What should I do if my 10 year old boy is slow to do his homework?

I am a governess, and the child I am teaching now is also in this situation, on the one hand, she writes very slowly, often copying a little Chinese and it takes a long time to write, and she also likes to procrastinate, and she is willing to write for a long time, so she often can't complete her homework. I feel this very deeply. To solve this problem, the following points should be done.

The first is to practice writing quickly, you see if your child has this problem, if it is just a more playful personality and does not like to write homework, then you have to do ideological work first. Set a relatively strict study time, such as 7:30 to 9:30 in the evening, this time is learning, then you have to do it every day according to this rule, you can't watch TV, you can't play anything else, you must write your homework obediently, and if there is no special plot, he is not allowed to delay for too long, and he hasn't finished writing until more than ten o'clock, which is also very unreasonable, after all, the child's energy is also limited, and adults can't always look at him. When necessary, let him know the lesson of procrastination homework, and let him experience a situation where he can't finish his homework and is scolded by the teacher for not handing in his homework, and he will naturally become well-behaved.

However, the friction is still a matter of character, if he does other things also have this situation, then it should be paid attention to, let him start from the small things in life, do not develop the habit of procrastination, such as eating, washing clothes, just finish it immediately, don't do half of it and do other things. This is not good for future study and work. As a parent, you have to work hard and supervise, haha, you have to work hard.

Don't worry, children will grow up slowly, I also came over like that, I am now in the third year of junior high school, and I have a lot of homework, but I can finish it quickly, so please don't worry, encourage your child! Encouragement is the driving force!!

The key to finding the problem is the line. Is it that I don't concentrate or I don't know how to do it, I'm stuck there or I don't want to do it... You have to find the key to the problem before we can help you solve it.

Children write homework very slowly, in fact, the main reason is because the child has not developed a good habit of consciously writing homework, in the face of children's homework, we parents should cultivate the habit of writing homework from the following aspects.

The first point is that when the child writes homework, parents should carry out appropriate accompaniment, and in the process of accompaniment, they should praise the child's homework process appropriately, you can praise the child's handwriting very neatly, and you can also praise the child's handwriting very seriously, of course, you can also praise the child's calculation speed is very fast, and you can also praise the child's attention is very concentrated, in short, you should praise the child for being very active in the homework, so that the child can write the homework very happily.

The second point is that in the process of children's homework, parents should pay attention to the child's attention control, generally when the child is writing homework, try to put less or not put some items around his desk to attract his attention, and when the child is writing homework, parents try not to look at the display or listen to ** at this time, do some loud things, which are easy to attract the child's attention.

Thirdly, before the child writes homework, parents should help the child review the knowledge points of the day, so that the child can purposefully reduce the difficulty of writing homework and make the child's homework more smooth.

In short, when accompanying children to write homework, we should pay attention to the cultivation of children's habits, so that children can actively and consciously complete their homework, so that children will change some bad habits little by little.

Parents guide their children to be more productive. Parents should start from their own children, analyze the reasons why their children are unable to complete homework, analyze the biggest difficulties of their children's slow homework, and then formulate improvement plans according to the reasons. If it is an attitude problem, it is still necessary to help the child correct the learning attitude, which can help the child complete a certain subject homework within the specified time, so that the homework will be more efficient and will not waste time.

If the difficulty of the homework is too difficult, you can teach the child to complete the easy ones first, and then write the most difficult ones last, so that planning the homework can improve the efficiency of the child's homework. The competition in education is becoming more and more fierce, not only junior high school students are under great academic pressure, but even primary school students are faced with the situation that they cannot finish their homework in the early morning, and primary school students who are still in the development stage can not even guarantee the basic sleep time, and many parents feel that it is not conducive to the healthy development of their children in the long run.

What are the reasons why you can't finish your homework? The weight of the work is not heavy on quality. Nowadays, primary school students are crazy about the number of homework, hoping to let children remember what they have learned by writing more, because there are many subjects for primary school students, all subjects together increase the burden of homework on primary school students, making them unable to complete homework tasks in time.

The difficulty of the job is out of range. Nowadays, the content of primary school textbooks is very rich, the types of questions are also varied, and the difficulty of the exam is also increasing, and the teacher always sends a lot of papers to students every day in order to get excellent results in the exam, and these papers are also very difficult, and the primary school students will spend a lot of time to complete their homework. Writing assignments is not concentrated.

Primary school students are not self-conscious enough, and they are easy to get distracted when writing homework, so they write their homework quietly.

Children do homework very slowly, this is mainly a problem of habit formation, parents should cultivate their children's ability and habits to write homework independently from the following aspects.

The first point is that when the child is doing homework, parents should accompany them appropriately, especially in the lower grades, accompany the child to write homework, and let him find the fun of homework, so parents should encourage the child appropriately, for example, the child's handwriting is very good, or the child's calculation is very serious, and the child's attention can also be praised for the child's concentration, which are all parents' praise for the child, and can also make the child very happy to complete the homework.

The second point is that in the process of the child's homework, the area around his desk must be cleaner, or neater, so as to avoid his distraction, put all the objects that can attract his attention on his homework desk, where he can't see, and can't watch TV or do loud things to attract his attention, the main thing is to focus the child's attention on the process of doing homework, so that he can better complete the homework.

The third point is that before the child writes the homework, the knowledge points of the day should be reviewed, and the homework assigned by the teacher is inseparable from the knowledge points of the day.

The process of children writing homework independently is a long-term and unremitting training process, and parents need to always pay attention to it, and they can see results in about a year or two if they persist.

If children do not write their homework seriously, they have not developed good habits, which requires parents to understand the reasons and cultivate the habit of children to complete their homework seriously according to the different reasons. It is important to understand whether the child is not mastering what he has learned, or is playful or lazy. If you don't have what you've learned, you need to help your child study hard.

If you're lazy, tell them the importance of completing their homework conscientiously. If you are playful, you can tell your child to complete their homework carefully before playing.

2. Writing homework can test children's mastery of new knowledge points, if you encounter a problem that you can't do, you should read textbooks and notebooks as soon as possible, sort out knowledge points and problem solving methods, so as to achieve the purpose of checking and filling in the gaps.

3. The age of the child is not very old during this period, so it is necessary to develop some of the child's interest in learning, even if the parents scold, let the child reluctantly sit in front of the desk, at this time the quality of the homework is not very high, through the correct guidance, let the child fall in love with learning, parents can play the power of example, do not play with mobile phones during this period, do not watch TV, accompany the child to read quietly.

4. Parents should urge their children to develop the habit of making homework plans, list all the homework of the day, arrange it to a specific time period to complete, and try to implement it according to the plan, so that there will be no lazy homework state.

5. Don't let your child develop the bad habit of writing homework while watching TV, let the child put all his mind on the homework, and find out a very scientific method to solve those correct answers, when the child has made a little progress, parents should immediately encourage, and don't blindly criticize after encountering setbacks.

6. Writing homework can increase the familiarity with the knowledge points, although the child has mastered the knowledge points and problem-solving methods, but the proficiency of solving the problem is not enough, and the homework is the process of repeated practice, as long as the child takes the homework seriously, it can speed up the speed and accuracy of the problem-solving, and there will be no problem that the exam is too late to do the problem.

1. First of all, we must communicate with the teacher to see if the child can concentrate on listening to the class in the classroom, children at this age are more playful, and the attention span is not long enough, parents can usually play some intellectual games with their children, such as chess games that require concentration and time, and train them to concentrate on attention, and cooperate with the teacher to supervise the completion of the daily homework, because the child is still relatively small, and the self-control ability is not strong, and the supervision responsibility must be fulfilled until he can complete it independently.

2. If the lower grades of primary school have not developed good learning habits and have not cultivated a strong interest in learning, then at this time, you have to go back to the book to analyze which course it is, which affects the child's learning momentum, if it is Chinese, you can let the child read more books, cultivate an interest in reading, and then connect with the textbook, if it is mathematics, you may need to find a teacher to make up the lesson.

3. As a parent, we should be a good example for our children, create a good learning atmosphere at home, and children must not watch TV by themselves when they are studying, and cannot say that learning is a child's own business, adults can do whatever they want, and adult's words and deeds are very important.

4. When you take your child to play outdoors, you can tell your child more examples of hard work, which is an example for children and is conducive to stimulating children's learning motivation. For example, when I take my children out, I will often call a friend's older child, for example, he has good study habits or learning methods, and then when they play together, I can consciously remind them, communicate with each other, and talk about good study habits and learning methods in a relaxed atmosphere, which is also a kind of promotion of success.

The solution to the child's slow homework is to make a plan with him, do not rush or disturb, and use the power of the school.

1. Make a plan with him.

It is a good way to make a plan with your child, to respect his ideas, to let him decide when and in what order to do his homework, and for parents to suggest improvements in terms of time. When a consensus is reached on the schedule, the child will willingly follow the plan. Because the plan was made by him, he had a sense of ownership.

For example, if he wants to go to bed at half past ten, that won't work, he must ensure that he goes to bed at ten o'clock. He wanted to put the piano after 9 o'clock to play, no, it had to be early, it was too late, it would disturb the people. He wanted to put the exercise last, but no, he was too excited to sleep.

He wanted to go home and play until 6 o'clock before doing his homework, but no, he played too much, and the time was not easy to arrange.

2. Don't rush or disturb.

Create a relaxed and comfortable environment for your child at home, and do not urge your child to do his homework or disturb him to do his homework. Let him develop good study habits on his own, so that he can concentrate and do his homework with peace of mind.

People don't like to be urged to do things, and urging will backfire and make children rebellious. Trust in his self-management skills and give him room to learn. If the child can really persevere, then a small reward can be given after a stage.

Encourage his efforts and progress and let him taste the sweetness. Over time, the child's good habits will gradually develop.

3. With the help of the school.

Communicate with the teacher about the child's homework at home in a timely manner, so that the teacher can supervise the child together, form a joint force between home and school, and strengthen the importance of time management. We all have this feeling, and it is easier for the teacher to emphasize it individually, which is more likely to attract the attention of the child. Children may not listen to their parents, but they like to listen to their teachers.

We need to be good at using this psychological tactic.

First of all, if he writes slowly, then you can buy him a notebook, and then set a time for him to finish writing at the specified time, of course, this is not a short time for him all at once. You can take it step by step, a little longer now, and then slowly shorten the time, and if he thinks slowly, you can ask him to do some mental power. Thinking activities or games to increase the speed of his thinking!

And if it's for other reasons, you can ask why he is moving so slowly, is it because he doesn't want to do it? Or is it because of some other reason? Or is it because you're used to it?

You can ask first, you don't have to say that the child is slow, you have to understand the reason first, sometimes it may be that the child has some other reasons, and then it has not been solved. We as parents should still learn more about ourselves, it may be that we don't understand the child himself, so that the child chooses to escape from himself or produce some other behaviors after experiencing some things, we may not understand, and then beat and scold him, etc. Then at this time, the child will have a greater rebellious mentality, thinking that if you think I am slow, then I will be slower.

Children are not only students in school, but also their own children, and they should still know about it. Sometimes there are dozens of students in a class in the school, and the teacher may not be able to take care of them, so at this time we should learn more about the child, not necessarily ask you directly, it may be a very happy question, it may also be a side knock, etc., of course, the child also has his own secrets, not necessarily all to ask, we can keep him in the good way, but if it is some knots, those should be untied from an early age, otherwise, the more you grow up, the more difficult it is to unravel.