In a marriage relationship, why do two people quarrel endlessly?

Because two people have been together for too long, it is inevitable that there will be a lot of small frictions, although they are all small things, but it is easy to cause quarrels, so many people will quarrel endlessly in marriage. I don't think it's terrible to quarrel, as long as two people have each other in their hearts, then quarreling is also a kind of fun.

The reason why two people quarrel endlessly is because two people care too much about each other, and this situation will only occur if two people ask each other more.

Marriage requires two people to live together, and there will always be some unsmooth or trivial things in life, which can easily cause quarrels.

Married life itself is two independent individuals, each person has their own ideas, and two people must need to run in slowly in the process of life, so that there will be endless quarrels.

In fact, the reason is very simple, many people will say that the three views do not agree, the main reason is that the family economy is not rich enough, if the economy is good, there is basically nothing to quarrel about, isn't it?

Because two people are husband and wife, they care about each other very much, even if it is a little thing, they also want to be very perfect, once the other party has ** shortcomings, it is easy to have contradictions.

Because the personalities of two people are incompatible, there are many things that will cause conflicts if they disagree, so two people will have endless quarrels when they live together.

I think that since you can become a husband and wife, you will still have feelings for each other, but those feelings are hidden in the firewood, rice, oil and salt of life, at this time you need to think about why you quarrel with each other and try to make changes. It is not easy to say that you will give up on a marriage.

I think whether or not you can continue is a conclusion that both parties need to come to after considering their own emotional background, such as family situation, whether they have children and other factors. Therefore, it needs to be discussed separately.

No, however, before the divorce, you must protect your own interests, but after all, people who have no feelings for you will be very ruthless.

Summary. If you just quarrel over small things in life, it is recommended to stabilize your emotions, not to quarrel, and to change the way of communication. When you encounter a problem, deal with it coldly first, and then communicate well when the other party calms down. Quarrels hurt feelings, try not to be noisy.

What should I do if the couple's personal feelings are noisy, the husband and wife who quarrel and quarrel are gone, the noisy and noisy feelings are gone, and the husband and wife have no quarrelsome feelings.

If you just quarrel because of trivial things in life, Jianqiao Hui discusses stabilizing the scumbag's own emotions, not arguing, and changing the way of communication. When you encounter a problem, deal with it coldly first, and then communicate well when the other party calms down. The quarrel hurts feelings, and Min Liang replied as much as possible not to quarrel.

Zhenyin Brigade has quarreled many times, more than once or twice, and until now, we have quarreled with Feng Li, because he has quarreled many times because of suspicion of telling him, he is uncomfortable, and he lost his temper and threw things.

Give him trust, and even if he has doubts, don't let him discover your suspicions. Try not to be noisy and say things in a different tone. Don't talk about old things, and talk about things when you encounter them. When both of you are calm, talk about your thoughts and feelings.

I quarrel with the two, I don't get angry since ancient times, I will quarrel without recuperation and upbringing, men quarrel, stare at each other, drink some wine and want to be angry, for the elderly and children to live well, after the quarrel I take the erhu to the park, sometimes go to the slope and no one cry, the disease is angry, I have the right to everyone, I love to learn health, poison and gas are not recommended in the body, physical health is the first.

It's normal for husband and wife to quarrel, and you can't be happy after reconciliation because you are still entangled in the right and wrong of the quarrel, and if you are reconciled, you will happily live a good life, and husband and wife should get along more tolerantly, and everything depends on their own temper, then it is not a life, and the family is not good for the family, and the children are not good, (if the husband and wife have children in their married life, they must set an example in front of the children, and smile more at the children) Don't always be entangled in unpleasant things, which is not good for your health.

If you are in love, although you say that you will reconcile after a quarrel, there is always a feeling that you are afraid of losing and losing the other party.

After the quarrel and soberness, you will find that it may be your own unreasonable trouble, and you are afraid that your other half's opinion of you will change, and it will be difficult to be happy when you suffer from gains and losses.

<> if you are already an old husband and wife, quarrels are commonplace. You will find that every time you quarrel, it is the same kind of problem, for example, because of the quarrel of living habits, the wife hates that her husband is lazy and does not do housework, etc. The husband has been taught repeatedly, a person's patience is really limited, a woman is taking care of the children and the family every day, if the husband does not help to share, it will inevitably be a quarrel every day.

The more you quarrel, the more tired you become. Every time I quarrel, it's like a knife in my heart, and over time, I am scarred, and reconciliation is just for life, not because two people love and tolerate each other.

There is also a possibility that your husband is a straight man, and he will not coax you after a quarrel, and he doesn't understand the expectations and feelings in your heart, and this kind of gap is difficult to make you happy.

If you reconcile after every quarrel, you are still a little unhappy in your heart. It shows that every time I quarrel, I hurt my feelings a little, I leave a little scar in my heart, there is still a hurdle in my heart that has not passed, and the problem has not been solved well.

Of course not, there must be a problem with the relationship between the two people after the quarrel, it's just a small problem, but it will explode with the accumulation of time.

Of course, it's not that there is nothing left, and after the husband and wife quarrel, there will definitely be estrangement in their hearts, and there will be pimples, which is a kind of hurt to the feelings.

Of course not, after a quarrel between husband and wife, there will definitely be a rift in their hearts, and if they don't pay attention to making up for it, maybe the two will divorce quickly.

Not necessarily, but to divide something. For example, if you are reconciled with a trivial matter such as buying vegetables and cooking, there will really be nothing, because there will inevitably be some small friction between husband and wife, which is normal, but if it is a matter of principle, although it is reconciled, most of it is only because the relationship still loves each other in the heart, or there are common children, and for some reasons, there is no way to separate, so it is reconciled on the surface, but psychologically it is still not forgiven.

No, after a quarrel, I will always remember this in my heart, and when I am angry, I always want to talk about it, and it will be imprinted in my heart.

No, there will still be some shadows in each other's hearts, and when these shadows accumulate to a certain extent, they will eventually explode, so you must learn more about how couples get along, after all, no matter how deep the relationship is, it will be reduced because of quarrels.

In fact, after the husband and wife quarrel, they reconciled, and it is not that there is nothing left, and a quarrel will hurt the feelings once, so try not to quarrel between husband and wife, understand each other more, and support each other.

I think that partners who live together, whether they are husband and wife or lovers in a cohabiting relationship, will inevitably have some daily stumbles after getting along for a long time, and many times, due to the pressure of life and the tense pace of work, the conflicts between partners are always not resolved in time, and over time they accumulate into despair of the relationship. Many women say that it is too difficult to manage a harmonious marriage and love relationship, and the firewood, rice, oil and salt in life have exhausted people, and the excess energy to add a spoonful of sugar to love.

Always express to your husband that you need him, for men, not being needed by their own woman means that they have lost their value in the relationship. If you make your man feel that his presence is insignificant to you, he will even lose confidence and stop bothering about managing your relationship.

A man has not been cultivated by you to participate in life, and he will slowly feel that he is not needed in the process, so he silently stops trying, until you start complaining about him, he feels even more that you dislike him, and you dislike his existence only adds triviality and annoyance to you. When he feels that you need him, respect him, trust him, and appreciate him, he will feel confident in your relationship.

If two people don't understand each other, and the three views are particularly incompatible, I suggest divorce, such days will only make the differences between the two people more and more serious, always quarreling, life will definitely not be easy, and they will not be happy, it is better to end happily and give each other a relief.

If you have children, then marriage is not a matter for the two of you, and children need to be considered. After marriage, there are often quarrels, there is no common topic, and you should try to solve this problem.

It shouldn't end, marriage and falling in love are inherently different, you can just think about playing, pastime, and entertainment when you are in love, but after getting married, that's life, you have to worry about a lot of things, and you have to run in with each other to find the best way to get along in marriage.

It should end, a long-term quarrel will only make the gap between you bigger and bigger, such a marriage is unhappy, long pain is better than short pain, your marriage is not happy, there is no need to wronged yourself, why not let go as soon as possible and give each other relief.

I've been married for eight years, and I think you should have your own understanding, it's not easy for everyone, it's impossible to have so many common topics all the time, and it's impossible for anyone to keep it fresh all the time. It's better not to end.

I don't think it should end, because I feel that after eight years of marriage, it may be like this, it is impossible to have so many topics like when I was in love, we have been together for eight years, we must have our own families, and now that we are divorced, it will be a great loss to you.

I wonder if the Lord already has his own love crystallization, if so, even if it is for the sake of the child. Try not to give up a hard-won marriage easily.

If there is really no common topic, then I feel that you should find a way to find a common topic, and not think about separating when you have a problem, but find a way to solve it.

I don't think so, quarrels are very emotional, so I think if two people are in a state of quarreling all the time and don't solve it through communication, it may lead to greater conflicts, leading to divorce or breakup.

exists, people often say that beating is kissing and scolding is love, this sentence is not false at all, and quarreling is also a matter of increasing the relationship between husband and wife.

Such a marriage does not exist, because every quarrel will definitely affect the relationship between the husband and wife, and frequent quarrels are likely to upset the entire marriage, so this situation is rare.

I think it should be continued, after all, not quarreling is a thing that deserves recognition. If there is no quarrel, then the marriage may be more harmonious, so be sure to continue.

I don't think there is a need to continue a marriage without quarrels, and every time I have an argument with my husband, my husband always shakes his head and leaves without saying a word, and a long cold war ensues. Over time, the communication between the two people became less and less, even if they sat at the same table to eat, they each played with their mobile phones, and there was no communication.

In marriage, as most men do, when faced with quarrels, they always tend to avoid conflict, thinking that the Cold War can ease things. But in fact, the Cold War will only make the situation worse and worse, and the two people have no communication, hiding all their dissatisfaction and complaints in their hearts, and as a result, this dissatisfaction is snowballing bigger and bigger.

And arguing appropriately and venting dissatisfaction can increase the affection between two people. My colleague Xing Xing and her husband recently divorced, and we are all very different about this news, because the two of them have never blushed during their three years of marriage.

It was a sudden decision for us, but only Xingxing and her husband knew about it, in fact, they had been thinking about it for a long time. Xingxing's husband always chooses to avoid marital conflicts when facing them, and Xingxing is also known for his good temper, and he endures unacceptable things.

The two of them endured each other like this, suppressed all their dissatisfaction in their hearts, and finally didn't even have room for buffering, and directly ushered in the divorce situation. In fact, in a long-term marriage, there is no husband and wife who do not quarrel, do not quarrel for money, and will always quarrel for their children and parents.

And quarrelsome couples are not necessarily bad, Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu's marriage is a happy marriage that everyone advertises, the two have been together for decades, Qian Zhongshu even called Yang Jiang the most virtuous wife. But they are also like ordinary people, two people will quarrel and quarrel over one thing, but they regard bickering as a kind of joy in life.

Even when friends go to visit them in old age, the two always like to quarrel during the banquet. Quarrel This matter is like a seasoning in ordinary life for Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu. Jhon Gottman, Ph.D., founded the Love Lab at Walton University.

After studying marriage for more than 30 years, he found that couples who claimed to never quarrel were usually more satisfied with their marriage than the average person in a short period of time. But after three years, Gottman came back to study the non-contentious couples and found that the marriage satisfaction of this group was lower than that of those who quarreled about the problem.

Couples who claim not to quarrel will suppress their dissatisfaction with each other for a long time, and when they explode, they will be irreparable. Quarreling couples vent their dissatisfaction during daily quarrels, thus maintaining a longer marital relationship. In fact, quarrels are not terrible, and may even benefit the relationship between two people, but the point is how to quarrel and the way to quarrel.

In the process of reasonable quarrels, two people will vent and alleviate their pent-up emotions and dissatisfaction. Quarreling harmlessly can even become a joy of life, learn the correct ways and methods of quarreling, learn to quarrel at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed, in order to get over the sweeter.