People live for a lifetime, do you really have to be chic?

Hello! A person's life is happy, chic and chic is of course the best.

Many people don't live a chic life because they understand that they are not living for themselves, but with a responsibility on their shoulders. From an early age, especially boys, they have to start a family to support their families. Ninety per cent of the salary is spent on families, while individuals can only use up to 5 per cent.

Without the economy as the foundation, if you want to live a chic life, it is not so easy for the empty faction.

There are only a small number of people, who are the darlings of society, with high salaries and generous economic benefits. There is no economic pressure of rough loss, network resources and enthusiasm for life, and the life is chic.

As ordinary people, they also want to live a chic life, rely on their own ingenuity and hard work to create wealth, and make their lives complete, but the responsibilities and burdens they carry are too heavy, and their dreams conflict with reality. It is not my intention to live a chic life, but a responsibility.

How many people are really responsible for living for themselves? Eating, drinking, and having fun regardless of family and only caring about one's own pleasure, in fact, this is not living a chic life, but living a confused life.

The reason why we don't live a chic life may be because we haven't experienced enough things, we don't have enough experience, we haven't realized it thoroughly, we haven't seen through the true cherry blossom shape of everything in this world, and we don't have enough wisdom to answer the song, so we don't live a chic life.

There is also a situation that we have experienced enough things, enough ups and downs and pains, but because the inner energy is not enough, we can't support it under the beating of society, so we have become a character like Xiangzi in "Camel Xiangzi".

So, it can be concluded that how to live in style?

Instead of looking outward, it is better to look inward.

Many people's lives are chasing for desires, never stopping, and after one desire is satisfied, there are countless desires, which may not end until death. These are all outward seeking, and outward seeking does not solve a person's confusion and confusion.

Schopenhauer once said: Life is like a pendulum clock, oscillating between pain and boredom, suffering when desires are not satisfied, and boring when desires are satisfied.

Whether it's a painful emotion or a boring emotion, after all, you are led by the nose by emotions and desires. Why can't you take control of your own life? In order to solve the pain when desires are not satisfied, and in order to solve the boredom when desires are satisfied, we must learn to cultivate our minds, keep learning, and increase our wisdom in life.

Mr. Yang Jiang also once said: Your problem is that you read too little and think too much.

Perhaps, these confusions are due to the lack of reading, no one to show you the way, maybe you can find better answers in the book.

Most people don't live in style. It is because they live not only for themselves, but for the family of Pinbumo, and they have a heavy responsibility on their shoulders.

As an ordinary person, everyone wants to live a chic life. Rely on your own hands and ingenuity to work hard, through the vicissitudes of life to create wealth. Who doesn't want to enjoy living a chic life, but they are more for the family.

Take on the duty of the child to take on the wrongs. It is not the intention to live a chic life, but the burden of the family is bent over. Living a chic life is incompatible with the cruel reality of water and fire, helpless, helpless, helpless.

For example, boys have to start a family, buy a house, buy a car, and support their children's education. He doesn't care about his own food, clothing and pleasure, but spends all his heart and income on his family and raising his children's education. Think about it, without the support of the economy, how easy is it to live a chic life?

Only a very small number of people are the darlings of the social elite. Smart and wise, with a high status and a high salary, there is no need to worry about the economy. Eating, drinking and having fun is a piece of cake for them, and they live a chic life with a wide range of contacts.

Actually, people who are really responsible for their families. How many people live for themselves? Only those who eat, drink and have fun, ignore their families and only care about their personal enjoyment, and are self-centered and selfish live a chic life, which seems to be chic, but in fact it is very tiring.

Life, in order to work hard and realize dreams, the pressure of hardship is inevitable, the difficulties and setbacks are immeasurable, life troubles, workplace pressure, cynicism between people, intrigue, deceit, it is even more impetuous, complaining, feeling that life is sinful, but being able to endure hardship is also a kind of tempering, eating hardship, Fang is a great man, life must be firm and strong, unyielding, flexible adjustment of mentality, way of thinking and handling skills, so as to face sudden difficulties and pressure, In order to be optimistic and positive, calmly, find ways to solve difficulties, continue to struggle, if because of frustration pressure, become hesitant and retreat, doubt yourself, and even roll away from malaise, then the dream is just a fantasy, success is just a luxury, so, optimistic and positive, sunny and confident, there is always a turnaround and hope.

Because these people think too much, they don't live in style. And I think that life is my own, and success is hard work. Seize the present and enjoy life!

No matter what we do, we have to face life, escape is not necessarily hidden, face is not necessarily the most uncomfortable, loneliness is not necessarily unhappy, gain may not be long, loss may not be no more, turn around is not necessarily the weakest, don't rush to say that there is no choice, don't think that the world is only right and wrong, many things have more than one answer, so we have a way to go, you can find a reason to be sad, you can also find a reason to be happy! People who know how to relax find relaxation, people who know how to forget find freedom, people who know how to care find friends, the cold weather is not cold, the heart is cold, and there is love in the heart to not be lonely! Life is short, and everything is fleeting.

Life is an accident, death is an inevitability! Why bother asking questions about some unnecessary people, things, feelings, and hearts? How's it going?

What if you can't get it?

The process of living, this is life! Don't ask yourself to take every step is right, only ask yourself to take every step is no regrets Life is enough! Find the value of your existence while you are alive!

Make your life a little fuller!Since you have come to this world once, you can live with him once!

To live, you must have your own "goals" and "dreams", and paint a few colors on your life! If you can't find the value of your own existence, think about how you can give yourself an explanation, an explanation to your parents, friends, and the one you love the most!

Why do many people not live a chic life? I think we can come to this question from several aspects: first, what is free and easy, or what do you think is free and easy.

For example, some people feel that there is endless money to spend, and they can buy whatever they want, which is free and easy, some people will think that they are unrestrained, and they can do whatever they want, regardless of what others think, and some people think that being able to live their own life is free and easy. So the first step is to define a goal and see what kind of human limb you want to become.

Second, find the point where you bind yourself. What makes you unable to become such a person, is it because of your early personality? Is it an economic condition? Is it the influence of the people around you? Think about it.

Third, after clarifying the goal and finding the problem, we have to think about how much of the decision to change is in your hands, if the percentage is particularly low, then I think what you need to do is not to change, but to learn to accept yourself, and this future can also be discussed. If you have a large percentage of the decision, you can move on to the next step.

Fourth, set goals, since you have this problem now, it means that there is a certain difficulty in achieving it, the big goal has been set, and the next step is to set phased goals, for example, I feel that there is endless money, I want to buy what I want to buy is free and easy, then I don't have such a strong ability at present, I have to achieve it in small stages, first of all, I have to have a job, secondly, according to the income of the work to make a financial plan, and then my goal can be set, such as achieving self-sufficiency within 1 year, Within 3 years, you can buy some light luxury, etc., and refine the goal, so that every time you complete a goal, it will increase the sense of achievement and motivation, and if you don't complete it, it is convenient to check the correctness of the goal and adjust it in time.

1. See through but don't say through. Many things, as long as you know them in your heart, there is no need to say them.

2.Be happy, just laugh, and let everyone know. Sadness, just pretend that nothing happened.

3.Under the condition of not violating the principles, we should be tolerant of others, help if we can, and never force people to be rejected and leave a way back ......

4.Happiness is the most important thing, and you will be with whom, what, or whatever makes you happy. Whatever makes you unhappy, you leave him. There are no conditions, and the conditions are created to leave him.

5.Don't keep confiding in others about your predicament and revealing your vulnerability.

6.There is no such thing as a perfect thing, there is no perfect person, the key is to know exactly what you want. Get what you want, you will definitely lose another part. If you want everything, you won't get anything.

7.I like the quote from a friend, "Forgetfulness is a good thing." ”

8.If two people make a mistake at the same time, the one who stands up and bears it is called tolerance, and the debt owed by the other party must be repaid sooner or later.

10.Don't be a hedgehog, if you can't make enemies with others, you won't make enemies with others, no one will be with anyone for a lifetime, there are some things that you don't need to keep in mind.

11.While learning to compromise, we must also adhere to the most basic principles of our own skill.

12.Don't stop learning. No matter what you are learning, language, cooking, all kinds of skills.

13.Money is very important, but you can't rely on men or parents, and you must maintain a certain amount of earning .......

14.Don't overestimate your strength in the collective, because when you choose to leave, you will find that the sun rises even without you.

15.The past can not be forgotten, but it must be let go.

16.Even if you lose everything, don't lose the ...... smile.

17.Whatever choice you make, don't regret it, because regret won't help.

18.Don't say anything drastic on impulse.

19.Don't make promises lightly, promises that you can't make are more hateful than not making them.

20.Don't think that there will be love if you don't understand. When we don't understand, we just like it, and we can't reach love. When each other's shortcomings are exposed, many times the liking will end.

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

Do what you want to do, love people worthy of love, make friends who resonate, be able to work wholeheartedly, and have the courage to go. You can devote yourself to everything and get out of it.

Chic in the eyes of others is not really chic Don't deliberately pursue anything chic Natural happiness Maybe these are the biggest chic in the eyes of many people.