How to deal with stubborn boys

1. Parents need to be strict with themselves and not "cross the line". Children will encounter all kinds of problems in the process of growing up, and when solving problems, parents should not just blindly ask their children how to behave. On the contrary, we must also be strict with ourselves and not "cross the line".

In this way, adults set a good example for children, so that children can learn from adults, and they will not be so rebellious and go against their parents everywhere.

2. Learn to use both grace and power in front of boys. For children who can't listen to the truth and are too willful, they must learn to use both grace and power. When the child has a big tantrum and is unreasonable, carry out reasonable cold treatment.

Take your child to a quiet place, calm him down, and let him bear the consequences. The purpose of this is to show our children that Mom and Dad love you, but that they still need to obey us on some matters of principle.

3. Parents need to teach by example. When boys have a strong temper, we parents need to teach by word and deed, many adults do not admit their mistakes to their children after making mistakes, but in fact, as parents, they should also admit their mistakes to their children, not only will not lose their majesty, but will make children respect their parents more. Moreover, it can drive children to develop a good habit of correcting mistakes when they know them, and can enhance the parent-child relationship.

4. Parents need to be patient when facing the problem of boys' tempers. There are many parents who feel irritated as long as their children are disobedient. At least he scolded the child, and at worst he scolded him.

If parents can't control their emotions, not only can they not solve the problem of their children being too strong, but they will also affect their children's emotions.

Parents should first control their emotions and deal with them calmly. If the child's request or what he does is unreasonable, he must refuse categorically, and on the other hand, respect his ideas, which is the most ideal way of discipline.

Don't abandon this principle, simply yell loudly, and say things that hurt your child's self-esteem, which will not only fail to achieve the effect, but will destroy the relationship between parents and children, and the child may be even more disobedient and deliberately angry with you.

When dealing with stubborn children. You can talk to him in a kind and kind manner, tone, and understand his motives, I believe that under your gentle inquiry, the child will definitely change his vexatious attitude and tell you what is in his heart.

A child with a stubborn personality should let him endure more hardships and suffer more setbacks, and only after experiencing the ordeal of setbacks will he reflect on himself. Without going through a lot of wind and rain, he will always go his own way.

A stubborn child can only be reasonable, tirelessly talking, and if it doesn't work, he will be asked to hit a wall, and he will get rid of this problem if he knows it.

Such children can only come soft, generally such children can only persuade education, it is not good to fight, the best way is to get along as friends.

What to do with a stubborn child? Enlighten him with your heart. Let him learn not to be a stubborn child, to be a sensible child, and to reassure his parents.

In this case, I want to hit him and strangle him.