Whenever you are confused, you choose what to do

Find the hobbies you like to do, when you are confused in life, don't turn on the TV at will, do a good job of finding your own hobbies, indulge in your own hobbies and hobbies with a lot of spare time, and set a small goal for your own interests, so that the wasted time becomes meaningful. Constantly improving themselves, most people feel that life is lost, because the pay is not proportional to the income, or the money earned is too small, so they are confused. Therefore, we must continue to improve ourselves, get up early every day to encourage ourselves and say "make a little progress every day, insist on bringing big changes", and encourage yourself. ‍‍

Study fully, some will say I don't know what to study. This is very easy to do, since you don't know what to learn, then learn everything, it's okay to taste it, when you are confused, you need to learn more breadth, the more things you learn, the better, the more miscellaneous the better, when you learn a bunch of skills and knowledge you will find that your perspective on the problem has changed, because you have built your thinking tools through what you have learned, you can roughly judge what you are suitable for. ‍‍

For myself, when I'm confused, it's good to do whatever I do, and I want to get myself moving. The self has imagined it a thousand times, and if it does not act, it will end up being a fantasy, but it will become disgusted with itself, and then the cycle will repeat itself, and the person will become lifeless, and will begin to escape, to escape from the people around him, from society, from everything that can be escaped. This is what I used to be, but now I don't feel lost, starting a job, the rest of the time I am busy with work every day is not enough to sleep, how can I have the energy and time to be confused again?

And at work, you will find what you are interested in and what you want to strive for. ‍‍

You must take the initiative to ask yourself, find out the most painful, shy, and invisible places in your heart, and repeatedly ask yourself if it is, right, do you want to do this! Get out of the environment and circle around you, and give yourself a lighter, emptier, and more opportunity to get in touch with freshness. People are often affected by various factors around them and it is difficult to jump out, your circle determines your height, you can consider giving yourself a chance to empty and then replenish again!

Climb the mountain and shout. To experience the high and deep mountains at a glance, to blow the wind from the heights, to see how bright the flowers on the mountains are. When you look at the scenery from above, you will also know how small the confusion from below is.

When I climb over the mountains, no matter how great the sorrow can be blown away, I will make a better life plan. KTV sings what you want to sing, sings what you have never sang, and sings what you dare not sing. Look at your strength, compare your scores, let yourself be released, and let yourself forge ahead.

When I feel lost, I usually take out a pen and paper, write down the problems I am facing, and then analyze the external advantages and disadvantages, what I have and what I lack. Gradually diverged, it is often possible to find that the breakthrough is in the first place, maybe it can be borrowed, and it is more clear how to give full play to your advantages and how to make up for your disadvantages. When you are confused, you don't know where to go, maybe you are faced with a lot of choices, or you may feel that you have no choice.

Confusion is a disease of the heart. Everyone has emotions, and when they encounter difficulties or difficulties in daily life, they are easily excited or have mood swings, which seriously affect their own grievances, and some things are confused and overwhelmed. Mood is the key, for a knot that can't be solved for a while, find friends and relatives or know someone to tell, or go to nature to absorb the air, shift the goal, relax yourself, this may relieve the mood.

Everyone has moments when they are confused, they are overwhelmed, their hearts are not quiet, and they feel that time passes very slowly. At this time, I would find time to go for a walk in the park or in the field, to see the blue sky and white clouds, to see the nature, to see the wheat waves blowing in the breeze, and to see the pigeon flying freely in the air. When the brain is simple, the whole person will slowly become simpler, and the confusion, troubles, and all kinds of unhappiness in the heart will slowly leave themselves.

1.The biggest characteristic of a confused person is that they don't know what to do, even if they are obviously very free, they don't know what they are thinking in their heads, let alone what to do; The second is that you are dissatisfied with your current life but don't know how to improve it. And I just don't feel it at all!!

2.I think the confusion is just because the ability is not worthy of the dream. Every person who is full of desire has a dream in his heart, and this dream, whether great or ordinary, will greatly affect our satisfaction with the state of life.

When a person feels lost and overwhelmed, it can actually be said that the ability is not worthy of the dream, because the heart is full of desire, but there is no way to get it, this feeling is very worrying, then it is natural to feel lost.

3.Therefore, to solve the confusion, the first thing to do is to sort out your dreams, calm down and think, what you want to get the most, from small wishes to big ideals, you can list them one by one, because these wishes represent your satisfaction with life, you only slowly realize or disguise your dreams, your heart will feel satisfied, in order to have a calm heart to feel life and love.

4.When we understand our dreams or goals, what we have to do is to plan, because nothing can be achieved in one step, if we want to achieve a big dream, we need to be down-to-earth, step by step, for example, I want to become a teacher, then I have to prepare for the teacher qualification certificate, if you want to take the certificate, you have to buy textbooks first, after passing the exam, you must actively prepare for the interview, and improve your eloquence through continuous practice, so that you can gradually get closer to my dream, which is why I say" Opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared", only by working hard and trying for our dreams, we can achieve them, realize the dreams in our hearts, get what we want, and naturally forget the existence of confusion.

5.During this period, I think the most important two words are "change", because in this process, we may encounter many unexpected obstacles, and we may also need to give up some of the original habits, so there is no doubt about change, according to your own plan, try to use psychological hints to tell yourself to accept these changes when needed, and after the change is a better tomorrow.

6.There is also a method worth introducing, that is, when your heart feels confused, or even a little breathless, you can choose to do what you like, if you like to eat, then let go of the bold eating, don't care about what to get fat, just eat happy, so that it will bring some comfort to your heart, and have a slightly better mood to better face life.

7.In fact, in the final analysis, the most important thing is to live and learn, because society is constantly progressing, if we don't insist on learning, we will be eliminated by our own industry or the whole society, and when the time comes, we will lose the right to choose freely, how can we not be confused? ? So, I wish you all the talent worthy of your dreams and a happy life!

If you are confused in the course of your career, it means that you have too little career planning for yourself, and if you know clearly what you want, you will not be confused! You might as well think about it when you have time, there are thousands of paths in life, which one you want to take! You can only see far if you stand high, or you can find a professional to help you plan.

Next, I will probably tell you how to plan your career, first according to your own interests, and hobbies, and then your own strengths and strengths.

There is also your own personality aspect to consider as a whole!

Then after choosing, what are the methods of how to successfully obtain such a career, and what are the things that have a role in promoting career planning, and what deviates from this plan, you will clearly know what you need.

What options do you think you have? Do you have to think, I know that you are confused now because you have no goal and do not know where to go, but the meaning of life is different for everyone, you can spread out your choices, think about what you lack the most, which one you want the most.

Calm down, think about what you like, and go in the direction you like.

Yes or have their own ideas and methods.

I usually stop and think about what I really want.

The most confused moment in my life was probably after graduating from college, when I couldn't find a job, I was very confused about the future, renting an expensive old house in the city center, and I didn't know what I wanted to do. What can be done in the future? Whenever HR asks about career planning, I will be confused.

Will you feel very incompetent, very confused, the future of the road in the end**? The ambitions I once swore were all a joke, and I was really helpless during that time. I feel like I'm almost a waste.

It feels like I'm going to be a waste of wood for the rest of my life, and it's a very uncomfortable feeling.

Then one day I suddenly figured out that confusion would only cause me trouble and make me hesitate. Instead of worrying about my future every day, why don't I stop and think about what kind of advantages do I have? What are the disadvantages?

What exactly do I like? What can I do? What do I want most?

Then after thinking about this, I will make a short-term plan for myself, maybe only for a day or a few days, and do things according to this plan, and if I don't think it will work, I will analyze the reasons and continue in a different way. If that doesn't work, then switch to another channel until you find what you really want.

I usually don't want to talk to a lot of people when I'm very confused, I think it's a bit embarrassing, especially when I tell my family, I'm a little afraid that they will accuse me, so I usually do it myself, but if I'm too anxious, I will choose to go out with my friends for a drink, sing a little song, and vent, I will feel a lot better.

In fact, aren't all young people like this now? It's not terrible to be confused, it's terrible to be defeated by confusion. Only after experiencing confusion can you know more clearly what you want. In the future, I will be able to face life more bravely.

Everyone will experience the "trough" of life, feel that they have lost the meaning of life, and they are very confused about their future and future. At this time, we adjust our mentality, reflect on our past, and learn from our experiences and lessons. Experience teaches.

Rekindle hopes and dreams for life. Build self-confidence and courage to walk out of the "trough" of life and face the future with confidence.

3. Believe in yourself. Have faith in yourself at all times. In the face of loss, we must believe that we can, come out of the loss and confusion, confidently face our past, look forward to our future, and let ourselves continue to be strong in our hearts.

Bravely move forward towards your dreams.

When you are confused, who do you want to accompany you the most?

First of all, what we have to do is to treat our emotions correctly, don't be easily a slave of emotions, don't be defeated by our negative emotions, we must correctly understand this emotion, and secondly, we must think about overcoming this negative emotion. We must know that confusion is something that everyone must face in the process of growing up, do not exaggerate their inner sadness and sadness, but regard it as a normal thing, and treat it with a normal heart, so that we can stabilize our emotions well and not lose control of our emotions.

When we calm down, we still have to learn to solve this confusion, we must know that many times the confusion is because we lack information, lack of understanding of the things we want to contact in the future, because the cognition is not comprehensive, so we will have panic, will not know what kind of road they want to choose, do not know how to plan for their future.

Therefore, the first step in solving this confusion is to have comprehensive information, and after calming down, we must devote ourselves to what we are going to face. Try to gather as much information as possible, and have a better and more comprehensive understanding of what you will face in the future.

Once we have a certain understanding of the future, we will make a choice, if we are not able to have a clear plan for the future. Ask a friend, teacher or professional for advice, we all know that listening to someone else's opinion once in a while will broaden our minds. If we ask some professionals, we can also get some relatively professional answers, and our views on this matter of confusion will also give us more inspiration.

We all know that others can't choose our path for us, others can't take our path for us, occasionally listening to other people's opinions will also make our thinking clearer, and some small suggestions and small views of others will also make us take a lot of detours.

These are some of the things we have to do when we are confused, we have to know that confusion is the norm, everyone has more or less times when facing confusion, so when we ourselves feel lost about the future, don't feel afraid. Solve it in the right way, and you will be able to achieve a better future.