Why adapt to it if you can t change it?

Only when you accept and adapt to it will you have the opportunity to transcend and change it.

Writer Yang Daxia described that if you dare to accept it, you can transform.

Adapting to the environment is a very important ability to survive, and adaptation is actually change. When you adapt, the environment naturally changes, because your judgment mentality changes. If you can't adapt, you can't change the environment, because your mentality before you are disgusted has not changed.

People who can adapt to the environment are actually people who can reflect on themselves and change themselves, and such people will succeed in whatever they do.

The fundamental reason for not being able to adapt to the environment is still unwilling to reflect and change oneself, and such a mentality cannot be adapted to the extreme, and nothing will be successful.

People who are good at adapting do not complain and are always in a calm mood. Parents are a calm role model, and children are naturally calm. Parents are impetuous and want to calm their children, there is no such thing.

Excellent children are not taught, but nurtured by example. Parents set a good example, and children naturally imitate it, and it is impossible not to be excellent.

Parents who do not set a good example and want their children to be good are, of course, delusional.

Many people are good at changing jobs and changing jobs and units in their lifetime. I have been passively adapting all my life and have never changed units, but at a certain point, the units themselves have changed.

Cultivation is actually adaptation, not letting you choose a good environment, a good family, a good job, and then practice, but practicing in your existing family, work, and life.

If you don't change the environment, you can change yourself. And people who frequently change their environment have never changed themselves, so they have never really adapted to the environment.

Capable people choose the environment, and I am the least capable person who can only change myself.

I've been in four units in total, and all three changes have been passive. The first time it was transferred by the leader, and the last two times it was that the unit no longer existed.

People with courage choose the environment, but I don't have the courage to adapt.

Heroes change the world, saints change themselves.

When I was younger, I didn't know why I didn't have ambition and courage, but now I understand that I belong to the people who conquer me.

Although I don't have the ability to choose the environment, I don't complain about the environment, I just try to adapt and improve myself.

Rabindranath Tagore once said, "If you cry when you miss the sun, you miss the stars too."

So, how do you deal with the mistakes you make? In my opinion, there is only one principle: change what you can change, and adapt what you can't.

adaptation can't be changed", that is, to face up to the reality of the past, believing that there is no road in vain in life, even if it is a detour, there is a detour of the scenery. All those losses and tears that have been shed will eventually turn into our life experience and wisdom.

Change what you can change", is the courage to meet the challenges of the future, everything in the past is a foregone conclusion, only people who do not linger for sadness and know how to adjust themselves in time can live well in the present and the future.

You know, no one is not wrong, and a lot of real-world success comes step by step from past failures. The more failures you experience, the more you realize that what is right is only because someone never gives up.

Therefore, at all times, please believe that the best life must be the life that has the courage to be responsible for yourself.

A fish whose life is bored always wants to find a chance to get out of the sea. One day. It was salvaged by fishermen and stocked in a dilapidated tank.

Every day, the fisherman will always put some fish and insects in the beam of the tank, and the fish will eat in a big gulp, and when they are tired, they can stop and take a nap. The fish began to rejoice in their wonderful fate, their current life, and their floral clothes.

The days went by day by day, and the fish swam day by day. It seemed a little tired of it, but never wanted to go back to the sea again. "I'm a pretty fish.

It always says so to itself. The fisherman has to go out to sea and return home for ten days and a half months. The fish had to eat the leftovers of the fisherman's son, and he was in a very bad mood.

Finally, the news came that the fisherman had been shipwrecked. The fisherman's son packed up his things and moved away. Brought everything with me, only forgot about the beautiful fish.

The fish was very sad, and it was very sad to think that the fishermen who had treated it so well in the past, but now they were killed. The fish began to complain, complaining that the tank was too small, that the food was too poor, that the fisherman's son was rude to him, that the fisherman was so easy to go to sea, and even that his companions did not dissuade him when he decided to leave the sea, and that he had forgotten to complain about everything he knew, but only about himself.

Time passed quietly, and the fish in the broken tank looked beautiful, but it was a dead fish.

Today's insights. When difficulties and disasters strike. Any complaints will be to no avail. If we can't change, then we adapt, and then find ways to solve the problem, and get out of the status quo in the process of solving the problem.

We all know that we should adapt to the environment we are in and make ourselves better and better.

When the disturbing environment in which we are in has changed, we must also learn to change ourselves, whether it is the environment or the various problems brought to us by life and work, we must adapt to them and change, and this adaptation and change is also a kind of tempering and growth for ourselves.

We must continue to adapt to the work to bring us all kinds of problems, a variety of role play, improve themselves, enrich themselves, only continue to learn, to exercise themselves, we will better adapt to the society to bring us all kinds of problems, no one is perfect, no matter what happens, there must be a process of adaptation, the stage of adaptation.

The times are changing and changing all the time, we only improve our own experience, will keep pace with the times, "knowledge changes fate, dreams create the future", only we learn by ourselves, have our own dreams, we will not be defeated, will not be crushed by all kinds of things in reality, we will become stronger.

In today's society, with rapid development, we can only have a better development trend if we adapt to change ourselves.

If a tree can bend with the wind, it will not be blown down no matter how strong the wind is. In the same way, if you encounter a situation beyond your control, you can "bend without breaking" like a tree.

Change is inevitable. Scripture.

Everyone, he said, can have "unforeseen circumstances". (Ecclesiastes 9:11) There are some or less unexpected things in life, but not all changes are bad.

Sometimes, what seems bad at first turns out to be unexpected. However, people are usually accustomed to living a stable life, and when life changes, for better or worse, it can be overwhelming.

To learn to adapt, adaptability is the ability to return to normalcy in the face of adversity or change. Resilient people are not only patient, but also look positively at their environment. People with strong resilience do not use alcohol to relieve stress when faced with extreme stress.

Accept that everyone wants to be in control of their own lives, but realistically, this is not too possible. Since change is inevitable, God is learning to accept reality and not be led away by negative thoughts all the time. "Don't say:

Why were the old days better than they are now? "There is no wisdom in asking you that. (Ecclesiastes 7:.)

10) Looking into the FutureIf you keep thinking about the past, it's like driving on the highway with your eyes in the rearview mirror. It's good for motorists to look in their mirrors from time to time, but it's important to keep an eye on the front. In the face of change, we must also focus on the future.

The eyes should be straight ahead, and the eyes should be fixed on the front. (Proverbs 4:25).

Whether a person can adapt to change depends on his mentality. It is important that we look at what is happening with a positive eye. Can you list one or two of the benefits that will come from the change?

I always feel that changing myself is like abandoning myself, we can grow, but after the experience, don't force yourself, I have to learn to love myself.