Is the greatest blessing of a family to raise excellent children?

Many parents will have a headache for their children, who are too naughty and disobedient, and are also very willful. Although the parents said a lot of big truths, and even scolded them, the child showed no signs of change.

In the face of children with this kind of problem, parents only need to master 3 strategies:

1. Explain the code of conduct to your child.

The reason why children are disobedient is because they don't know the rules or forget the rules, which requires parents to be around to remind the children from time to time. When reminding the child, the tone should be gentle, do not use an angry and angry tone to talk to the child, which will make the child unwilling to listen and not listen, and use a gentle and firm tone to explain and explain the requirements to the child.

2. Encourage and praise children's good behavior.

When children make mistakes, they should teach and guide them patiently, and when their children have good performance, parents should encourage and praise their children, and parents' praise and recognition will become the motivation for children to be sensible.

3. Educate children carefully and patiently.

The reason why children are often disobedient is largely due to the educational attitude of their parents, children make mistakes, parents think that children are young, and do not preach seriously, which will lead to children taking it for granted, children will be more willful, nonsense, and do not listen to their parents, and when the child grows up, it will be more difficult to preach. The child's behavior is cumulative, and in the long run, it will be more disobedient and even rebellious.

How should parents educate their children?

1. Respect children's feedback.

Many parents will find many reasons to refute their parents when they point out their children's mistakes when they point out their children's mistakes. Parents will get angry and think that the child is making excuses and quibbles, but this is not a quibble, it is a kind of feedback from the child to the parent's education. However, many parents are not aware of, or even care about, the information fed back by their children, and educating their children in this way will not achieve the purpose of education.

2. Analyze your child's feedback.

When the child has feedback, no matter whether the child's feedback is true or false, parents should respect the child's feedback, if the child is not respected, but blindly suppress the child, the child will not have feedback with the parents in the future, and if this continues, it is impossible to educate the child well.

3. Purposeful education for children.

When parents analyze the problems of their children's feedback, they can conduct purposeful education based on the children's feedback. Targeted guidance and education for children.

Parents are their children's first teachers and eternal role models, and only by being a competent parent can they educate their children well.

Yes. Because excellent children will make the members of a family feel proud, and they will also feel that everything is worth it.

I think yes, parents do their best to raise an excellent child when they are young, and when they are old, the child has learned and excelled, and then parents can truly enjoy their old age.

It is to raise excellent children, because children are the hope of a family, and many parents place their expectations on their children.

A child's good fortune is accumulated by the parents and the children themselves. This is my opinion for several reasons:

1. First of all, the children themselves: no one can accompany a person's complete life, parents can accompany us in the first half of our lives, and partners and children accompany us in the middle age to old age of our lives. Zheng Wang: First of all, half of our blessings come from ourselves, and our parents may be able to do their best to leave us assets, money, houses, cars, etc., but in reality, not everyone can enjoy these things.

We should work hard ourselves, and we should also know how to be grateful and know how to accumulate our own blessings.

2. Parents are the pillars of children's rolling and children's havens, "raising children at the age of 100 and worrying about 99", there is no parent in the world who does not love their children, and only parents can dedicate their selfless love, because the fate of children and parents is very deep, so no matter where their children go, parents will be worried. Therefore, the connection between our parents and us lies not only in the inheritance of blood, but also in the accumulation of good fortune.

Yes. If you want to be virtuous and kind, you must accumulate yin virtue and yin merit, benefit others and benefit sentient beings. Don't say that I don't have money, and I can't accumulate virtue for the benefit of others.

You must know that having a good heart, saying good things, and doing good deeds is to accumulate yin virtue. When you meet a father, you advise him to love his children, when he meets a son, he is advised to be filial to his parents, when he meets an elder brother, he is advised to love his brother, and when he meets a younger brother, he is advised to respect his brother. So that all destined people can fulfill their responsibilities and duties.

I also have to act for them to play a rough explanation of good and evil, cause and effect, and the cycle of life and death. Let them have some fear in their hearts, and they will definitely be able to correct their mistakes and become kind, and be a kind and law-abiding person. We also want to tell them about the boundless benefits of the Dharma, so that they can believe in and practice the Dharma.

Anyone who is seriously ill should be advised to recite the Buddha and the holy name of Guanyin. Whenever you meet a woman, you should advise them to recite the holy name of Guanyin in advance, so that there will be no future calamity of suffering and dying due to difficult childbirth.

Persuade all destined people not to create negative karma, to preserve compassion and kindness in their hearts, and to benefit others and sentient beings in this way, which is to benefit themselves; It is better to annoy others and sentient beings than to annoy oneself. With all these conveniences and persuasions, do you have to ask for money to do it? However, if the family is rich and well-off, it should also use money to make more merits.

I also want to say to Zhifan that whether children can be virtuous and kind depends mostly on the cultivation and education of mothers. The so-called duty of a mother is to set an example for her children. If you only know how to spoil your children and let your temperament spoil your children, even children with good qualifications will learn badly, let alone children with bad qualifications?

This is the duty of a woman, and it is deeper and more important than the responsibility of a man.

You are fortunate to have three sons and a daughter, and you should magnify your ancestors and ancestors and teach your children to be virtuous and good. Accumulate merit for your children, and pray for the protection of the Buddha and Bodhisattva.

Here for your third child, the name of the Dharma is "Zongdao", which means the fundamental appearance of heavenly principles and human feelings, and "Dao" is the standard of all ten thousand laws. If you can focus on Zong Chong, then you can make every move in a small way, and make great efforts to implement the Dao method of cultivating the town of Qi Zhiping, so that it can reach the ultimate perfection realm, all of which are obtained from this. Although the child is still young, he uses this as his name, hoping that when he grows up, he will be able to live up to the name, and hope that his name will be in harmony with his actual virtue in the future.

The turmoil in the world has reached the extreme, and if you don't start with family education, then it is like building a pavilion out of thin air, and it is absolutely impossible to achieve results. If you want your own children to be good, you must also carefully teach the children of others, so that they can understand that there is a way to follow as a saint and that there is absolutely no error in good and evil cause and effect. In this way, they will be inspired to have true wisdom and wisdom, so that they can have a bright future in life.

Please explain these truths to Zhifan, and you should explain them to all those who are destined to do so, and the so-called words of wisdom can revitalize the family state.

The second point is that family affection does not need to be reciprocated, but it is worth thanking.

In fact, we all understand that our parents' love for us does not need anything in return, but we can't say that we can't be grateful to them or ungrateful, we should be grateful for their efforts for us, they have worked hard to raise us, their dedication to us, their hard work, they gritted their teeth to survive all kinds of difficulties, just so that we can live better. So for this kind of great love, we must remember it in our hearts and know how to give back, and we should also know how to be grateful, if parents do not know how to raise grateful children, then I think it is the biggest tragedy, Yang Yuzhu is a person who knows how to be grateful, then I think it is the greatest blessing.

I very much agree with this sentence, because as a grateful child, he will be filial and will know how to respect teachers, which is the greatest happiness of the family.

I agree that sometimes no matter how good a child is, it is in vain if he does not know how to be grateful, if the child is not so good, but knows how to be grateful, this is the most successful.

I think the size of a child's ability is just a process of life. Being able to raise a grateful child is definitely the greatest blessing for the family. I definitely agree.

The greatest blessing of a family is to raise a grateful child, this sentence I very much agree with, only with gratitude can we gain a foothold in society.

The greatest blessing of a family is to raise grateful children, and I quite agree. No matter how good the family environment is, the children raised are white-eyed wolves, and the days of waiting for their parents in the future will not be good.

I agree with this sentence, grateful children are more kind, and will not hurt others, often think about others, such children are very understanding.

Yes, children know how to be grateful, happy and happy, and the home will be full of love

I agree with this sentence, whether it is poor or rich, it is necessary to let the child have a sense of gratitude, which is very helpful for his future growth.

I very much agree with this idea, I have worked hard to raise a child all my life, if I am old, the child does not know how to be grateful is a very painful thing.

I think I agree, because a grateful child will make the family happier.

I very much agree with this point of view, whether it is a poor family or a rich family, children are always the continuation of their own family, and the future family is carried forward by children.

I think so. But it's not comprehensive. I don't think it's a blessing for a family to know how to be grateful, but not to be capable. Therefore, morality, intelligence, physical fitness, aesthetics, and labor should be developed in an all-round way.

No. Having a grateful child is certainly a blessing for a family, but more importantly, the family is safe, which is the greatest blessing.

Yes, it is important for children to understand gratitude, so that children will not let adults worry and be sad at any time.