How can you let go of a deeply loved and fruitless relationship?

There is a good saying, when you like someone, you will forget someone.

Actually, you can just think about it. Think about what you have, what you can give her, and will she be happy with you. Transform love into wishing her happiness. Being a friend sometimes lasts longer than being a "friend".

I don't think it's necessary to think about it so much, because since I chose to leave for myself, not for others, why bother with illusions and desire to leave a deep impression on his heart. As long as you make up your mind, don't break the thread in the future, and bravely pursue your own happiness, then you are the most beautiful.

If you know that it is a fruitless relationship, choosing to give up is the best choice. There's nothing wrong with wanting to leave with dignity, but it's a bit ill-intentioned for you to let the other party break up and still miss you after the breakup. We all know that no matter what kind of breakup, after the breakup, we must forget each other, no longer contact each other, no worries, in order to divide completely, in order to start their own new life, if the other party still misses you after the breakup, then you start a new life, but the other party still misses you, try to ask how the other party can start a new relationship and a new life?

What we need to focus on is our own emotional feelings, and how to deal with them, all we can grasp is ourselves. Do you choose to continue to work hard, overcome difficulties, and finish this road of love? Or is it a rational choice to give up decisively after self-introspection?

You need to focus on yourself.

Don't worry too much about whether the other person can remember the relationship. If he really values this relationship, it will naturally remain in his memory, if he doesn't value this relationship, it is just a passing moment, it has nothing to do with you, and it doesn't mean much to you, do you still want him to break the thread with you and renew the front edge?

Feelings are most afraid of dragging mud and water, and they hesitate. When you decide to end a relationship, be sure to firmly tell the other person, "We're never going to see each other again, we're going to never contact again." If you still love each other, then it is even more important to end it decisively and not have a chance to hesitate.

The feelings of separation and union and breaking the thread are a kind of harm to everyone.

The best meaning of breaking up is that you still have infinite possibilities when you leave him, and when you walk past, the sky is still blue and the flowers are still fragrant. After leaving him, you can still live a more beautiful, happier and nourishing life. Therefore, you must continue to improve, grow yourself, not for others, but for yourself, so that you can truly live the self you want, the better self.

If one day, if you inadvertently meet, beautiful, confident, more beautiful, and happy, you are the deepest impression!

Make it clear to the other party, tell the other party that in this fruitless relationship, you are very tired of walking, but you don't regret meeting him, and then turn around and leave in a chic way.

Tell your partner frankly the reason and persuade him and himself to accept the outcome. Don't let yourself feel guilty.

You should express your thoughts to the other party, and then you can leave with dignity only when you really say goodbye.

The most tormenting love in the world is probably the urge to persist even though there is no result. The beginning of love is often developed by the momentary goodwill of both parties, and at the beginning it may be just for a momentary pleasure, and there is no concern about the result at all, and when you really fall in love, you will often have a trace of luck for the future of both parties.

1. Explain the reason to the other party, and the two sides will get together and disperse.

There are too many reasons to fall in love and break up, no matter which one it is, the two parties are destined to really not be able to come together, and they can directly explain the reasons.

It may be a little unfair to the party who can't let go, love is inherently unfair, although it is a pity, it can't be said that who has failed whom. Don't hate out of love, this is a sign of selfishness and narrow-mindedness, which involves a person's character.

2. Treat each other as friends and settle down in the world.

Two people who obviously like each other can't get together for various special reasons, which should be the biggest regret in love. Treating each other as friends may be the best choice for the two.

It is the most difficult to let go of true love, and the person who has entered the heart is the most difficult to give up. If you are not in love, you have to stay with each other, and when you are in love, you can leave a sweet memory for each other. The two met and fell in love with each other, even if they missed it, they were at peace with each other, and the flowers bloomed freely may be the best result.