My husband is in love with someone else, how can I let go

Data map) My husband went on a business trip again, and returned to the city where the woman was, I saw an email from the woman, saying that he was very painful and didn't want to give up the person he loved the most, but he didn't want to make him sad, she missed him very much, and her husband also wrote back that he didn't know what to do, and he couldn't contact her in the future, he thought about her every day, when I saw these emails, I couldn't control my emotions, and asked my husband, since I chose to return to the family, I shouldn't be entangled with her anymore, Why do you want to hurt me like this, but my husband said that I was too good to him, and he also felt that it was unfair to me, he was reluctant to me and the child, but it takes time to forget that a person has to be alone, and I know that he is really in love with that woman. Later, he told me that they met again, and the woman said let it go, so that it might be better for both of them, and told him not to look for her again in the future, and to treat his wife well. I don't know if it's really over, I know that my husband wanted to give that woman a sum of money to make up for her debt, but she refused, which made my husband feel more indebted to her and couldn't extricate himself, and now my husband is back home and waiting for our baby to come, but every night I hear him calling her name in a dream, I told him I can't stand that you still have someone else in your heart, but he said he would be good to me, he knew that he couldn't leave me, but he had to give him time to forget that relationship.

I was in pain, in the face of my husband's pain of being so attentive to another woman, I tried to pull him back with my own tolerance, but when I thought of them together, I couldn't let go, I was more painful than them.

There is a certain number in the dark, do you believe in the Buddha? The Buddha said that everything is arranged for the best. Maybe he owed her too much in his previous life, so he was entangled in this life.

In fact, you are much luckier than her, at least you can get the person you love and be with your lover for a long time. And she loves deeply, but she can only save it once in a while, do you know how many lonely nights she spends? If you really love him and don't want to lose him, you must learn to tolerate and accommodate, true love is fulfillment, not possession.

To love someone is to make him happy, and if he can be happy with her, then why deprive him? What's more, it's just a little warmer once in a while. I've seen a foreign tobacco tycoon who has a wife, and he often chooses girlfriends openly, and he has five girlfriends around him, and they often play together, have fun, live together, and share a bed.

Think about his wife, how generous she is, maybe this is true love! Finally, I would like to say that life is too short, so why should we be entangled in the emotions of having or not being? Cherish what you have!

If tomorrow were the end of the world, would you care so much? May you live happily for the rest of your life! Whether you can let go of some things depends only on your mentality.