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Dude, you can't do this I sincerely give you a few suggestions, you can try 1 Take the initiative to make friends, but one thing to note: be sure to make lively and cheerful, sunny and outgoing friends, so that you may be able to infect you and drive you to become such a person 2Don't always stay at home and surf the Internet, you can take the initiative to invite three or two confidants to go out to exercise, play ball, and breathe fresh air, which is not only good for the body, but also can drive away troubles, relax your body and mind, I don't know how many times better than you stay at home! 3. The rules of life, this is very important, it is recommended that you make a daily schedule, get up regularly every day, eat regularly, sleep regularly, and pay attention not to surf the Internet so late, which will not only disrupt your biological clock, but also cause great damage to your body; 5 This is the most effective, fall in love!!

But you need to adjust your state, you can learn something, recharge yourself, hehe. Hope it helps, buddy!

I didn't read what you said above,,, I just want to say!! If you really want to make friends, don't be too confused, hesitant... From the large amount of text you have, it feels like you have too many thoughts in your mind and an expression of other people's incomprehension of you,,, so it will be difficult for you to make friends ,,, friends!!

It's you who trust others a little more ,,, help them a little more!! Then in the process of slowly getting acquainted, deepen the relationship, become a dead friend,,, remember that there are thousands of ,,, friends, there are only one or two close friends,,, don't be too easy to insist on who is your best friend,,, use time and things to confirm that he will be your kind of friend.

You can make more friends,,, but you should be cautious when you want to make deep friends!!

I saw this 10 years ago and it feels so old, and now I'm also having such a problem what should I do.

You don't have a strong sense of purpose, you use it now, you are good to others first, that is, altruism is the best self-interest.

This shouldn't be too serious, right? Contact more people, no one will have so many friends, real friends are actually those few, but the more people you know, the less you will feel lonely, don't deliberately close yourself off a little more open and enthusiastic You are not too young You should find a way to do your own business Don't focus on this Good luck.

In fact, there is nothing wrong with your current life, it's just that you don't want to change It's just that many migrant workers who go to work live like this, but if you live like this, I'm afraid it's too negative, life needs to be constantly enriched, you need fun, you need to experience, you need to contact more people, you don't see through anything, everything needs to be improved.

Be honest, kind, and not selfish.

What do you say, go to the bar a few more times if you have nothing to do, you will learn everything, try it if you don't believe it, and give it a share.

Can I be your best friend?

You have to learn to communicate first, and you have to take the initiative.

Read more books, play games, and look at the video screen to have a little more language style.

It's a bit excessive, you have to know that some feelings need to be owed, don't be so urgent, you can slow down. But overall, you're still a worthy person. You don't have to have too many friends, a few are enough.

Is less but better? As long as you make real friends, even if it's just one, you have to be content.

Oh, what kind of mental method do you expect to learn!

Haha...Read more books on interpersonal communication in the dusty base, and it should be enough to be sincere to Feng Zhengren.

It's okay to talk about your heart.。。 But it won't reveal your secrets...

KNOWING YOU ... Sleepy trust you ... BE CONSIDERATE of You ...

Generous Tongling, lovely, no matter what difficulties you have, I will try my best to help you.

You're wrong. He will correct you, a mentor and friend who is always available for you to advise.

Good popularity, good reputation, and don't be very scheming.

Be sincere, learn to be tolerant, careful, and cautious.

Passionate, sincere and responsible.

Treat people with heart. Heart-to-heart.

Hehe, you and I have similar personalities, we don't necessarily have to find human friends, we can treat animals as friends, of course, if someone takes the initiative to make friends with you, then grasp it, of course, don't make more friends, to distinguish between good and bad.

Do you care about how you image yourself in the eyes of others?! ~

It is recommended that you can try to change your image, personality charm is not something that can be known, oh boys don't have to be handsome to attract girls, first of all, of course, a clean and refreshing appearance is a must, the first impression is very important, your words and deeds will be noticed by the people around you

Smiling is a must, not the kind of fake smile, to smile sincerely, even if it is a smile, it is very heartwarming, you must learn to help others, care for others. Action is the best proof of this, after all, the icing on the cake is always better than the charcoal in the snow

Learn to take the initiative to say hello, if you think like this, you won't be able to drop meat anyway. Don't worry about the little things. Generosity is a popular feature.

That's all for now

1.Read and read the book on this subject, and I will introduce you to this book, and I have read it a few times, and it is Carnegie's "The Weakness of Human Nature."

2.That is to be cheerful, to speak what others like to hear, what they like to hear, but not too outrageous, not to exaggerate. That's not fun.

3.Learn to joke more with your friends, just as modestly. It must be funny, don't be funny, don't say it so that others think you're boring, you must be funny, think about it before you speak, what is the reaction to what you say?

If you are him, what will you think when you listen to your own words, think twice before you speak.

4.Be cheerful, get in touch with more things, make friends, for example, the D room, the bar, that allows you to learn to talk to strangers, although not a good bird, you can not use them in the future.

5.You have to have a heart that thinks about others, and you can't be too selfish. Not only physically, but also psychologically, we must also think about others. Only then can others see you as a true friend. Caring for those you think are your friends!

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If a person wants to succeed in his career, he will always have all kinds of help from his friends around you, and it is difficult for a person without friends to make a career. How can I make more friends? First of all, you must exchange hearts for hearts to make more friends.

To make friends with others, you have to use your own "heart" to exchange for the trust of others, so that the other party knows that you are his good friend, true friend, and caring person, so that he can dedicate his "heart" to you without scruples, so as to achieve "heart for heart", this kind of person will not make friends, let alone make more friends. It's like a salesman who comes to the door to sell, he should sell himself first, and then the product. Because after the customer accepts him as a person, he will spend money to buy his products.

The principle of making friends is actually the same.

Secondly, seek common ground while reserving differences and make more friends. There are no people in the world who are exactly the same, and there are no people who have the same personality, temperament, and ideological views. As Goethe said:

It is difficult to find two leaves of the exact same shape on a tree. Therefore, it is necessary to "seek common ground while reserving small differences" and adopt the principle of "being correct in principle and being careless in small matters." Be generous when dealing with differences of opinion between friends, even if they have been wronged.

The exchange of views can be used to clarify right and wrong and achieve the goal of reconciliation.

The second is to change your temperament and make more friends. If a person has a stubborn temperament, too "individualized" habits, or is silent, introverted, and silent, it is difficult to make more friends. We should strive to become cheerful, go to the big social family to exercise, talk with others, and gradually improve our ability to communicate.

In this way, you can deal with anyone, and only in this way can you know all kinds of different personalities, learn how to behave in the world, and adapt to this society.

If you want to make friends, you must first make yourself extroverted, and here is the point. If you never reach out to someone, someone will reach out to you. The world is either active or passive.

In this regard, passivity is always at a disadvantage. So you have to take the initiative to make friends with others. No one will refuse to be greeted with a smile and a caring.

So this is up to you. If you want to be an extrovert and where to make friends. Then I'll tell you the best way.

It's just running the business, that's the best way to do it. That's how I came out, and now that I'm going there, I'm able to get to know all the people in one day. It's useless for others to say, it's still up to you.

Hopefully, thank you!

In fact, it is a very simple thing to interact with others, when you want to make new friends, you will regard them as your old friends, but you haven't seen them for a long time, you are not very familiar, such psychological hints, will give you some uneasy feelings, in fact, there is no special skill in talking to friends, it is nothing more than to find something, everyone is interested in things, talk slowly, and then slowly withdraw the topic, and even can comment on some things that have a common view. If you want a good friend's **, just ask him directly, in the process of interacting with people, if you are generous, it will make the other party feel relaxed, if you are nervous or feel strange, then the other party's feelings will also change.

Use local materials, say what comes to mind, and at the beginning, as long as you can use everything you can say, practice like this a few times, and you will know how to make friends.

In other words, just be bold and practice it yourself! Let's implement it.

Theoretically, friendship is built on conversation.

In fact, friendship is about money and time as a bridge.

The premise is that you know each other. It doesn't matter if it's cooked or not.

It's not that it's a friend who talks a lot. Personally, I think that making friends is: to treat each other as a success, after all, people's hearts must be exchanged for people's hearts, and eight taels are exchanged for half a catty!

You're more introverted.

Be bold and confident.

Talk to them.

Help him more and ask him how he is friends when the opportunity is right.

Just get along! If you can't get along, you can't turn your face!

Take your time and don't rush.

What is needed is time.

You don't have to make friends deliberately.

Just show yourself completely.

No matter how introverted a child is, he or she has his own strengths.

Be sincere to people, don't be too serious in what they say, and it doesn't hurt to make a little joke once in a while.

In fact, one of the lessons I have learned is that you must be thick-skinned, and if the other party really wants to make friends with you, they will treat you sincerely, and when the time comes, you just need to follow your feelings.

How to make friends ? Of course, it is to make friends with your sincerity. It doesn't matter what trick you want to use, the key is to have less contact with the villain.

Pay attention to cultivating your own observation skills. Interact with people a lot, and you'll naturally gain a lot of experience. (Practice makes sense).

Sincere, selfless, generous, just look at Song Jiang in the Water Margin!

Take the initiative, and then be honest, otherwise you won't make true friends.