A few points for chasing girls, and three points for chasing girls

Boys can't be too simple.

<> "Chasing Girls" Three points to pay attention to.

1. Grasp the measure.

Let me ask you, when you meet a girl you like, you usually talk about how long she will come out to eat or even confess. Learn to empathize, girls at first thought that they were just making friends, chatting with each other, and it was not too late to try to be together when they slowly got a good feeling. You haven't been chatting for a week, and you can't help but express your heart directly, and in the eyes of girls, you will feel inexplicable, thinking that your purpose is not pure, and then you don't want to contact you anymore to stretch the front, take it slowly.

If you want to establish a deep connection with a girl, don't talk nonsense when chatting, say more useful things, and arouse the other person's interest. For example, paying attention to the other party's work-related information, sharing it in a timely manner, knowing what dishes he likes to eat, taking him directly when he is dating, and grasping the details, this is better than your sudden inexplicable confession. All in all, the matter of feelings cannot be rushed, it starts without foreshadowing, and you don't fail who fails.

2. Appropriately lower your expectations, the result may not be as you wish, and feelings are not something that will definitely be rewarded if you pay. If you meet a girl who has a crush on her, don't come up with the purpose of chasing her, the more you think about chasing her, the more you want to catch up, and it is easy to fail in the end. Some brothers are very confused when they see this:

Why don't I chase her? Is it just to make friends with girls? That's the difference between you and the high-ranking boys, who pay too much attention to the results.

Feelings are the more natural they get along, the easier it is to see the most sincere side of both parties, and the easier it is to have feelings to accompany you. The more flawless the packaging, the more the other party will not be able to see through you, and the sense of distance will occur, so you will naturally start to retreat. Show your true side appropriately and make the girl realize your sincerity.

3. Put the focus back on yourself, I believe that the brothers have heard a sentence: chasing girls depends on attraction. The same can be said of this:

If you bloom, butterflies will come. You put all your energy on each other, follow others every day, you are not annoyed, girls are also annoyed, and in the end you end up with a thankless reputation. Instead of focusing on Lupi good others, it is better to spend more time improving yourself, and when you become better, the girls you like will naturally start to pay attention to you.

When a man reveals even the slightest intention to pursue, he will be noticed by the girl, but she will not say it easily, but secretly observe.

And will fall in love with you or cut off contact with you depending on the situation.

In the initial stage of dating girls (that is, they have just met, and they don't know each other very well), because men are more emotional than women, so it is often men who are the first to feel that they like girls very much, and they will intentionally or unintentionally reveal their intention to pursue girls.

There are two types of intentions to pursue girls, that is, when you see or know a girl, there are two types of mental activities, the first is the intention to establish an emotional intimacy with the girl, and the second is the intention to have physical contact with the girl.

The first is easy to understand, some of her personality traits attract you, such as she is very confident, she is very gentle, or more personality, you would love to make friends with her, not because of her appearance but because of her inner qualities that attract you.

The second can be understood as simply the appearance and figure of a girl that makes you have that impulse.

From common sense, we can know that unless you are a local tyrant, the most taboo thing about chasing girls is to directly say what I want to do with you.

So, no matter how beautiful the girl you know, how good the body is, how attractive the eyes are, and you can't wait for something to happen, it's best not to show it so obviously until there is substantial progress (such as having an intimate relationship). Use the first mindset to communicate with a girl, even if you don't see the strengths in her personality at first, just bite the bullet and find a little bit and be prepared with specific examples to illustrate. This can naturally shorten the distance between you and the girl, and on this basis, applying some skills to chase girls will get twice the result with half the effort.

It can not only hide your sexual intentions towards her, but also make the girl feel that you care about her and that you really understand her.

If you are a beautiful girl, a girl with a high rouge ratio needs some skills and methods.

It still takes some skill, otherwise it won't be so easy to catch up.

Hello, chasing girls requires skills, chasing girls can't be blindly chased, for example, let girls be curious and interested in you, then you can chat or ask someone to get twice the result with half the effort, and there is no interest in chatting and playing with you, and you are chasing in vain.

Sincerity is the most important thing, but it also requires a certain amount of skill.

Let the girl feel your sincerity, feel that you can bring her the ultimate happiness, a stable future, and constantly show her charm, and the girl will slowly fall in love with you.