What moment did your father make you feel distressed?

It was '93, I was seven years old, and I had just started the first grade of elementary school. After eating at noon, my father suddenly said that he felt tightness in his chest, numbness in his hands and feet, and unsteady walking. Mom said she would take him to see it in the afternoon.

By the time I came home from school in the evening, my mom and dad hadn't come back yet. Neighbors told me they were still in the hospital. Promise to send me after eating.

At that time, my sister and grandmother were left at home. I went to the hospital with my neighbors, and in the ward, my father was still talking to my mother, and the doctor said that it was myocardial ischemia. Let's stay in the hospital for observation.

Because my father and mother were in a hurry, they didn't have enough money, and they just received a reminder from the hospital, so my mother asked me to accompany my father, and she went home to get the money by herself. As a result, at night, my father suddenly became short of breath, and I quickly called the doctor, but the sudden situation scared me, and I started crying. Dad said, don't cry, I may not be able to accompany you, you must take care of your mother.

The doctors were rescuing and giving ** to my mother at the same time. When Mom came, Dad couldn't step out of the door of the emergency room. That sentence turned out to be an eternal farewell.

But my father, at the moment of life and death, was still thinking about my mother. It's really distressing, I feel sorry for my father, and I feel sorry for my mother. This incident has become an eternal pain in my heart.

However, I can no longer repay him for his nurturing kindness. ‍‍

When I saw the gray hair on my father's head, I suddenly felt very distressed. When I was younger, my dad would let me ride on his neck, and now he can't even hold me.

When I saw my father buy me a mobile phone and carefully count them one by one at the checkout, I was distressed and shed tears, so I withdrew my phone and took my father's hand and went home.

The biggest snow in recent years, for the depression of midwinter shrouded in full costume, in such a cold day, I hit my mother in my hometown again, and learned that my father's chest has been hurting for a week, I said: almost every day to hit **, why didn't you tell me earlier? Why do you always say that everything is good and everything is good?

It was a silent night, snow was falling outside, and I was shivering with worry inside. I know that my father is a strong person, and he can endure ordinary minor illnesses, and he never says or shows it, but it must have hurt a lot if he can say it this time. ‍‍

Parents are almost fifty, this year home for the New Year, on the road is very happy, parents have played a lot of **, said when to arrive, finally arrived, just got off the car to see the old couple full of smiles, from the smiling face to see the years, to the parents on the road of the waves, I can't help but shudder, trembling, why is it so fast, I haven't honored you? The years are not forgiving, I think no matter how much money I earn, I will go home to accompany you every year, the sky is still blue, there are a few more buildings on the road, how fast the change is, for the children to pay, hard work has paid a lifetime, I am happy to see your smile, I will remember to go home every year! ‍‍

I don't know if he cried before, but once he cried in front of his friends, and he told me later. And then he told me (I lost) that only I know how much this sentence weighs. It's just that he misunderstood what I meant, and I didn't want to win or lose with him.

I was just talking about it casually. Also, I found out that he even deliberately held his phone in the same way as me. There are many, many more, sometimes I feel very uncomfortable when I think about it, let my father be so wronged, all because of myself.

But I really didn't know what I could do. I just want to stop letting him down and grieve him because of me! ‍‍

One year, my sister and I took my father to Beijing Tongren Hospital for retinal detachment, because I went to the bank to apply for a card, bought a pancake fruit, left my father near the hospital, and came back more than an hour later, and saw him alone, his face was full of helplessness, and suddenly my heart was sad and full of tears, my dear father is really old. Every scene is your hard-working figure and sweat, and we made him suffer and be tired. ‍‍

My father did something wrong, and I criticized him harshly, and he said like a child, "I'm sorry, but I was so stupid." At this moment, he suddenly felt very sorry for him.

My father has always been a strong person, and when I was a child, my father always said yes, so I was especially rebellious when I was an adolescent. Now that I'm older and my father is old, every time I go home, I feel distressed when I see my father wanting me to go home more often to see the accommodation and flattery.

When I paid the down payment, my father couldn't get the money out for a long time, it turned out that he sewed the money into his clothes, and I burst into tears at that moment.

Once, my nose was bleeding, my father drove me to the hospital, the road was very fast, and when I got to the place, I was hugged and rushed to the emergency room, tired and sweaty, and I felt very uncomfortable at that time

We will experience a lot of things on the "road" of growing up, and it is precisely because of the continuous experience that we can better understand the difficulties of our parents. One of the times I remember most was when my father came back from a long run, sitting on the sofa alone and beating his legs and back.

In my family, there are two boys, my father is a logistics worker, and my mother is a housewife. Because of some family factors, my brother and I have been brought by my mother since we were children, and my father earns money alone and spends it for the family, and never knows what a rich life is like.

My mother and my brother and I were also very tired, especially when we were young, sometimes we didn't have time to cook, so we could only take advantage of the time when we were asleep to cook some noodles to eat. Mom is very considerate of Dad, because she knows that she is not easy, and Dad is even more difficult. Running logistics often means that you can't go home for a few days or even half a month, and your life is spent in the car.

Once, on my dad's birthday, my mom was planning to prepare a "surprise" for him. Early in the morning, my mother took us to buy a cake together. Then I worked all afternoon, burned a table of dishes, and waited for my father to come back.

Mom put the prepared dishes and cakes in the kitchen, and then waited for Dad to come back in the "Tangya". Little by little, it was already 10 o'clock in the evening (Under normal circumstances, my mother will not take the initiative to call my father, for fear of affecting his driving）。My mom told my brother and I to eat first and then go back to bed, and she was there alone waiting for my dad to come back.

My brother and I also said that we were not sleepy and that we would wait for my father to come back (in retrospect, it may have been that "the poor man's child was in charge early").

At about 11:30 p.m., my mother's phone rang, and it was my dad calling. Dad said he was back and asked his mother to open the door for him (In fact, the father did this every time, he was afraid of disturbing the child's sleep）。Mom let us into the house and watched her gesture to bring the cake out.

When Dad entered the house, Mom went to pour him water. My brother and I saw my father's painful expression through the crack in the door in the room, beating his legs and back hard, he hadn't been home for half a month, and his life had been spent in the car. At that time, I was very sad and felt that I was a "burden" to them.

Then we brought out the cake according to my mother's instructions, and my father was very happy and the family hugged each other. I remember that my dad even bought me and my brother a comic book, saying that he saw other parents buying them for their children on the way to the car.

Now that both of my brothers are working, our family life is much better than before. But in my free time, I still feel very emotional and nostalgic when I think about those past events. I knew my father and mother weren't rich, but they gave me almost everything they had.

My dad is a construction worker, and he works early and late every day, but every time he comes back, he is smiling and I don't know if it's hard work. It wasn't until noon that day that I really realized what the role of father really meant.

It was noon, and my mother asked me to go to the construction site to deliver food to my father, and it was the height of summer, and the outside temperature was as high as 40 degrees, and I saw my fatherSweaty and tanned back,I handed the plank upstairs, and at that moment my heart trembled.

I always knew that my father worked hard, but I never thought it would be so hardAt that moment, I felt extremely distressed, how much did my father pay for this family?

My twentie-year-old father is also a very handsome teenagerThere is a personal ** of his in the house. **The teenager in ** is wearing a set of white clothes, combing his Hong Kong-style retro partial hair, and sitting on a red chair, just a teenager.

But also such a personable teenager, after having a family and children,began to shoulder the role of a husband and father, and began to fade away from the childishness in his body

The current father, after the baptism of life and years, is full of vicissitudes. At this time, I will feel extremely distressed, after all, he was once a high-spirited teenager like us! What we don't want to endure now is what they went through.

Father's love is like a mountain, and father's love is speechless. Although the father's love for his child has no voice, it has long been hoarse, and although it cannot be described, the sky has fallen apart. Finally, on this special day, I wish all fathers in the world good health and happy holidays!

When I was a child, my parents' love for us was like the sentence and scene in Zhu Ziqing's "Back": "I said, Dad, you can go." He looked out of the car and said, "I'll buy some oranges." You are right here, don't move around ......”

When I was a child, I didn't understand anything, and the love of our parents for us was companionship; When we grow up and struggle outside, we can't know the fatigue of our parents and the hardships of our parents.

Parents are always the driving force for their own hard work. My father drove a night bus, went out at four o'clock in the afternoon every day, and came home at two or three o'clock in the morning. It is precisely because my father often works night shifts that I stagger my school time with my father, and I have fewer opportunities to get along with my father, which has also become the biggest regret of childhood.

I suddenly noticed that my father's hair had turned gray, and in an instant I realized that my father had aged a lot. Therefore, in order to reduce the burden on parents and make up for their childhood regrets, after being able to support the family, they decisively let their parents stop working and enjoy their time.

In fact, think about it, our parents' love for us has always been with us, whether it is studying abroad, or when we are standing, no matter how old we are, their love has never left. Sometimes, their love is silent, and other times, their love may be impotent.

Perhaps, for us, our parents will probably regret that we were not more filial when we grow up, and now we are sometimes reluctant to say a heavy word when our temper comes up, for fear that we will hurt our parents too willfully;

Probably always thinking about growing up quickly and having enough ability to give their parents better, reluctant to let them get tired, no matter how long they work, their parents' sentence is enough money to spend, enough tears;

Probably every time I think of us growing up, they are counting down, and they never dare to imagine the day when they will be far away from us. Or maybe it's countless moments when I feel sorry for them.

In my mind, my father was tall when he was young and strong when he was old. There were only two moments when I suddenly wanted to hug him and say Father, you still have us.

One is that when my grandmother died, my father was squatting in the corner with his head in his hands, crying uncontrollably. My grandmother lived at my uncle's house in the Northeast, and we followed our parents to Hebei professionally. I haven't been together for many years, and I haven't been able to do my filial piety before I die, and I haven't been able to look at my grandmother when I die, my father probably thinks that he is particularly unfilial, he is so sad that his shoulders are shaking, I feel so sorry for him at that time, I want to say to him, Dad, don't be sad, grandma won't blame you.

However, I was already in junior high school, and I couldn't say a word. Although, I miss grandma too. At that time, I felt that some things in the world were really powerless, such as life and death.

Then there was the fact that on June 14, 2014, my mother was seriously ill and left us. At that time, I felt like I was going to die of pain, I couldn't breathe, and I was immersed in my emotions for days. Suddenly one day I came home, and when I entered the door, there was no sound, and I approached my father's bedroom and froze.

Dad sat alone by the window, looking at Mom and his hand-holding ** on the wall, his eyes were red.

At that moment, my heart immediately collapsed. I always thought that my mother's departure hit us very hard, but at that moment I felt that my father was the saddest person, but he always persuaded us on weekdays, it's okay, you still have us. Later, I hugged my father in distress and said:

Dad, you still have us! At that moment, I knew that I would be my father's pillar in the future.

On Father's Day, I wish my father a safe, healthy and forever Nanshan.

Looking at his father's gradually arched back, looking at his father's calloused hands, and looking at his father's young but white hair and wrinkled face, Xiao Ke often saw his back so sad that he secretly cried.

's father is a hard-working person, he lost his father when he was thirty years old, that is, Xiao Ke's grandfather, Xiao Ke was really too young at that time, and he couldn't remember what his grandfather looked like at all. lost his mother at the age of forty, and at this time, Xiao Ke understood that sadness is not only sadness when crying, but also when the heart is crying but there are no tears on the face.

Father himself is a hard-working person, lost his parents at a young age, but he still needs to bear the burden of raising his own children, he was the most handsome young man in the village back then, but now he is the fastest person in the village, he was always so tall in Xiao Ke's memory, and his shoulders were always so broad, but now he is not as tall as one meter six three, and his shoulders are also covered with layers of calluses left after doing manual work.

Every time Xiao Ke came home on leave in the summer, he saw his father's bare back and the protruding calluses on his upper back and shoulders, and he couldn't help but want to cry, and sometimes he couldn't help but hide in the toilet and cry.

My father doesn't say he loves us, but he uses his tall body and broad shoulders to protect us from the wind and rain, and when he is old, he still has to worry about his children.

Sometimes Xiao Ke will cry when he thinks of him, he can't help crying, that kind of distress, that kind of powerlessness, that feeling of wanting to hug him will make Xiao Ke cry every time he thinks of him, he can't help crying again, there is no sound, just uncontrollable tears flowing down.

Now that we have grown up, but he is still running around for his children, he always tells Xiao Ke that his life is too bitter, and says this with a smile, but Xiao Ke knows that he really feels that he is too tired and bitter.