It is often not other people s desperation that torments you, but your own fantasies and expectation

That's right, that's a good thing to say, a person's emotional tribulation is often because their expectations are too high.

I think it's both! Yes and no.

Without hope, there is no despair.

Since you fantasize about being with that person, then you should be prepared for rejection.

1. Not to be more serious with society, because it is more affordable; Don't be serious with the villain, because it's not worth it; Don't be serious with your friends, because you can't give up; Don't be honest with yourself, because it hurts your body; Don't be serious with your relatives, because you are hurt and angry; Don't compare with the past, because it's worthless; Don't be more serious with reality, because you have to go on. It is a kind of happiness to live a healthy life, to live a dull life, and to be busy with pleasure!

2. Sometimes the mood will suddenly be very low, and I don't want to talk or move. When others ask, they don't know what to do. Really, I'm not pretending to be silent, I'm just powerless to speak.

3. How many people deliberately turned off their mobile phones in anger, and couldn't help but turn it on and found that there was nothing. He thought he was so important to him that he realized that he was a joke in the end. Don't be stupid, people don't care about you.

4. When you go out, it doesn't matter if someone else gives you a hot face or a cold face. The outside world respects the background, not the person himself. It doesn't matter if you're a friend or you're hot.

True or Kaizheng's friendship is the heart, not the face. Don't worry too much about some superficial emotions between people. People who are close friends don't need it, and people who are friends don't need it.

Emotions "If you don't care, it won't hurt you."

5. Do your best and listen to the destiny of heaven. Worthy of the heart, not confused. Follow the trend and be at peace with the situation. If you know your mistakes, you will change them, and you will know if you are lost. Be attentive to those who like you, and forgetful to those who don't like you. Such a life is very good.

6. Don't blindly compare with others, you will be leisurely. If you don't set your goals too high in life, you will always be happy. If you don't deliberately strive for perfection, you will stay away from pain.

If you don't always be yourself, you will live freely. If you don't find fault every time, you will be relaxed.

7. Only when you are down, you can understand how few people are willing to pull you. Only when you are poorest can you understand, no matter how good your feelings are, you can't beat reality. Only in a long life can I understand that romance is easy, patience is difficult, everyone can love you but few people are willing to endure you.

Therefore, the most important thing to cherish in this world is these three kinds of people: friends who send charcoal in the snow, women who are willing to accompany you through poverty, and men who endure you in everything.

8. It's good to be a quiet person, I don't like to scramble, I believe that my side group can't run away, it's not that I can't grab it. A group of noisy people I am responsible for smiling, not too happy and not too sad, this is the only time in the world, so calmly and calmly with the encounter, not disrupted by others. You can listen to the ideas of others and think about your own life.

Appreciating others, you are very good, I am not bad, you have a big world, I have a small life. It's a very good place, and it's easy to walk around.

The girl means that he is being tortured, because he still has fantasies and expectations in his heart, and what he expects is the unfulfilled expectations that he has fantasies about.

If you want to reply to his message, just tell him that you will always stand behind him, silently supporting him, hoping that he will look back at you and still be by his side.

The reality is very slap in the face, as long as there is no heart and lungs, it will definitely be passed slowly, but the most afraid of doing things is to have a good expectation, and there is no good result after having expectations is the most unacceptable. That's what she should have said.

This means that the person she thinks about is sad and physically and mentally tortured because of the long anticipation. It may be a girl's "lovesickness" that has a crush on a boy.

Reality and fantasy are different, what he expects is the unrealizable expectation that he has fantasies, so there is no good result after having expectations is the most unbearable, and this is what it should say.

It shows that he has fantasies about some things, but reality can't make him realize them. That's why there is such a talk.

The ideal is very plump, the reality is very skinny, and if the expectation does not meet the expectations, it will be lost and sad, which is understandable.