My blind date boyfriend stepped on two boats, my parents forgave him, should I break up with him?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-13
52 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You won't be stupid enough to still listen to him lie to you, and still be with him Compare your heart to your heart What would happen to them if you had two boyfriends That kind of person is not worthy of being loved by others Don't be stupid anymore (To that person, you always say you can't let go. Actually, you can't let go of yourself! You always say you can't be at ease with that.

    Actually, you can't let go! So, every day, every day, you remember that person, like dragging a bag of garbage around, making yourself heavy and unrefreshing. Should have let go but didn't let go, is this your anger on yourself?

    That person has nothing to do with you, but you tie your hands with ropes and willingly continue to be controlled? So, every day, every day, it's not that you cling to that person, it's the phantom of that person that clings to you. )

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What would you do if he still pedaled two boats when he got married? Divorced? Will the parents be happy then? The result of that is to hurt your parents and pit yourself! It's better to pull back from the precipice and reconsider your future before the worst.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The answer I give you is to respect your choice and do what you think is right. At least that's what I thought! Do you take care of other people's feelings, do others take care of your feelings?

    It's better to think about it for yourself, marriage is a very important thing in your life, you have to grasp the happiness of the present and the future!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Now that someone else has gone on a blind date, is it necessary for you to be together again, you can have a good chat and see what he thinks in his heart! Don't waste each other's time!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Your boyfriend meets and chats with a new blind date, and the question here is doesn't he have a girlfriend like you? Maybe when your boyfriend gets married to a blind date, and you are still here to ask forgiveness or not, we don't care if you're happy anyway.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you do establish a love relationship with your boyfriend, then he shouldn't go on a blind date, that would be an infidelity to love. Love is selfish, DAO should be the only one, and he does this to prove that he is not sincere in his feelings for you, swaying from side to side. What's more, he is still chatting with the person on a blind date, let alone that.

    If you care about him, make things clear, ask why, and see how he performs. It's really not good, let's be ruthless and find someone who really cares about you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't want such a man, because you are like a spare tire, he is in a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship with you and goes on a blind date in private, clearly if he finds a girl with better conditions than you, then he will no longer contact you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It doesn't matter if you forgive or not, when a man doesn't care about you so much, then the harm to you must be far more than that, and if you accumulate more, there will naturally be results.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you can choose, you will not ask such a question, but directly choose to question him and separate it with him.

    Hands up. When you get into a conflict, it means that you can't let go at all, you just can't accept this kind of behavior. His behavior is indeed very bad, he has always had reservations in his relationship, and he is ready to make different measurements and choices at any time, naturally you will not get a sense of security, you should ask him and communicate with him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Stepping on two boats is unforgivable. du If it is boyfriend and girlfriend zhi, it must be mutually beneficial.

    Respect, mutual trust, dao eats back in the bowl, looks at the pot and answers, such a man and woman can't have it. There is no minimum moral cultivation. Good men abound in the world, don't be with such scumbags anymore, I hope you can find a good man who likes you and loves you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Do you still have to forgive him for such a man? I advise you to let him go, he can go on a blind date with others.

    dao, he didn't really want to marry you, and he didn't want to live with you for the rest of his life. Falling in love is a matter of two people, as you have to check yourself, what you are not doing well, and what is not satisfactory and unsatisfactory. If you love him, try to change it, try to do it!

    I hope you have a wonderful marriage.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Obviously shouldn't. It feels like you're a bit stupid to ask this question. It's your boyfriend, you have a girlfriend, and you still go on a blind date, that's not right. Break up early.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Such a boyfriend is too distracted, it's better to break up as soon as possible, even if you get married, his heart will not be all on you, and you will be the one who suffers in the end.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    DAO blind date also chats with blind dates. Look at how he chooses, if he chooses you and promises to cut off from the blind date in the future to chat, then you can give him a chance. If he chooses to continue chatting with his blind date, then forget it, you still don't forgive him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, if you are not in a romantic relationship, then both of you have the right and freedom to pursue other people.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you have been dating for a long time, and you have gone to each other's house, and he still does this, then such a man is too unreliable to reply, and it is good to break up if he does not answer, on the contrary, if you have been dating for a short time, then there is nothing wrong with him doing this, it is through choosing who is good to him, you can also do this, so you can pretend not to know, see how he does it, and give him a period of time to choose, if he becomes perfunctory to you in the future, then break up, you can't accommodate it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You find out that your boyfriend is on a blind date in private, and you chat with the blind date, girl, you meet a scumbag, he has a girlfriend like you, and he goes on a blind date, which means that he doesn't fight you, rides a horse to find a horse, eats from the bowl, looks at the pot, and is not married yet, so he treats you like this, you should leave him, and there is no reason to forgive him at all.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    What kind of blind date do you have with you, it's obvious that this man is not sincere to you. I think this kind of man is a bit of a flower. If he really likes you, if he really wants you. I won't go on a blind date.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Not forgiving him will speed up the breakup.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    My boyfriend went on a blind date again, and he didn't seem to treat you well? Now that you know, don't be nice to him, right?!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I went and kicked him. Maybe it's a huge pit long ago.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    This incident at least shows that you are not the only one in his love world. Do you think you should forgive?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you really want to break up, you won't ask such questions, but choose to question him directly and be ready to break up with him. When you fall into a contradiction, it means that you can't let go at all, you just can't accept such behavior.

    His behavior is really very bad, he has always had reservations in his feelings, and he is ready to make different measurements and choices at any time, and naturally you will not get a sense of security, which also means that he does not have you in his heart at all.

    If there were you, he should be afraid that you would be sad and not do these things.

    In fact, whether he has you in his heart or how important you are in his heart.

    It can be seen in the details of daily interaction.

    So when you find out that the other person doesn't care about you that much and loves you.

    It may be that I really don't love you anymore.

    Stop kidding yourself.

    You can talk to him about your feelings.

    If he does not want to correct or realize what he is wrong.

    Then there's no need to get along anymore.

    Otherwise, you can't bear it at this moment.

    In the future, he will hurt you even more.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    When breaking up, there is a blind date, which is very normal, there are many explanations for such a blind date, he may be deliberately angry with you, or he may be in line with the wishes of his family, or he may just cope with it and so on! In short, this is all superficial, you don't have to take it seriously, as long as he doesn't get along, he is willing to get back together with you, his character, ability, and health are good, he is willing to work and learn, just love you, marriage is a big thing, a lifelong event, don't misjudge for a little superficial little thing, if this person can't do it, he can't put his heart on you, it is recommended that you look at the problem comprehensively, look at the problem in the long run, don't dwell on small problems, and you can't just look at the present, I don't know if you understand, I wish you a happy marriage and a happy family!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's normal! I guess he thinks you can't get by!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Now go on a blind date behind your back, think about what you will do in the future.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    My boyfriend has also had it, but he forgave him, and now he is quite well-behaved, but this matter has always been quite uncomfortable in my heart, and I will sarcastically mock him from time to time. What does he do to you, if it is worthy of forgiveness, forgive, I feel that men sometimes understand things differently, and do not know how to refuse.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Absolutely not. What does it mean, you are not the miss right in his heart. He needs a girlfriend, but you can't satisfy his vanity. The reasons are found in all directions.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Let's look at it for a while. When the time comes, if you recognize his qualities in your heart, forgive him for the past, and if you don't recognize it, it is better to end it as soon as possible.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I'm struggling with this as well. Are you really better than him, or do you think you're better than him? First of all, you should correct your mentality and pay attention to the way you usually speak and do things. Now all you should do is show him that he is the best option for you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's just an excuse, who would idle their horses too good? If a normal man meets a very good woman, he can't do a blind date at all, but will show himself to regain some confidence so that he can match you... If the blind date goes, it means that once it is done, this side will immediately say goodbye to you.

    Not credible, not credible.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Maybe my parents forced me. You have to ask carefully, it's not easy for two people to be together.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Such a man is simply unreliable, no matter what the reason, he should break up with him decisively.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Landlord, are you still with him, all these years have passed.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I think you are not suitable for marriage, do you think about the reality yourself?

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    More than half of what he said is true, all of it, some of it is false, as for believing him or not, it still needs to be seen.

    And then there's the tone of his voice to you, so you have to pay attention. If he thinks you are very good, the tone will naturally be low, as if you have no confidence.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If your boyfriend is blind date, the first thing you have to ask yourself is whether you have given a clear answer to the other party.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It may be that the parents forced them to ask the reason and not be too decisive.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    No. (Too few words, don't submit).

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    What else to do with such a person.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    I don't care. She didn't have anything to do with that person, just went to take a look. Maybe my family asked me to go. Don't care, as long as he's nice to you. Trust Him and believe in yourself.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Ask why you went on a blind date.

    If it's forced by the family, you can be forgiven for dealing with the family or something.

    If you want to go. Unforgivable.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    There must be a reason for him, and the two of them talked about it, and if they believe that they can live well in the future, they will not be held accountable.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    He's looking for a way out for himself, so you can find a way out for yourself.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    He may not care much about you, and if a boy can't treasure you, then why should you be with him?

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    You like him. Don't give yourself excuses to blame Talo.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Now that you're all there, don't think about it anymore.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Forgive if he is forced, if not....Say bye-bye.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Go and talk to him patiently, ask why you want to go, and forgive him if there is a reason.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Since it was a matter of the past, is it necessary to be so careful? Everyone has a past, doesn't they?

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    I have such a friend next to me, he has a girlfriend, but he still goes on a blind date, I asked him why? He said that it is a universal selection and a focus on training. To put it bluntly, I just want to have a few more girlfriends, and then pick out the best one he thinks is the best.

    This kind of man is really annoying, isn't this just a split?

    Your boyfriend went on a blind date behind your back, and I don't think it's any different from splitting your legs. The biggest difference is that he doesn't know if he can do it this time. If the blind date is satisfied, then you are the ex, and if the blind date is not satisfied, then you are still the current one.

    He went on a blind date when he had a girlfriend, one was his curiosity about the blind date, but in fact, he was also curious about beautiful women.

    The second is to see which one is better than you. If the blind date is better, they may break up with you. He himself is to find a good home for himself first, and then kick out your girlfriend and make you an ex.

    Sanlai just doesn't really want to get married to you, because he's not sure if he really wants to marry you, he may have to shop around and decide, it seems that you are the one you want to compare.

    Such a boyfriend is really shameful. And you're not too unlucky, at least now you know the truth of the matter. I don't think you have to go to him to theorize, see what he means, you just break up!

    Even if such a man chooses to be with you after the blind date, you can't guarantee that he will be tempted to divorce you when he meets someone younger and more beautiful than you in the future. When the time comes, you want to leave, and it may be more painful. While you have nothing to achieve now, end it early, and don't give him another chance to hurt you, or you really brought it on yourself.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    I know that he meets and dates the girl on a blind date, and he still says that he loves me, and I am tormented in such a state of mind, and I want to leave, he said that he is reluctant to let me make a decision, and he said that he is just a general relationship with others, this kind of man is very cowardly in his bones, but I know him too well, and I believe that you know each other quite well after being together for so long, so you have to come out on your own, don't expect him. I wish you to live for yourself sooner, women also have the right to happiness.

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