What was the most disappointing moment in your life?

Updated on society 2024-03-25
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Just before going to work, I was going to get up at 6:40, because it was raining heavily outside, the opposite building was locked on the balcony and then called the next door to help her hit **, I also woke up, and then pedaled the bicycle to go to the bus stop by the way to buy breakfast I thought it was very fast, the person who pulled the rice noodles moved so slowly, and finally after it was good, he stepped on the bicycle chain and fell off the chain, and it was raining all the way, but it was ...... when it rainedIt's so helpless.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Disappointment is an overestimation that each of us has neglected, an over-expectation of some people and things, and too much indulgence that leads to disappointment. I have also had moments of disappointment, and this disappointment is my expectation for my child's hope that his son will become a Chan. That year, my child failed in the college entrance examination, and the moment I found out the score, I couldn't accept it.

    I thought he was nine out of ten in the college entrance examination, but I didn't expect it to be like this, maybe I really don't know my child very well, every day he said to go to make up classes, and he went to the Internet café, which I found out later. At that time, I was completely disappointed in him, what would he do in the future without knowledge and education? Later, the child went to a technical school, but I couldn't get out of that disappointment, maybe time will slowly dilute it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The most disappointing thing is that all the people around me who have expectations of me today have been disappointed, so I am ready to do my best to show the best of me to you. It's time to meet my old friend, I feel very sorry for you by chatting like this all day long, by the way, look at the flowers at your door grow well, since it is an old friend, of course you have to bring a generous gift, I hope that my generous gift can be exchanged for your long-lost smile. The last answer I just tested myself, face-to-face Q&A is my normal play, the purpose is to test my ability, to see if the company has a better job for me, can be the company's filial piety is also the best return to you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You don't hold back, you tell the other person everything you do, and the other person's response is just "oh", "got it", or even no response at all. No matter what happens to the other person, you are more enthusiastic than you are in dealing with your own affairs. And when you encounter difficulties, the other party does not respond, and will not even say anything about concern.

    She can talk happily to any of her friends, but she doesn't want to say a word to you. "She used to be so beautiful" "She, she just doesn't love you anymore".

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The moment your hopes are dashed is the most disappointing moment in your life! At that moment, I feel like my heart is dead, and I just want to end my ......life immediatelyTo live is to remember that the most painful and desperate moment of life is the most difficult moment, but it is not the last moment of the end of life; Survive it, earn it, and it will open.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    For me, recognizing someone's disappointment may be when the other person takes advantage of my kindness or backtracks. For this case, I can do the following:

    1.Think calmly: First, I calm down and don't respond too impulsively or emotionally. This helps me to be rational and objective.

    2.Reflection and Communication: I look back at the whole incident and think about whether there were any misunderstandings or miscommunication. Sometimes, people's actions can be the result of misunderstandings or lack of information, so it's important to communicate with each other in good faith.

    3.Set boundaries: If the other person's behavior has exceeded my boundaries or values, I will not hesitate to set boundaries and make my position clear. It's important to stick to your bottom line and principles, and not let others hurt or take advantage of you.

    4.Convergence Help: Given that the other person's behavior is disappointing me, I may reduce or stop helping him. This does not mean that I become apathetic or vindictive, but that I protect my interests and feelings.

    5.Maintain balance: I seek support and advice from others to maintain emotional balance. Confiding in and seeking support from friends or family can help me realign my mindset.

    Each person may deal with it differently, but the key is to stick to your principles and values and stay self-protective. When dealing with others, we need to not only help, but also protect our own rights and feelings.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    For the guru, you treat the guru as a teacher for one day and a father for life, but then he never trusts you, and others think that the mistakes are all yours when they make a small report, and if you never praise you, there is a feeling of disagreement.

    For my boyfriend, after insisting on being a little more than a long distance, I suddenly told you one day that if you can't get into graduate school or can't get into the civil service, you will reconsider this relationship.

    To your family, you tried very hard to get a good score in the exam, but due to the teacher's reasons, the names of you and other classmates were confused, and the papers were also confused, and then you failed, and the family thought that it was your own reason, and you did not study hard.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I used to have a girlfriend in my twenties.

    We played together at the age of two or three, and I joined the work after graduating from junior high school, but his family conditions were very poor in the countryside, and the countryside was still very poor in the eighties, but I have always been very good to him, and I can't have food or clothing. When I was in my thirties, his family conditions were better, and I didn't give him things as often as I used to, so he talked about me everywhere, and after a long time, some classmates asked me when I was completely disappointed in him, but I didn't say a bad word about him, and I haven't talked to him for almost 20 years.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First of all, disappointment does not explode all at once, but after accumulation, it may be disappointed in a moment.

    Secondly, only those who are familiar with oneself or those who are concerned will have an experience.

    In the end, only the party has paid, and the other party has been indifferent, and it will also ignite disappointment in some details.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When the two husbands and wives were arguing, my husband couldn't control it and slapped me hard and knocked me to the ground, and at that moment, I was completely disappointed.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, life is really ordinary and real, when you always stand in your own position to think about the problem, there are always many people and things to disappoint you, we can only be content, don't ask too much from others, after all, you can't pay infinitely for others. There is no complete disappointment or disappointment, it is just a psychological thought.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Just when I was tired of taking care of the children, but no one helped me, I told my husband that I was tired, but I was told that I didn't have to go to work to make money, how tired it was to take care of a child at home, at that moment, I was completely disappointed in my husband and his parents, and women can only rely on themselves, this sentence was completely realized at that moment. Since then, I have not bothered to complain, and I will not be disappointed if I do not have hope for them.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The child fell asleep in my arms with a fever and crying, and after a long time, the child was tired, I didn't dare to put it down, and I wanted the child to sleep peacefully for a while. I was hungry and had a stomachache and a dry mouth. The kid's dad was chatting with his mom.

    Instantly completely disappointed, I didn't want to quarrel anymore and didn't want to say anything, no love or hate, just me and my children. From then on, the rest of my life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    At the critical juncture in life, when he needs his help, he pushes it off, or if there is a thing that he makes clear to his face in advance, he promised it well, but when the time comes, he says no, I will feel completely disappointed in such a person.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I didn't meet my expectations. It's just that it's not just disappointment, while some disappointments, I'm constantly trying again, planning again, planning again, and starting to work hard again. Completely disappointed except when I was young, because of career failure, I was completely disappointed, and now I don't have it.

    Maybe there will be one later, it's hard to say.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hello, it's very simple, when you go from rich to poor, from power to powerless, and want to get the respect of the person who usually pleases you, but the other party despises you or laughs at you, at what moment should you be completely disappointed in someone.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It feels like someone you like, when you suddenly find out that she is actually what she is, how to say it, hypocrisy, you will be very disappointed, for example, you like her very much and she doesn't like you very much, but you will feel that she is hanging on you, and when you find out, you will feel like you have been deceived, it is simply a complete disappointment.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There are too many people who are instantly disappointed in life, just meet a small thing at work, I help him every day, one day I asked him to take an email and he directly refused, do you say this is a person who is instantly disappointed.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    In the promotion of professional titles, when the two leaders are needed to do related matters, the first leader always says: you work so hard and seriously, I will help you do it, but there is no action, and he goes to him at night but says that he is in the field (when he gets off work during the day, he says that he is at home at night), and the second leader always verbally calls him a brother, and when he asks him to do things, he says that he can't find a clue to coordinate, and after getting the qualification certificate, he has been delayed for 5 months before he goes to get hired. Half a year later, the second-in-command wife, who is also engaged in financial work in the unit, has never been engaged in technology promotion business, and the qualification certificate (with the relevant certificate by relationship) will be hired immediately.

    From this incident, I have seen through two problems, one is that the leader wants you to have a sweet mouth when you do things, and you will shirk when you go to him to do things; The second is the so-called X member, who is precisely the more prominent self-interest, specializing in the matter of getting the moon first near the water.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The leader of my part-time work unit promised to go to me and my colleagues to apply for social security at the end of the year, and when he was taken away by the anti-gang and evil eradication, I learned that he had deceived many people, and as a newcomer, I was completely disappointed, and I was also one of the deceived, and the two years of work were in vain.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's a day of work that I'm already tired of.

    When you get home, you still have to cook, you have to take care of the kids, you have to clean up the house, everything is still waiting for you to do.

    There will be no voice at all that says, "I'll do it, you go and take a break, kid, I'll do it, you're tired."

    It's often at times like this that you feel like you're not worthy.

    Why do you want to do all this thing......

    At this time, it will feel particularly disappointing.

    I never think about sharing something for you, even if it's just a little bit.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Disappointment is due to expectations, and there will be expectations for those close to them. When we got married, my husband's family didn't prepare a house for us, and only hung his family's old house or earthen house and got married, and said at the time that if there was money to slow down, he would buy or build a new one, but every year after marriage, no one paid attention to me, they didn't mention it and didn't let me mention it, I was more disappointed than once, sad more than once, it has been eleven years since I got married, when I remembered this, my heart was blocked, I only hated myself at that time for being naïve and ignorant, if I could go back to that time, I could kill me at that time.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    When I need him the most, he loves to ignore it, at that moment I have mixed tastes, in fact, some things are opened, and it is not as important as the expensive one, whoever leaves in this world can live, the only person in the world who can rely on is himself, today's disappointment, is the opportunity to promote his own growth, learn to grow up, learn not to rely on others, the greater the disappointment, the greater the disappointment, the more you can grow, everything will pass, disappointment, heh.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Usually everyone is a good friend, often eat together, go shopping and go out to play, etc., and share the troubles and happiness together, but one day there was a sudden gross negligence, and it was necessary to understand the investigation and take responsibility, at this time he chose himself very cleanly, and the fault was ours, and he couldn't bear it together, which made people very disappointed in him.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    When I'm all in my heart for someone but they don't care at all, I'm very disappointed. I treat each other with my heart, but the other party takes my intentions very lightly and doesn't care at all, which is a sad thing.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    When I was particularly helpless, he not only did not help me, but also complained about me, which made me feel very disappointed in him at this moment.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    When my boyfriend told me that he was in love with someone else, I was very disappointed in my boyfriend.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    When I was believing in him and believing in him, he told me that there was nothing I could do and left me, which really made me feel very disappointed in a person.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's that I asked him to help, but he didn't help, and when he asked me to help and I didn't, he slandered me in various ways, saying that I held grudges, and I was very disappointed.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Disappointments accumulate slowly, nothing is momentary disappointment, and everyone wants to be taken seriously.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I spend a lot of money every day to tutor my child, but I didn't expect him to go to the Internet café to surf the Internet without me, and I felt very disappointed the moment I found him.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It was when I needed help that he suddenly didn't say goodbye and didn't answer him, and I didn't answer him, and at this time I didn't think he was a trustworthy person.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's that when my boyfriend is always critical of me and thinks I'm not good, it really makes me desperate and angry, and I want to quarrel with him.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    The last time I had a fight, I stepped back first and gave him steps. In this argument, when I pointed out his problems and he covered them up with a series of my problems, I knew that it was impossible for me to be with him.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    After I asked him for help many times and he refused without thinking, I realized that I was really nothing in his eyes.

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