When you hang out with friends or colleagues, do you choose AA? Why?

According to our living habits and consumption habits, we all eat AA, and then sing or something, and one person will be treated. The next time I come out to play, I will naturally change to another person.,Singing and entertaining are in turn.,It's basically AA when you eat.。 I follow everyone's wishes, and I will do whatever everyone thinks, and I think it will only cost a few hundred yuan to invite everyone to sing a song, which is not a big deal.

Rubbing rice or something, naturally everyone's opinion is more important, everyone thinks AA is better, and if you can distinguish it, then AA system. I think that a person can better reflect the harmony of the team, so when it is my turn, I will definitely not be stingy with these hundreds of dollars. After all, I ate a meal that others invited me before, and I can't be too picky when I get to the door this time.

I would choose the AA system, I think it's fairer, because every time I get together with friends, it's not a fixed number of people. It is possible that Zhang San will not come today, and it is possible that Li Si will not come tomorrow. If you take turns to entertain guests, there will always be people who will suffer and someone will take advantage.

It is better to AA system for every party, which is convenient and user-friendly. <>

Especially for us students, the money in our pockets may not be very much, and if it is because of the comparison and treats, it will really make it impossible for us to eat and walk around.

We generally say how to spend money before going, if there are few people to take turns to sit in the village, if there are many people or friends reunion class reunion generally choose AA, this everyone has no opinion, because sometimes it is not clear how much money is spent when going out to play, it is not realistic to let a person spend money, everyone AA play is not burdened, no one will feel uncomfortable. <>

Be fair and just, to AA. Ask for money afterwards, not embarrassed.

No one's money is blown by the wind, parents earn money for us to live, study, interpersonal, etc., this money is so much, how to use it is because of our own business.

Consumption of personal basic life, consumption of learning materials, examination registration, training registration, class registration, interpersonal communication consumption, etc. You have to have your own scale for these.

For example, if we invite everyone to a meal, within the scope of our economic expenditure plan, yes.

But then we got together again in the second week, and said okay AA, I went to pay the money, and I can't blame everyone for not saying it. On the one hand, people may think that you are not good enough (for example, going out for a picnic and buying a lot of things is more tedious), or you may think that since you have paid and do not speak, maybe you are richer, so you will not talk about it.

Maybe at this time you will be distressed and don't talk about it, but whether you have money or not, everyone may not know. Therefore, those who know your financial situation will naturally communicate with you, for example, they will tell you, "You have calculated the money for the last meal, and you should hurry up and find everyone to ......."”

If I understand, in fact, what I am more distressed about is that at the colleague party, the AA system, a friend brings a family member, is this part of the family shared equally, or who brings the person who shares it equally? (Answer found).

Fair and just, everyone is an individual. No one is obligated to pay your share of expenses, friendship is friendship. What is friendship, you are in a bad mood today, I invite you to have a meal and a drink, and I will pay.

You said that I was in a bad mood and asked you to pay, it was not appropriate, you got up and went to pay, this is called friendship.

There's nothing embarrassing, just take it as it is. I don't think this kind of thing is embarrassing. You tell people, and those who mind still mind. People who don't mind also think it's nothing, it's normal.

To put it bluntly: people who understand you will always understand you, and people who don't understand you will not understand you.

I think that's necessary. Because friends should be more pure, something that belongs to feelings. Or spiritual communication.

Or have common interests. It's a similar upbringing. Or maybe they have a common goal.

You can learn together, grow together, struggle together, cry and laugh together, so that you are good friends.

And when you're having dinner with friends, that's when it comes to material content. Friends should be equal and mutually beneficial, and there is no need for anyone to take advantage of others and suffer losses. Because once too much material content is accumulated, then the relationship is likely to deteriorate.

If you want to maintain a pure, equal and mutually beneficial friendship, I don't recommend asking friends to pay or paying for yourself, because in the long run, the relationship will be shaken. Even if your friend is rich, this will keep the friendship intact and rejuvenated.

Of course, sometimes it's not so clear. You don't have to AA every meal. But it can be changed to such a level, you have a treat today, and I will invite you tomorrow. Or today you invite me to drink milk tea, and tomorrow I invite you to watch a movie.

In short, I think that friends should be equal and not too much material difference. Even if you have material differences, don't take advantage of others too much, or be taken advantage of by others. I hope you can have a friendship forever!

It's good to eat with friends under the AA system, but it's okay if you don't have an AA system, and you won't be angry because of economic problems. Either you invite this meal, or he invites the next meal.

It's okay, I go out with my girlfriend to eat basically AA.

I suggest: girlfriends don't use the AA system, it doesn't matter who spends the money. If you have a lot of friends or people, you can AA system.

Personally, I think it's appropriate to hang out with friends.

The reason why I think that the AA system is suitable is a prerequisite, pay attention to the relationship of friends. Friendship is originally equal and respectful, and they become friends because they have a common personality and hobbies. For a small person like me, traveling with friends can afford to have more projects.

Of course, some people will divide friends into three, six, nine and so on, generally speaking, for people who have a request for others, invite friends who can help to go out to play, of course, you can't let people break the bank, this is to get along with the relationship, and do the things to be done.

If you are an ordinary friend, of course, you should choose the AA system, so that there is no psychological burden on each other; It's not very likely that ordinary friends hang out together, because ordinary friends are equivalent to nodding friends, and they don't know each other very well, and it's a bit awkward to hang out together (I think so).

Hanging out with good friends will make the trip much happier. However, when traveling with friends, sometimes it is really difficult to talk about money. I'm a "villain first and then a gentleman", let's talk about where to play first, the cost AA system.

After saying it a few times, a tacit understanding is formed between good friends, and there is no need to mention money in the future, just say where to play.

Some people may think that they don't need an AA system to hang out with friends, maybe it's because he has more rice in his wallet. For a small person like me, I have to make a "financial budget" in advance when I go out to play, otherwise I can only eat soil in the second half of the month. If you want me to treat all of them, there is only one condition, the other party has to help me earn more money, and I am willing to pay out of my pocket, this kind of friend is a cooperative interest relationship.

Yes. Basically, it's an AA system, so there's no burden on everyone. Otherwise, if you invite it today, I will invite it tomorrow, which will be very troublesome.

We don't choose AA, I feel that AA is too out-of-the-box, we usually take turns to treat guests at a time, I think this way is better.

Yes, the AA score is very clear. Brothers settle accounts. The result of inviting and going between colleagues and friends is the same, and it is not as clear as the flat share.

Of course, it is necessary to distribute the expenditure equally, after all, everyone is not rich, and it is good to divide it equally, which will not cause contradictions and is conducive to getting along in the future.

Yes, even if it is a brother, you have to settle accounts, I think money exchanges are easy to cause conflicts, or AA system is better.

Yes. However, we all budget about how much to spend and collect it together before leaving, and finally the excess is used as cooking expenses.

Yes, although there is no requirement that every penny is not bad, but in general, the money spent by everyone is basically the same.

Yes, you can also participate in going out to play, and it is natural to pay your own expenses, and this way you don't have to owe favors to others, and you can easily play.

I'll agree with everyone to go out with AA.,You can't go out with a person to pay for it.,Everyone AA is the best.,No one owes anyone a little fun to have a little fun.。

The best way is the AA system, I think this is easy, no need to owe debts, so that there will not be too much unpleasantness to get along for a long time, of course, someone voluntarily treats and that's another matter.

I feel that I want to cherish a friend, and I will be willing to invite her. I don't care when he asks me back, because since I think he's important to me, it's because he's given me something in other ways. Since I am willing to do this, I have not calculated, and I have to be equal in return in money.

If you often go out to eat, colleagues must AA, old classmates or friends are most of you invite me once, I invite you once, general relatives and family meals are definitely not AA, and it depends on who eats, general friends AA, close friends to each other.

There are many kinds of friends, and there are many kinds of dinners, for example, friends have not been in touch for several days, and if you want to get together, then call a few friends to have a meal together and talk about the current situation. As for the kind of dinner where you say that your friends go out to eat and want AA, it's pure entertainment.

That depends on the relationship between you and feelings, if the relationship is good you have to look at your own economic strength and your money habits, what is your own opinion, generally foreign countries are also aa system, so there is nothing wrong, maybe the traditional habits of the Chinese, enthusiasm or face, as long as you can break through yourself and boldly express your views, in fact, it is still courtesy, the best is the aa system, but it still depends on your own relationship with him and your motivation for getting along with him, it is impossible for everyone to pay every time, You are generous only to those needs that are best for the relationship and that are helpful to you.

It depends on the situation, friends who are close to each other can have a treat, there are contacts, and ordinary friends can AA, which will also avoid a lot of unhappiness.

Yes AA.

It can also be a person please.

Next time another.

Take turns sitting in the banker. If the relationship is particularly good, you don't have to worry too much.

If there are a lot of people, it is the AA system.

In the thinking of Chinese, friends eat together aa is a very bad behavior, easy to affect friendship, but there are always some people are more stingy, like to take advantage of a small advantage, in order to avoid this situation, aa is also necessary, but it depends on the relationship between themselves and friends, anything needs to be flexible on different occasions, whether it is suitable or not needs to be considered.

You can be generous with your own money, and if you use your family's money for school, you still need it!

This time he invited you, and next time you invited him, it would be fine.