there are many places to pay attention to, together**.