What should I do if my girlfriend cares too much about her past?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-15
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you don't care, it means that she and Ben don't love you

    What girl can't care! It's an exaggeration.,I don't want to have such a boyfriend in the past, no matter how good it is...

    You should talk to her, tell her how much you love her, and make sure you do! I only like her one in the future.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Kindness... Then the two of them sat down and made it clear ... Don't be embarrassed. SPEAK ALL YOUR LOVE FOR HIM ... Let Him Know How Important He is to you ...

    Every girl is a vinegar jar... Be considerate and considerate ...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I'm telling you,You can't tell your girlfriend about the past.,It's supposed to give a woman a bad feeling like this.,Zhong Zhi, you said that you touched a woman.,I didn't do it.。。 And tell her how to love her, and do more romantic things.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Make up for him with love, I have 4 women in front of the man, all of whom have had a relationship, I care about it, I am also a place, but I am glad that I play with him for the longest, but I am also the most injured one, why do I drop a man he doesn't know how to pinch? He loved me, I couldn't see it, it broke my heartbreak, and I regretted almost a few times I took my life because I loved him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I care a lot about my girlfriend's past, it may be that you have a problem with your mentality, in fact, there is no need to be like this, anyone has his own past and experience, since the past has passed, there is no need to be too entangled, and there should not be too much psychological pressure, as long as you are good now, the relationship is particularly good, and you are sincere to you, don't embarrass yourself, life is not easy, two people meet together is fate, should be cherished.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Then change to a clean one, everyone has a past, of course you care about the reason for the past, if you can't get by, then change it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you care, don't be together, in fact, your girlfriend's past is all in the past, you shouldn't care, and you don't need to care, as long as the relationship is good now.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you care a lot about your girlfriend's past and are sure that you can't cross this threshold, you should learn to let go, don't deceive yourself, and if you are reluctant to let go, you must accept your girlfriend's whole story, including her past, present and future.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you're concerned about her past. Just let it go. Because even when you're together, you're going to fight a lot.

    If you are still a pure person. Just look for one. You like the pure person of it!

    If you don't care about her past. Be inclusive of everything she has.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    See if you really love her, then when you face her, you will also think of her past, and then come to torture yourself and torture her. Because you mind, there will be a gap between you and each other, in fact, everyone will have a past, why bother with the past, since you love each other, you should cherish it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This needs to be adjusted by yourself, ask yourself if you love her, love her to tolerate everything about her, measure the past you leave her now and entangle her past, which makes you more painful, if you can't bear to lose her pass, please let go of the past, go forward with her, as long as now, you are true love, it really doesn't matter if anything else matters, after all, what you have is her now, and what you love is her now.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I care a lot about my girlfriend's past, it's not advisable, the past is gone, if you've been struggling with the past, grievances and grievances, the two of you won't be happy, if you want to be with him, let go of the past, look forward to the future, and do everything today.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Since you care about her past, don't continue to talk to her, it will affect your future. The future of the two of you depends on good love to have a future, and you are always entangled in the past. After that, you have no future.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Some things should be let go, if you can't let go, I think in your heart will always be a pimple will always be a hurdle that cannot be overcome, so forget the past and face the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    People's whole life is looking at money, no one goes back, the past is a passing cloud, a few years later, you will feel that your ideas are very unnecessary!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you care a lot about your girlfriend's past, then you give up this relationship, otherwise it will be unfair to you and her, and if you like her, you have to tolerate everything about her.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Do you also care what your girlfriend should do when she goes by? Where there is no past, let's go in the beginning. In the past, there was a little, maybe 1 or 5.

    Dear, you just don't inquire, there's nothing bad if you don't fight, you don't care about anything, you don't have to worry about this, people say that you can't go to whatever girlfriend you play. You have a little bit of the past, you think you have a little bit of the past, you are not tired, shouldn't you care so much? Thank you!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The reality of life, the past has passed, care about the present, people are constantly changing, mature and steady, responsible, tolerant, as long as your girlfriend truly loves you, happy and happy, grow old together.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you are particularly concerned about your girlfriend's past, break up decisively, her past is a thorn in your heart, you can't escape, you can't forget, only separation.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think if you care too much about not being together, it may be a kind of torture for yourself, and it is not fair to the woman, she may be able to find a man who loves her and doesn't care about her past.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Re-examine the relationship: if you love him, then accept her past, create a time that belongs to both of you together, and if you can't let go of your heart, then give up, otherwise you will fall in love in a tangled way, painful and uncomfortable.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You care a lot about your girlfriend's past, you should think a little more openly, and if you want to be together, then you should forgive her past.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you really like her, you have to be brave enough to face everything about her past. If you can't cross this hurdle, then you give up on her.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Everyone has a past, youth and ignorance have made mistakes, if you really care, just give up, it's not good for each other to be reluctant to be together.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you really like your girlfriend, you don't care about his past, everyone has a past, you should care about him, whether it's good for you or not.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You have to give your girlfriend a sense of security, just say that the past is gone, everyone should look forward, you love her the most.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    That means you don't love her very much, otherwise there is no need to care about her past, because you haven't appeared in the past, you just need to care about what is with you, everyone has their own past.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Friend, since you have chosen, you must face it bravely, we don't have a story yet!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Then you have to understand each other, if you don't understand each other, you will definitely have conflicts with your girlfriend, and it will be difficult to be together in the end.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I'm very concerned about my girlfriend's past, what should I do? Now that you have a relationship with him, you don't need to dwell on his past anymore, you should be open and good to her.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Everyone has a past, and the yearning for love when we were young is easy for first love to happen.

    Many people are not married to their first love, and my current marriage partner is not my first love, but my husband loves me very much and loves me very much, and he doesn't care about what happened before, because it was what happened before I met him.

    When I was in love, I confessed to my husband about my previous relationship with my first love, and I told my husband everything that happened before, and my husband didn't care about my previous affairs.

    My husband said to me: two people together should learn to tolerate and understand, the previous life let it go with the wind, cherish the life in front of you, cherish the talent in front of you is the happiest, and you can't grasp the previous things.

    I feel very happy, very lucky to meet my current husband, who loves me very much, and loves my husband very much. A husband who doesn't care about my former past.

    I hope you can also let go of your attachments, cherish the person in front of you, and if you love her, you shouldn't care about the bits and pieces of her past, which we can't control, so we should learn to accept it, if you really can't let it go, you can't accept it, you can only choose to separate from him.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The past is in the past, and there is nothing more important than two people in one, and everything should be accepted unconditionally by her.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If you care about her overstepping, it means that you can't let it go, so just break up, find a group of people to keep your women happy together.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Empathy: You yourself have had an ex-girlfriend, so you have to empathize, and if you have been in love, you will know how to get along better in love, and you will have a good chance of slowing down the development of your relationship. If you find that your girlfriend is still in contact with a guy he has dated before, you should be vigilant and make it clear to him, it is best to cut off the relationship, this situation is dangerous.

    It refers to the title of the man to the woman in the relationship, which is the abbreviation of what people usually call the girlfriend. "Girlfriend" is translated from the English word "girlfriend" in modern society, so it is often abbreviated as gf in Internet language. Over time, the Chinese have long accepted the name "girlfriend" or "girlfriend" for women who are in romantic relationships in daily life.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    1. If you are entangled, let it go, don't leave it to chance.

    If there is a problem in the relationship, the sooner you make a choice, the better. If you hesitate, or you can't make a decision, it will affect the relationship and future of two people. If you want to be together, this hesitation will ruin the relationship, and if you don't want to be together, once one party is deeply trapped, then it will be more difficult to make a choice.

    Therefore, in this case, if you are lucky, you can only cause unnecessary trouble to yourself. Therefore, once there is a tangle, it means that you mind care, then it is recommended to let go.

    2. Adjust yourself, guide yourself, try to accept, and don't think too much.

    Many times, the problem is not as complicated as we think, and the reason why we feel that the round potato is complicated is because we think it is complicated. We overthink it, and the quarrels have exacerbated some of the problems, so we are afraid. When we are complex in our hearts, we will think that everything is complicated.

    Therefore, we need to adjust ourselves, guide ourselves, face the challenges and tests of life, reverse our concepts, follow the times, pursue the present and the future, and do not need to care too much about the past. In this way, it will slowly get better. So, in this case, we take it boldly and then don't think about it.

    Just move forward.

    So, to put it bluntly, when you dwell on the other party's past, you only have two options, one is to let go, and the other is to accept. Let go, be decisive, and accept it willingly. You must not, you want to accept it, but you can't accept it.

    I want to let go, but I don't want to. Don't have this kind of mentality, and even if you do, you must adjust yourself in time. Otherwise, you will only be the one who suffers.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Caring is like telling Brother Yin that there is a stalk in his heart, this stalk can't be passed, and you will never be able to step on this heart. So if you care and want to be with him, you have to let go of these two words, or you have to let go of the world.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If you care about it very much, let it go, otherwise you will always care, even if you are married, you will feel uncomfortable, it is better to let go and go your own way.

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