What are the lesser known considerations of boys in choosing a mate?

When I chose my other half, I only had three requirements: similar age, not ugly appearance, hardworking and simple. The later wife met the requirements, but now she is an old woman.

In the long river of years flowing quietly, we can be regarded as close to each other. There are also small quarrels, just as they are added to the big meal of life, and no one has been there with confidence.

When I was young, I also had a desire for beautiful women, and fantasies about raising my eyebrows. But look at the married life of the people around you, whether it is beautiful or not, most of them will inevitably torture each other. So I understood that beauty is not so important, and it is not realistic enough to raise eyebrows.

Find a woman who can have children, can live with peace of mind, is not so vain, is simple and has no good husband and children, no bad habits, good health and no huge debts, that's it. The road ahead is whether the two of them go hand in hand, or one after the other, stumbling and bumping, this is the way to choose marriage.

There is a husband and wife, 80 years old, the two have been separated for more than 30 years, and the AA system has been 27 years, and they are not even willing to use the strength to torture and quarrel with each other. The only wish is to no longer be husband and wife in this life, and the property will be divided into two, and there will be no more connections. When I got the divorce certificate, I actually had that kind of relaxed and happy smile.

Husbands and wives stay together, mostly out of the responsibility of future generations. Most of those who talk about emotions make marriage a habit. In fact, after many people really divorce, it is a kind of free and easy.

And these people often love life more than themselves, which is a kind of helplessness and even sadness framed in emotions.

In view of this, the wise young man's pursuit of character is more important than the coveting of beauty, after all, the level of education makes him understand that even if he has the appearance of a fairy, he will also go to the twilight. It is better to take advantage of the youth to find a woman with a decent temperament and credible moral character to hold hands for a lifetime.

This should not be careful thinking, careful thinking cannot withstand the long journey of marriage.

It's best to be satisfied with yourself, your family, and not have too much financial pressure!

Many men will pay great attention to each other's appearance when choosing their other half, and they also want each other to help themselves in their careers, and they like women's gentleness, in fact, they have a lot of requirements for girls. It is also better to have a relatively wealthy family.

Some boys will be jealous of whether they are the other party's first boyfriend when choosing a mate, and they will not let the other party know when they contact each other, but will confess to each other after talking for a while.

Usually like girls with white skin, good figure, tall and not fat, cheerful personality, talkative, etc., these are some careful thoughts for men to choose a mate.

Most boys like girls with good figures and good faces, so they will also look at their bodies and faces at first glance when choosing their other half, and take this as a standard.

care about appearance, pay attention to family background; Men are visual creatures, and they will pay attention to their appearance when choosing a mate; When choosing a mate, I will also like a good family background.

This problem is too big, different people have different purposes for falling in love, and the careful thinking they show is different. For example, a stingy man will record his love consumption list when he is in love, and if he breaks up, he may ask the other party to compensate for his own efforts.

This problem is too big, and different people talk about the purpose of Xunjian love, and the careful thinking shown is different. For example, a stingy man will record his love consumption list when he is in love, and if he breaks up, he may ask the other party to compensate for his own efforts. This problem is too big, different people have different purposes for falling in love, and the careful thinking shown is different.

For example, a stingy man will record his love consumption list when he is in love, and if he breaks up, he may ask the other party to compensate for his own efforts. This problem is too big, different people have different purposes for falling in love, and the careful thinking shown is different. For example, a stingy man will record his love consumption list when he is in love, and if he breaks up, he may ask the other party to compensate for his own efforts.

This problem is too big, different people have different purposes for falling in love, and the careful thinking shown is different. For example, a stingy man will record his love consumption list when he is in love, and if he breaks up, he may ask the other party to compensate for his own efforts. This problem is too big, different people have different purposes for falling in love, and the careful thinking shown is different.

First of all, men still like beautiful girls, preferably beautiful and cute. There is a girl-next-door feel.

Secondly, when choosing a girlfriend, it is best to have brothers and sisters at home. The girls on the shelf are more empathetic. And in the future, when the old people on both sides are older, the burden will not be so heavy in the future.

Moreover, the girlfriend may not have the ability to support the family, but she must have the ability to support herself and promote herself. At least your own daily expenses, you can turn yourself in.

In the end, boys still like girls who don't think much. Or a girl who is a little bit "silly". They like the feeling of girls being obedient. This makes you look more manly.

01.I want you to be dependent, but I don't want you to rely on it too much.

When you ask a lot of women why you are in a relationship or why you want to get married.

They all want someone you can rely on, someone you can rely on to make you feel safe, or a bad guy who makes you feel like you have a home.

There is also a kind of person who feels that she is very happy with this man, and she enjoys this happiness.

I've seen a lot of macho men who want women to be very special and dependent on them, so that they can show their charm and their own abilities.

But sometimes they don't want women to be too dependent, and that's their caution.

If all the burdens of a family are on the body of a man, then this man is very tired.

He prefers that women can have a little bit of their own ability and be able to shoulder a part of their own life, so that he can bear a little less and the burden on his body will be lighter.

I have to say that most of the TV dramas now reflect such a situation, and many men tell women before they get married.

After you marry me, you will be able to enjoy a happy life without having to work.

However, over time you will find out.

Some men don't accept all the enjoyment of women, while some men also think that stay-at-home wives are a kind of enjoyment, and they seem to ignore the hard work of stay-at-home wives.

There is nothing wrong with men being cautious, and women should be more vigilant and not let themselves become a person who is completely dependent on men.

Maybe he is particularly tired to carry the weight forward, or maybe he can't carry everyone with the weight to carry forward.

02.I can bear it, but sometimes I break down more than you.

People around me who have been married think that their husbands have a very good temper.

Because her husband is sometimes able to tolerate everything about her, her little temper, her occasional willfulness or her vexatiousness.

Sometimes we find that men have a lower anger level than women.

Sometimes men don't feel the need to be angry about something, but women seem to be careful.

For example, there is a matter around me that my colleague often complains about her husband.

She said her husband came home from work and lay on the couch and felt like he had nothing to do and wouldn't offer to help her cook.

She was very angry, who didn't work hard all day, who wanted to lie on the sofa and be comfortable.

Boys are willing to see beautiful girls in their own hearts, young and sunny girls, fashionable are the types they like, don't care if I'm suitable for you? But if you're beautiful, I'm willing to look at you twice, that's all a boy's thoughts.

I know from my heart that there are some very foreign, very fashionable girls, very materialistic, they can't catch up, although there is an urge in my heart to have it, but it is absolutely impossible to live with them.

If you want to find a stable and down-to-earth one, so although it is a bit of a bad idea, we can talk to him about love, and be with him to have a vigorous love story. But Qi Ming is long-looking, and he has to find a stable life, because only by living a down-to-earth life can he live a stable life. So who hasn't ever been young?

Same as I thought, so be it!

If he really loves you, he will think about what you think, take your efforts for granted, and not care about the gains and losses. Behind the calculation is the reluctance to take one more step, the cautious taste of luck and the fear of losing or hurting yourself. Someone who really loves you won't be anxious or hesitant about it, and if a person often includes you when it comes to the future, "we can come back to ...... in the future.""We'll be able to do ...... together in the future"Then there's a good chance he really loves you.

If someone, especially a man of a certain age, is willing to discuss with you the issue of "having children", or the problem of raising children, and has also planned your status, to a large extent, he has already regarded you as a very important person.

3. Praise you really.

Normally, nervous men are always difficult to detect the changes that occur in women, just like Midoriko in "Norwegian Wood" drastically changes her hairstyle, but Watanabe is absent-mindedly unaware of it.

If a man can be sensitive to your changes, maybe it's just that today's coat is lined with a good complexion, and the hairstyle changes from long straight hair to slightly curly and wavy. The fact that a small change can be taken into the eyes of the other party shows that he is observant of you, which means that you have occupied a very important place in his eyes and even in his heart.

Maybe he is not a person who is good at sweet words and expressing emotions, and it is difficult to hear enthusiastic praise from his mouth, but he can make constructive plans for your life and work, and is willing to patiently talk to you about your future life vision and make appropriate suggestions for you. He doesn't say much, the emphasis is enough, and the man who is willing to help you grow up must really love you.

There is a big difference between these two sentences! If a man is willing to look you in the eye and say the words "I love you" seriously, it means that he has a serious relationship with you. And if he just says "love you" without a subject, deliberately ignoring his role, it doesn't sound so sincere, as if he is avoiding something, and the meaning is self-evident.

In the long process of staying together, each of us is trying to make love come to the end in our own way.

I have worked hard, I have paid, I have compromised, and I have tolerate.

Don't forget the original intention, hope that love can be eternal.

1.Love and marriage can be separated, girls in most cases love and marriage are one, not that you must get married if you fall in love, but that falling in love is to get married, as for whether you can get married, is another matter. And boys are different, for boys, love and marriage can be completely separated.

If they just want to fall in love, then they will choose the one that looks good and they like, but if Jian Ling is going to get married, then they will consider all aspects, whether the personality is suitable or not, how is the woman's family and work, whether the two of them will get along better in the future, etc. So do you think your boyfriend loves you very much, takes care of you in every way, and lets you quarrel, do you feel that he can't do without you? Wrong, he may just be immersed in a romantic relationship, on the surface he loves deeply, but in fact, he has already labeled you in his heart, whether he can get married or not, if he can't get married, then no matter how good he is to you when he is in love, he will rationally separate from you when he wants to get married, and find someone who is more suitable for marriage.

In a word, it's good to enjoy when you're in love, and don't believe the promises you tell the smart guy, unless he kneels down on one knee in front of you with an engagement ring.

2.The economic conditions of girls are also very important in love and marriage relationships, what we often see is that girls require each other to have a certain economic foundation, to have a house and a car, so the charges of "reality" and "money worship" are all placed on girls, and boys are poor worms who are sucked blood. Is this really the case?

The reality of girls is on the surface, and they will clearly tell each other what they want, while the reality of boys is hidden in their hearts. If it's just a relationship, the boy may not care about the girl's family background and work, but he will definitely watch people put on the dishes. For example, some women can receive more expensive gifts from their boyfriends without moving, while some girls receive them once in a while, and it is just a cheap or even cheap thing.

Many people attribute it to the fact that the boy has no money, but in fact, the boy who has no money will try his best to give her the best when he meets the first type of girl, and the rich boy who meets the second type of girl will only give some cheap small gifts, why? Because the value is different. Girls who can often send expensive gifts have a high value in themselves, such as they are very rich, and the things they usually use are very expensive, and girls who always receive cheap gifts have a big loss and their quality of life is not very high, and boys feel that they are not worthy of receiving expensive gifts.