People over 25 years old with rich emotional experience enter the !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You will definitely be a competent girlfriend and a good wife, for him, wait for a year, and then change and improve yourself, it is very touching to see it, if you let your boyfriend see it, I think he will change his mind;

You're waiting, does he know? I think you'd better find a time to sit down with him and have a good talk, if he is very rational, you can tell him about your past, calmly talk about the reasons why you care about him, if he doesn't accept it, you don't mention it again, just tell him the above words, I think your age should not be young, otherwise you will wait for a year in vain, since you can't give up, then let time speak for itself. I feel like you're going to be tired in the future!

Well, I don't advise you to give up, I just help you analyze the result of not giving up, okay?

1.He had a change of heart. I looked at the scenery outside, and found that it was nothing more than that, maybe it was not as good as my own home, so he turned around, you waited for what you wanted, you rebuilt the old good, and the happy ending, I won't say much.

2.He still didn't look back. It's nothing, you've only given yourself a year anyway.

Why a year and not indefinitely until he turns back? I think you already have the answer in your heart, that is, after a year, give up without looking back! It shows that you are still a very sane person.

Since you insist, then stick to it and do what you think is right!

ps: There are 9 months left, do your best to redeem it, if he doesn't look back after the expiration, I hope you can say to yourself freely: I tried my best, although the result is not what I wanted, a little regretful, but I don't regret my efforts, I am worthy of himself!

Bless you.

Okay, tell you what I would do if it were, and make a reference.

The first thing I don't like is the way I am now. Then I'm going to change. A person's heart rarely changes, but outsiders will feel that people have changed a lot through their appearance, or the way they speak.

No matter who you are, you have to learn to be distanced and learn to be attractive.

We don't want to get too close, but we have to give each other a chance to meet often. Bring him a new freshness.

The way you speak can change, your appearance can change, and even many things, as long as it makes you look different. Change a few shortcomings that he doesn't like about you, and if you don't want to, compromise at this stage.

But don't show in front of him how much you want to keep it. Men are easy to get annoyed with, they all go to women who are not easy to deal with, and then after playing, they return to the woman who is best for them.

Finally, you can take a look at books on horoscopes, which will be useful, at least make you feel like you have something to do.

I have had the same problem as you, but the way I treat feelings is to follow fate, fate can be fought for but not forced. Once we loved each other dead and alive, when we broke up, I was really sad and didn't know what to do, at that time my heart was broken, and I also thought about redemption and regression.

Later, I went to my hometown city, where I have my own career, although my heart is still uncomfortable, sometimes I am more lonely when I am alone, at that time I also have the same idea as you, give yourself and him a year, what will happen after a year, as time goes by, I put all my energy on my family and work, less than a year, I have only memories of this relationship, and there is no idea of redeeming it at all, because for me the past has passed, and it is unrealistic to go back, And I'm happy now.

Now I'm still alone, my family helped me get on a blind date, it's a very bland understanding, my impression of him is also very bland, everything is bland, compared with the previous vigorous, I think it's too unfair to this person, to be honest, I think I'm a good person now, I think it's because my fate hasn't arrived yet.

Don't hang yourself from a tree, feelings can be cultivated, you should find someone who really likes you. Time can dilute everything, sometimes the desire to be backward is greater than the power of love, not necessarily you don't necessarily really love him, but you can't let go of it after getting along for a long time! Twisted melons are not sweet, you should understand!

Don't let your good youth go to waste.

If you're willing to get tired, then wait, there's no impossible.

Someday he'll understand.

...I have such stamina, I'll wait for love!

Change yourself, learn makeup, learn women's amorous (socialize with more men), learn to dress.

Learn to cheat, learn not to care, learn to have fun on your own, and you'll find that there are actually a lot of big trees.

I think about it every day!A breakup will not be a sad one.