What moment made you decide to divorce?

Since I was a child, I have been a person who pays more attention to feelings! Now that I have a marriage, I have children, and both parents, I am more careful to take care of our big family, before marriage, it is okay for two people to have a good relationship, but after marriage, especially with children, we are more responsible! <>

From the day the child is born, we have to work harder and harder to earn money for life, because the child's milk powder money, diaper money, and vaccination, three diseases and two pains all need money, which may add up to a month's salary is not enough! And I can't go to work, so the pressure can only be pushed on my husband's body! Because of the big expenses, so he changed his career to do the decoration, every day is dirty and tired, early and late return, very hard, see his tired figure, I am also very distressed and understand him, after going home is always afraid that he will not rest well, he took the child to the next room to sleep!

Slowly, the children are older and go to kindergarten, I also start to work, and sometimes my mother also helps me take over the children, and our life is getting better and better! But he said that he didn't want to do the renovation anymore, and when I asked him what he wanted to do, he didn't say, so I persuaded him: 'Now that the children are getting older, there are more places to spend money, you can still save some money by doing this, in case you go to work in the factory, a month's salary is not enough for yourself!'

He said yes and went back to work!

Later, in the past few years, he has always been unable to go to work for a few days, and he has not made any money, and even I am working, the money is not enough, and I usually don't give a gift, and I am really tired of living a life! We started arguing about him not working, but he was just playing at home and wasn't in a hurry! The family's economy is all on me, and I only have 3,000 yuan for a family, which is really not enough for a family with children and renting a house outside!

That's it, I really can't hold on, and the child is not mine alone, why do I have to support the family after getting married, we have quarreled many times and are still like this, he is so irresponsible, I have really enough, so I filed for divorce!

Ma Bao Nan, who doesn't work well, still loves to drink and play games. Listen to the in everything, the style is not right, and there is no moral bottom line. Can act.

The scumbag listens to fucking, because of his mother's words, on my birthday, beat me, married for several years, has never had a birthday, and feels like a nanny at his house. For the sake of my son, I endured. But this time he hit me, and he couldn't bear it.

Ma Bao Nan, he is still a scumbag. If I can do it once, there will be countless more waiting for me later. So, the moment he got his hands on it.

I decided, take the baby with me. Divorce! Complete the world of him and fucking two!

If you really want to leave, you should consider child custody, who is at fault in the joint property of the husband and wife (RV money), child support, etc., and if you can, you can also claim compensation for moral damages.

For example, my husband always doesn't take his own business to heart when he has someone outside, and he's very lazy, and he has to do everything I do, and I only know how to play Glory of Kings, which is the most annoying. At least I've seen it, at least I'll get divorced.

Divorce is a big decision, and each person has their own unique experiences and stories, and the moment when it is confirmed will vary from person to person. As far as I'm concerned as an AI assistant, I don't have feelings and emotions and therefore can't go through the emotional process of marriage and divorce. However, I can provide you with some general perspectives and common circumstances in which a divorce is decided.

The moment of confirmation of the divorce is usually a cumulative process, not a split-second decision. Here are some common triggers that can lead a person to confirm the experience of that divorce.

1.Unresolved conflicts and communication problems: Conflict in a marriage is normal, but it can feel like it can't go on if there are long-term conflicts and communication barriers between couples, especially if there is no better way to solve them.

2.Irreparable betrayal and mistrust: Betrayal, deception, or infidelity can cause serious damage to a marriage, leading to a complete breakdown of trust between couples and making it difficult to rebuild a trusting relationship.

3.Persistent dissatisfaction and unhappiness: In a marriage, persistent dissatisfaction and unhappiness can be an important factor in divorce. If couples are unable to find each other's fulfillment and happiness, long-term unhappiness may make people more inclined to end the marriage.

4.Physical and mental abuse and insecurity: Whether physical or emotional, including verbal or emotional insults and oppression, can take a toll on a marital relationship. In this case, the divorce may be to protect one's physical and mental health.

5.Long-term disharmony and loss of common goals: Chronic disharmony between couples, such as conflicts, disagreements in values, and inconsistent goals, can also make people feel that they cannot continue their marriage.

Regardless of the moment when a person is confirmed to divorce, divorce is a difficult and deliberate decision. Before making a decision, both parties can try couples counseling, marriage counseling, etc. to seek help and solve problems. The most coincidental decision should be based on personal circumstances and whether or not you can find a healthier and happier future for filial piety.

Marriage is a journey that two people go through together, but sometimes we face confusion and challenges. Tragically, some relationships have reached the point of no return, and we begin to think about ending the marriage. So what exactly is the moment when we confirm that we should get divorced?

Maybe it was that unbearable night of quarrels. You used to love each other and support each other, but now each argument seems to become more frequent and more intense. These arguments are both verbal and deed-scarring, and you begin to wonder if you can move forward.

Or maybe it's on an important occasion where you start peeking at the tender interactions between other couples. You are suddenly touched by the happiness around you, because in your marriage, this feeling of scarcity has long been gone. You start thinking that maybe you should look for a better life and happiness.

Or maybe it's the moment when you find yourself struck down by the betrayal of the other party. Betrayal not only hurts your trust and breaks your marriage promises, but it also reveals a breakdown in communication and tacit understanding between you. In the face of such a betrayal, you begin to think about whether it is worth continuing any longer.

Whether it's an argument, a lack of tender interaction, or betrayal, these moments make us think about the value of marriage and the direction of the future. Divorce is not an overnight decision, but it is only when we confirm it at some point that we can begin to face a new life and possible happiness.

The moments when you want to divorce are:

1. My husband works overtime until late every day, and he is the only one waiting alone in the dark room, and at that moment I feel as if I have never been married.

2. When I was cleaning, my husband didn't help, and he casually threw garbage on the ground, and at that moment I felt that I particularly wanted to divorce.

3. When the child is sick, the husband is not around, and he carries the child to the hospital alone** to see the child, at that time I feel like a single mother, and even thinks that I can live well with the child after the divorce.

4. My husband loves to drink very much, and every time he calls his friends to bring his friends to the house, he makes a mess of the house, and he doesn't clean it up, and he thinks about divorce every time he cleans up the mess.

5. My husband's temper is very short-tempered, and every time he thinks that there is a quarrel over a trivial matter, he even beats someone. Every time I quarrel with my husband, I want a divorce.

Divorce is a major life decision that should be made after careful consideration. In some cases, couples may recognize that their relationship is beyond repair, and divorce may be a suitable option. Here are some suggested moments, but keep in mind that everyone's situation is unique and you'll need to make decisions based on your situation.

1.When communication is completely broken: If you and your spouse are unable to communicate effectively when trying to resolve differences and problems, it could be a sign that your relationship has broken down.

2.When trust is completely lost: Trust is the cornerstone of a marital relationship. When there is a complete loss of trust in each other, it is difficult for a marriage to continue.

3.When both parties are unable to resolve the issue: In marriage, problems and disagreements are inevitable. But when you can't solve the problem together, or one of the parties refuses to solve the problem, it could mean that your relationship has become irreparable.

4.When the relationship continues to deteriorate: If your relationship is chronically strained, depressed, and deteriorating, it may be a sign that you are no longer fit to continue living together.

5.When violence or abuse occurs: Under no circumstances should violence or abuse be taken into account. If there is violence or abuse between partners, divorce may be the best option to protect yourself and your children.

6.When you've been thinking about it for a long time: If you've been thinking about divorce for a long time, it could be a sign that you've thought it through. In this case, divorce may be a reasonable option.

I don't think everyone is willing to take this step in vain, and they all have to push themselves to face this decision bravely.

The moment I decided to divorce, my heart was very calm, because it was a decision made after thinking about it for a long time.

When a person decides to divorce, there must be mixed feelings in his heart. Because it was always so sweet before. The sweet picture before always flashes in my mind.

But now, when I really want to decide to divorce, I feel very contradictory. Should I get a divorce or not? What kind of appearance and state did you look like after the divorce and destroyed the bridge?

That's basically what I think in my heart.

Although I am not divorced, if it comes to that moment, it will definitely be painful in my heart.

When the decision to divorce is decided, Zhihui's heart will definitely be very painful, feeling like a knife cut, as if he has lost everything But he still can't accept the feeling of betrayal in his heart, so he chooses to divorce But when you really face the matter of divorce, you don't want to continue to slide back, you want to regret it.

Together for 3 years, married for 5 years, he was very good to me, and his family was also very good to me, but once I had a quarrel, I slapped him a few times, and he also slapped me a few times, and then that time I really wanted to divorce, I was very fierce, and he had to close the door when I packed up my things. In the future, every time I quarreled, although I didn't move my hand, I would think of that time and want to divorce, but after the quarrel, I thought of his goodness again, and I wanted to fucking bear with it!

At night, I went home from overtime to cold pots and cold stoves, and even cabbage and steamed buns were in the kitchen.

When you should leave, you are deceiving yourself about waiting for something to finish before leaving, and you don't believe it. When both parties in a marriage don't trust each other, there's nothing to hesitate about.

When she gave birth to a child, her mother and his attitude really wanted to divorce so much that it hurt to death, and her mother was talking and laughing with others outside the delivery room, and he directly said that he had known that it was not a boy and beat it, and it was strange that this kind of mother and son could get along for a lifetime His brother is more than 30 years old, and it is normal to think about it, and he will not be a man.

I have thought about a thousand divorces and 10,000 divorces, especially when I blame my family during a quarrel, I can't figure it out, I am married far away, I have been to my house five times in eight years of marriage, and my parents have served me with delicious food and drink, and in the end he is not satisfied. If you expect too much from a man, the more disappointed you are, the faster your heart will die, and you can't leave for too many reasons anyway. Just don't count on it and live your own life.

After drinking and getting drunk, they quarreled with me, saying that I would take care of a child all day and not make money. He also told his mother that the first thing he would do when he had money was to change me. All kinds of expletives, I've had enough!

As a man, I have truly loved and devoted myself, but I found that the three views of the two did not match, and they were never on the same beat, and finally one day I figured out that she was not the person I wanted.

Work first, wife and children stand aside! Outsiders look like good people, and their low emotional intelligence is disappointing!!

Left, verbal violence and domestic violence, at first I just wanted to cut off relations with him, I didn't want anything, he didn't leave, he always went to my mother's house to make a big noise, and threatened to kill people and burn the house、、、 I called the police directly, went to the court to apply for divorce, the money, the house, and the car were finally divided in half, and I was angry when I saw him, I was in a good mood, and I was so happy that I was hurt internally.

He said that sooner or later he would kill me, and he died in an instant!

My mother-in-law called ** to tell me that my son had a high fever of 40 degrees, I immediately put down and ate a bite of work meal, rode a bicycle for 15 minutes to take the child to the clinic to see a doctor, and settled down at 2:30 after being busy, and called ** to my husband, telling him that my son was sick, and the temperature measured in the clinic was 42 degrees, which scared me to death. 5 minutes after hanging up**, he called ** and scolded me, saying that I woke him up to take a nap, hurt him, and roared all kinds of things. In an instant, my tears remained, and I hung up on him before he finished roaring, and suddenly felt that he was so strange, and I really wanted to get a divorce immediately.

But now I am not divorced.