How to know myself, what I am going to do

Everything has to be done for a reason.

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Problem description: I don't know what kind of person I am, what kind of personality I am, I love my boyfriend very much, the more I love him, the more he ignores me, I don't know why I make him hate, is it wrong to love someone? I don't have anything to ask for, I just want him to love me well, I can lose my parents just can't lose him, I see him as more important than my life, he just doesn't cherish it, I really want to know why he doesn't care about me so much.

Analysis: Because you care about him so much, let him feel that you are his, whether he likes it or not, he doesn't care. This should be driven by human nature, if this is easy, you try to dust this strong feeling for a few days, and then see the result!

If it still doesn't work, it may be your own problem, but it doesn't matter, as long as he doesn't have other women, then you still have a chance! As long as you work hard and chase after it, this is also a reason for human nature, we all think that things that are easy to get are easy to lose, and this is no way, as a human being, it is unavoidable.

What kind of person you are, what kind of personality you are, in fact, you don't have to change it in order to like someone. Because when you are in love, there is a potential force urging you to change yourself, and you don't know it! So it's better to go with the flow, I don't know how to go with the flow, and if I knew, I wouldn't have to type on the Internet late!

There is nothing wrong with loving someone, and if there is a fault, it is also 'loving' itself. It is what inspires us to love! Love one, time doesn't tell.

Wait a minute, I don't know if this will work, but I'm waiting, I don't know what I'm waiting for, but I know that waiting for that is the most important thing!

Well, it's useless to say anything, it's important to be yourself!

Okay, think for yourself, I'm going to sleep, and you might find out after a little sleep!!

Whether a person is in any occasion, whether it is at home, in the workplace, or in any team, he must understand his role, what he should do, have clear requirements and goals for himself, and be able to quickly enter the state and achieve the best ideal state.

Knowing what you should do and what you can do, you must devote all your energy to it wholeheartedly, so that you can strive to do all the work and affairs you should do, and assume all the responsibilities and obligations you should bear.

In this process, we must not rely on anyone's ideas and behaviors, but must do what we should do better, with higher quality, higher efficiency, faster speed, and of course, greater gains through our own efforts.

Only in this way will we allow ourselves to continue to make progress, accumulate knowledge and experience, accumulate skills and talents, and then strive to apply them to practice, continue to pass the test of practice, work diligently, not afraid of hardship, not afraid of tiredness and perseverance, do not forget the original intention, and persevere to the end, in order to achieve growth and rapid development and self-transcendence in the true sense, so as to achieve greater achievements.

What can really be rewarded is to keep doing practical things.

Many people feel anxious because they don't know what they should do. That is, there is no goal. If you can find your goal, then make a plan and complete it step by step. Do you still have time to be anxious and confused for the sake of your goals and keep working hard?

Please write down the 3 most important goals in your life in 30 seconds. To start, please start writing, don't stop, just write 3 goals.

Some people are writing, some people have already written it, okay, it doesn't matter if they don't write it. After listening to the lesson, we can give it a try and give ourselves 30 seconds.

In previous exercises, it was found that if you were given only 30 seconds to write 3 important goals, they would be the same as if they had thought about it for 30 minutes or 3 hours. They subconsciously seem to enter a state of "faster-than-light", and the three most important goals enter their minds and are written down on paper without thinking, and the speed often surprises the person who does the exercise himself. After statistics, we also found that 80 people have the same 3 goals:

The first goal is economic and career-oriented; the second is family or relational; The third is health or physical. Of course, this answer is not surprising to us, because these are the three most important aspects of our lives. You can try this exercise yourself and see how it goes.

You can also ask a loved one or child to do the same exercise, and the answers will surely inspire you.

We can also extend this exercise to include the following series of questions.

1) What are your top 3 career goals at the moment?

2) What are your top 3 goals at the moment when it comes to family or relationships?

3) What are your top 3 most important goals financially at the moment?

4) What are your top 3 goals in terms of health at the moment?

5) What are your top 3 goals in terms of personal or professional development at the moment?

6) What are your top 3 social goals at the moment?

7) What are the 3 most important questions you face at the moment?

If you force yourself to ask these questions within 30 seconds, your answers may leave you dumbfounded. Find the answer, it is a true portrayal of your life at the moment. These answers will give you an idea of what is most important to you in life.