Is it because premature baby girls are abandoned in garbage trucks because of son preference?

According to the reporter's investigation, it is not because they are patriarchal, but because they cannot afford the cost of the incubator. The incident took place in Jiaxing, Zhejiang. The premature baby was born three months prematurely and was in critical condition.

Because the baby is not yet full-term, it must be kept in an incubator. Due to the relatively large cost of the incubator, the couple are both out-of-towners and do not have jobs. On the spur of the moment, the father of the baby girl abandoned his daughter in a garbage truck in front of the hospital.

Whatever the reason, the father of the baby girl has already committed the grave sin of desertion. According to the relevant laws of our country, the father of the baby girl, Han, has been detained by the public security organs through compulsory measures. <>

This abandoned baby girl is still very lucky, if the sanitation workers hadn't found it in time and called the police, she might have died a long time ago. It can be said that Lao Han, a sanitation worker, is the reborn parent of this baby girl. The abandonment of female babies is very common in China, and there are many other reasons besides China's patriarchal feudal mentality.

Although there is equality between men and women in China, there is still a serious preference for sons over women in some remote areas. In some mountainous areas, everything is done to give birth to a boy. At that time, when family planning was still implemented, because many families hoped to have a boy to inherit the family business, and even many parents were in ** or artificial intervention, hoping that they could give birth to a boy, it can be seen that this child is very unfortunate, and they all say that children are a piece of meat on their parents, but these parents have no mercy.

I think the root cause of this phenomenon is due to the old feudal mentality. If it is because of the preference for sons, it means that these parents are not aware of the concept of equality between men and women. We say that both boys and girls are the treasures of the family, and they also have the right to survive.

I think these parents who abandon their children because their babies are sick want to be punished by the law, and they have to pay for their actions. Therefore, we must strengthen the moral education of young people and continue to improve the corresponding legal provisions, so as to eradicate the illegal act of abandoning babies at the source.

Although there is a widespread saying in China's folk proverb that "tigers poison does not eat children", in fact, in our long history, there has been a bad habit of "drowning babies" for a long time. Throughout history, this bad habit was most prevalent during the Qing Dynasty. There are three main reasons for this:

Poverty, patriarchy, and lack of contraception have led to a sudden increase in the population.

During the Kangqian period, the society was stable, the economy was prosperous, and the population increased sharply, far exceeding the load of the ecosystem, but the Qing Dynasty went downhill after the Kangqian period. The Qing Empire in the early years of Guangxu did not come out of the aftermath of the two opium wars, although the Qing Dynasty repeatedly banned smoking, but there were still a large number of farmers who used large areas of land to grow opium poppies, which made the already tight grain reserves even worse. At this time, the drought spread rapidly in Chinese mainland provinces, especially Shanxi, and many people could only survive by eating tree bark and grass roots, and the living conditions were extremely harsh.

The child born was unable to feed it, so it could only drown, and for a time the wind of drowning was hot.

Coupled with my country's long-term patriarchal thinking, the main victims of infant drowning are female babies, and many female babies are abandoned after birth, the number is as high as millions, and it cannot be completely banned.

However, due to the cruelty of drowning babies, many parents could not bear to see their own flesh and blood struggling and crying in the water, in the middle and late Qing Dynasty, some local people began to build small towers in the fields, and placed the babies who wanted to drown in them, leaving them to fend for themselves, hoping to seek solace in the soul.

After that, people followed suit, and the number of "baby towers" gradually increased. In the book "Walks in China" by the foreign authoress Gordon Corning, mentioned above, it is recorded that "these pigeon-house-shaped buildings were used to house the corpses of infants and children who died too early and whose souls were not yet fully developed, so there was no need to waste coffins to bury them." The little corpses were handed over to the coolies for 40 wen, or about 5 cents, to be transported to the baby tower.

It is said that the person in charge of guarding the "baby tower" at that time would burn the corpses in the tower every three days.

No, the father was penniless and could not let the child live in an incubator, so he impulsively abandoned her.

The specific reason is unknown, it may be because of the preference for sons over daughters, or it may be because the parents are not able to afford to raise them. Either one is irresponsible to the child.

No, because the parents later said that the premature baby girl was not in good health and needed to pay very expensive medical expenses, and the parents could not afford it, so they abandoned the baby girl.

The report mentioned that the father of the baby girl abandoned the baby girl because he could not afford the cost of the incubator and was not patriarchal, and the father has been arrested for the crime of abandonment.

Because the child was born prematurely and needed to live in an incubator, the husband and wife were outsiders and could not afford the medical bills, so they abandoned the child.

No, it's because the child is a premature baby who needs to live in an incubator, and the couple can't afford to pay the high medical bills so they choose to throw it away.

Premature babies were abandoned in garbage trucks, not because they were patriarchal, but because they couldn't afford the coolers.

I think it's patriarchy, and there are still many people who are affected by feudal society, and they think that girls are just losing money and don't want it, which may have led to this tragedy.

It has a lot to do with the concept of patriarchy, otherwise such a young child would not be thrown away.

No, it was the baby girl who abandoned her because she had to live in an incubator because she was born prematurely, and her family income was not large and she could not afford the hospital fee.

The incident of abandoned babies in Guangdong actually made many people very distressed. The child was abandoned by his biological parents by hanging on the doorknob of a public toilet, and after a doctor's examination, the child was actually in good health. Why are these healthy children abandoned?

In fact, there are three reasons, the first is a minor single mother, the second is the feudal mentality of preference for sons, and one is that the family is really difficult to raise this child.

Nowadays, many girls don't know how to protect themselves, and in high school or even junior high school, they blindly believe in boys' nonsense, and finally get pregnant unexpectedly。Now because their development itself is not mature, sometimes the manifestations of pregnancy are not obvious, and their parents do not think that they are pregnant, and even they cannot realize that they have childrenThey are still children, of course, they are at a loss when they encounter this kind of thing, so they will abandon their children.

The second point is that although everyone's thinking has improved nowHowever, there are still many people who are imprisoned by feudal thinking, believing that only boys can pass on the lineage, the girls who support them will not support their parents when they grow up, and they will raise the girls, and then the girls will go to other people's homes when they grow up and become outsiders. And family planning can only have one, or at most two children, and they abandon girls in order to want boys.

The last point isIt is indeed difficult for biological parents, and people will always encounter this or that thing in their livesSometimes, I really can't even afford to eat. What's more, a child, this child is also suffering and suffering with them, they feel that it is better to have a child together and let well-wishers raise them.

The above three points are the reasons why biological parents abandon healthy children.

And when the daughter grows up, she is going to get married, and she is a person who walks out of the family, and after she gets married, she doesn't have much contact with her mother's family, so who will do the things that have piled up in the family? Who will send the old man to the end? This also caused the society at that time to generally think that "having daughters is useless".

Even some parents cherish their daughters, but considering the situation at home, they have no choice but to send the baby girl to the "abandoned baby tower", hoping that a kind person will pick up their daughter back.

However, this "tower" is not officially built, but built by the common people, after all, the abandoned children are also their own flesh and blood, it is inevitable that some unbearable, can not be abandoned in the wilderness, so the "abandoned baby tower" appeared, becoming a concentration of discarded babies.

It may be that these parents did not have the ability to raise him, so they chose to abandon him.

This is because the patriarchal mentality is more serious in them, which is why such a thing happens.

Maybe it's the old thinking, patriarchal, or poor, no money.

This may be due to the fact that younger girls have children before they are married.

It may be because in some places there is no realisation that boys and girls are actually the same status.

There are a lot of rural parents who don't have a shift in their mindset. No new ideas are received.

With the development of the times, today's society has been in an equal position between men and women, but this patriarchal thinking has been deeply rooted in some people, the reason why sons are favored over women, because they feel that sons are the means of production, but also the future of life security, behind the economic interests. In the past, the more sons people had, the more powerful they were in the local area, and most of them were here. And the daughter is someone else's means of production, and after she is raised, she has to pay a dowry and send it to someone else's family, so there is a huge disparity in the status of men and women.

Because there is a preference for sons in many traditional ideas. Many parents are not yet able to accept other ideas.

If I were a woman who was abandoned by my parents, I would often leave a shadow in their hearts, no matter how poor the family would be, or whether they would want to live with their biological parents. But he abandoned them because of the poverty of his family. Women also need the warmth of the family, the love and love of their parents, but their parents did not do it at this point, but they could not give them warmth, and if they gave up in it, it was impossible for women to recognize their parents.

But parents don't want their daughters to accept themselves, so don't be discouraged, as long as you are patient and care for your daughter in life, as long as your daughter cares about her all the time, then your children will gradually be willing to accept you two old people.

If your parents are forced to forgive, they are your biological parents after all!

Admit it, it's his business that she doesn't recognize you.

Hate, but have you ever heard that because there is love, there will be hate?

No matter how flesh and blood are connected, I don't believe you can hate them, forgive them so that your heart can be opened, so that you will not be hurt by thinking of this.

Give them a chance to make amends, because you will get the joy of your own peace of mind from this tolerance and forgiveness!

There will be retribution for mutilating innocent lives like this!

Alas, the old ideas of feudalism (patriarchal?) Kill people! Parenthood has problems with moral condemnation and legal sanctions!

The concept of social ethics and the atmosphere are not healthy, and the whole people must reflect on it! As everyone knows, boys and girls are the same, daughters are also descendants, there are no girls, where are husbands and wives, where are families, social cells are gone, I dare not imagine what our society will become? In the end, how could it be this innocent little life that was injured and suffered??

Lamentable! Wretched! Exasperating! To those patriarchal parents and people, wake up! Ignorance will harm everyone, and eventually it will harm yourself!

I don't have that notion. It is not up to women to decide whether to have a boy or a girl, so how can they blame women for this, and now that men and women are equal, this concept should be abandoned.

I don't value young men and women, especially in this era of equality between men and women, this feudal mentality should also be abandoned.

I think it's very unreasonable for something like this to happen in modern society. Although there has been a preference for sons since ancient times, I have no preference for sons, and it is the same for both boys and girls.

I don't value sons over women, I think society is progressing, we can't still stay in the old way of thinking, now many women in society are more capable than men, and there should be a concept of equality between men and women.

I don't value men and women, because the ideology of modern people has changed, daughters are also their own flesh and blood, and the status of modern women has improved, and many things can be taken care of.

First of all, I think that patriarchy does not exist in this enlightened society, boys and girls are equal, we must implement this concept in everyone's heart, and respect every little life.

I'm not a patriarch. And I think my daughter is really very good, because her personality is more gentle and caring.

I don't really have this kind of thinking myself, because I was trained in college, and I hate this situation very much.

I'm not patriarchal, I think boys and girls are the same. Whether it's a boy or a girl, as long as they are born to me, they are all my flesh and blood, and I will love them very much. And now girls have to know more about their parents than boys, so I don't think girls are worse than boys.