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Zi said: I have five out of ten and am determined to learn, thirty and stand, forty and not confused, fifty and know the destiny of heaven, sixty and obedient, seventy and do what I want, thirty and stand: at the age of thirty, people should be self-reliant, this standing, the original meaning is the meaning of standing, the so-called standing, that is, the husband has a place to live, and has a job. And not the meaning of aspiration!
Forty is not confused: When a person reaches the age of forty, he should have a successful career, not be confused by no karma, and have a certain grasp and understanding of life or career.
Fifty Destiny: Confucius believed that when a person reaches fifty, he has clearly understood the fortune in life and knows the true meaning of life.
Sixty Knowing Ear Shun: When a person reaches the age of 60, in Confucius's view, the year of Ear Shun should be the time when everything is not far away, so he will not feel that his heart is in service because of many mundane things. At the same time, learning is well-known "from knowing the destiny of heaven to hearing shun, learning to know, and the test of sanctification."
Not. Five. When you are 10 or 60, you don't know the destiny of heaven and you don't know it, so you can call it "and". ”
Seventy do what you want: experience and know your fate. After the ear is smooth, the academic and mental nature have reached a very high level, or to the point of sanctification, so they naturally do what they want.
What Confucius said was actually from the perspective of academic and personal cultivation, and people today give it many other meanings! It's also carried forward!
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This sentence comes from the Analects, Zi said: I have five out of ten and am determined to learn, thirty and stand, forty and not confused, fifty and know the destiny of heaven, sixty and obedient, seventy and do what the heart wants, thirty and stand: at the age of thirty, people should be self-reliant, this standing, the original meaning is the meaning of standing, the so-called standing, that is, the husband has a place to live, and has a job.
And not the meaning of aspiration! Forty is not confused: When a person reaches the age of forty, he should have a successful karma, not be confused by no karma, and be successful in life or career.
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The sentence you said should be thirty in Gu Yu, 40 is not confused, 50 knows, 62 years old.
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As the old saying goes, thirty is standing, forty is not confused, do you understand what they really mean?
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We all know that we stand at thirty and stand at forty without confusion, so what age does the ear refer to?
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Thirty and stand, forty is not confused" meansAt the age of 30, you should determine your direction and goals in life, and by the age of 40, you should be experienced and no longer confused by small things.
[Source].
The source of this sentence is a passage from the Analects, which is the division of life stages taught by Confucius.
[Excerpt from the original text].
Zi said: "I have five out of ten and am determined to learn, thirty and stand, forty and not confused, fifty and know the destiny of heaven, sixty and obedient, seventy and do what I want, do not exceed the rules." ”
[Translation].
Confucius said: "I began to study at the age of fifteen, established my life goals at the age of thirty, stopped being bothered by small things at the age of forty, knew my destiny at the age of fifty, was able to listen to different voices at the age of sixty, and acted according to my own will at the age of seventy, but I would not go beyond the rules." ”
[Appreciation].
What this article wants to tell us is that by the time a person reaches the age of thirty, he should have his own career and social status, and by the time he is forty, he should have experienced enough life experience to become a person with a stable life and a clear goal. This is a kind of life attitude and spirit, we must continue to struggle and grow, in order to better realize self-worth in life.
[Background].
This quote comes from the Analects and is Confucius's advice and guidance for all stages of life. At that time, the social background was that China was in the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, and the society was in turmoil, and people needed to face various complex problems and challenges. In such an environment, Confucius put forward this sentence, hoping that people can have different mindsets and behaviors at different ages to cope with different situations.
[Notes].
"Stand".It means that you have your own foothold, have your own career and family, and no longer passively accept the arrangement of fate;
"Don't be confused".It means that you have a deeper knowledge and understanding, and you no longer feel confused and lost.
[Life Enlightenment].
We can get some life inspiration from this sentence, that is, everyone should have a corresponding mindset and behavior at different ages. When you are young, you should have lofty ideals and goals, continue to learn and grow, and lay a foundation for the future; When you reach middle age, you should have a more stable life and career, no longer blindly pursuing, but purposefully pursuing your own value and meaning; When it comes to the old man shouting Huai Nian, he should have a deeper understanding and awareness, know the meaning and mission of his life, and face life with a more calm and comfortable attitude.
Personal experience also tells us that everyone's life is different, and we need to choose the right mindset and behavior style according to our own situation and stage. Only in this way can we go more wonderful and successful in life.
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Erli: 30 years old. "The Analects of Politics": "Thirty and standing." ”
Not confused: 40 years old. "The Analects of Politics": "Forty is not confused." ”
Cardamom: This is a botanical name that refers to a thirteen or fourteen-year-old girl. Du Mu's "Farewell" poem: "More than thirteen years of grace, cardamom tips in early February. Later, it was said that the girl was thirteen or fourteen years old as "cardamom years".
Weak crown: 20 years old for men. "The Book of Rites: Qu Lishang": "Twenty is weak, crown." "In ancient times, men performed crown salutes at the age of 20, so it was used to refer to the age of men around 20 years old.
Gu Xi: 70 years old. Du Fu's "Qujiang": "Wine debts are common everywhere, and life is rare for seventy years. Later, he used "Gu Xi" as a pronoun for the age of seventy.
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30 years old was called standing in ancient times, and 40 years old was called not confused in ancient times.
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The man at the age of 20 is called a weak crown.
At the age of 30, it is said that the year of the cancellation judgment is established.
40 years old is called the age of no confusion.
50 years old is called the year of knowing fate.
60 years old is called the year of the sixtieth year or ear.
70 years old is called the age of ancient rarity.
80 years old is called the year of the cane dynasty.
80 to 90 years old? The year of the old age.
100 years old.
In addition, there are also called Tong Doucha Nian as the total horn or hanging hair, teenagers as bundled hair, women to be married as to be called to be young or to be worded, the elderly as Hao Shou or Bai Shou, the longevity of the elderly as yellow hair, and so on.
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