The poor must have something to hate , why do you say that about the poor man?

Lu Xun said such a thing when he wrote Kong Yiji's article, and quoted such a sentenceThe cruel words of "poor people must have their hateful" are mainly about Kong Yiji is a very pitiful person in the article, but such a person is pitiful and hatefulSo it is like this, this sentence spreads and spreads widely and is known to all, but what many people don't know is that the next sentence of the sentence is ".Those who hate will have miserable sufferingTherefore, blindly taking words out of context is not an advisable act, and Li Xun's purpose in saying such things is not to say that poor people are not worthy of sympathy.

Poor people are indeed worthy of everyone's sympathy, because they have experiences that they can't say, or tragic experiences that we can't imagine, we should always treat the world with a kind heart, even if the world speaks ill of me, but I should always have hope, because a person's mental state will change a person's code of conduct, and will also determine the person's ceiling or the future of his life, we should always have good intentions.

When writing this sentence, we must first analyze what Mr. Lu Xun wants to explain, and what he wants to criticize. I want to criticize a poor person like Confucius, but he did not resist, nor did he realize the cruelty of feudalism to him, but approached feudalism and vainly wanted to change his life through feudalism, which is very hateful and very sad.

The poor man is indeed not worthy of everyone's go, pity him or sympathize with him, because he can choose a better life, but he chooses to give up because of lazinessYou can see that there are people who are able-bodied and able to work who are begging, thinking why they don't work and get paid to improve their lives. It is because they are too lazy and lazy that they give up on themselves and their lives, and such people are decadent and unworthy of everyone's sympathy.

There is a cause and there must be an effect, and because there are hateful things, the result will be pitiful.

Because if he is pitiful, he will definitely do some very shameful things, so he hates him more.

I think that's the case, for example, if a person who can't speak goes to beg in the street, I think he's pitiful and hateful, because he's not out of work.

Because such a statement has a certain factual basis, it is all karma.

Because naturally, he did some annoying things and finally became a pitiful person.

Because naturally, it is he who has done something annoying to be spurned.

That's what it is, poor man, he must have done hateful things before.

Because I may have done a lot of wrong things before I finally became a pitiful person.

Because every poor person has a reason for his pity, so how to say?

What is revealed is the problem of the philosophy of life and the criticism of a small number of people, which means that the unsatisfactory reality of a seemingly poor person must be caused by previous mistakes or self-inflicted blame, and the hatred of such people is that they know that they are wrong and continue to teach and blame themselves.

Give people roses, and there is fragrance in your hands". Helping others is an act that benefits both parties, but it can also be very contradictory at times. On the one hand, by helping others, we can experience a sense of strength and moral nobility.

But on the other hand, people have the instinct to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and "pain the pain of others" does not make people feel good. Moreover, the story of Mr. Dong Guo and the wolf also illustrates the disadvantages of misusing compassion.

Pity is divided into "really pitiful" and "fake pitiful". The former is that they have tried as hard as possible but the situation is still not good or disaster befalls them, this "pitiful" is equivalent to "unfortunate" and "respectable", and both sides are psychologically equal in seeking help and ministering, such as the Sichuan compatriots who are still optimistic after **. The latter is that some people consciously or unconsciously lower their posture or disguise, using it as a means to obtain some kind of benefit or win the sympathy of others to achieve their own goals, such as:

"Fake beggars" on the streets.

In reality, I see that many women are having a very bad time in their married life. But I don't really sympathize with such a person, because you tell him some reasons or methods. He always tells you that he has a lot of difficulties, and that's what marriage is all about.

Either it's forbearance, or it's ruthless.

Then when you are in a relationship and you don't get what you want, then you have to find a way to fight for it yourself, or get it yourself, but you feel that you have a hard time when you get it, and you want to get it for nothing, or you look for a lot of reasons. I think this is something I really don't understand, if you are in this relationship and you feel very uncomfortable, then you have to adjust it yourself.

I feel that regardless of men and women, the real final difficulty. You can't rely on anyone. You still have to rely on yourself and rely on your own strength to carry it.

There's a good saying in Successology. He said that people who fail are always looking for excuses, and successful people are always looking for a way. In fact, in reality, I have seen a lot of women, she really has no resources, but in the face of the pain in marriage, she resolutely came out, with two or three children alone, without a job, without the ability to survive, she is herself.

Gritted his teeth and broke through a bloody path. Try not to stay alone, and then, find something that you are more interested in and put into it, live in the present, instead of always thinking about what hurt you have been hurt in the past, or what kind of danger you will have in the future, and the child is also well trained, it is nothing more than to suffer a little by yourself, and you have to do it yourself in the first few years when you lay the foundation. It's really one person who has to top several people.

Then if you don't even have this ruthlessness, then you deserve to suffer in a relationship. In fact, is there anything in this world that is not earned for nothing, if you don't want to work hard, then you will suffer. Don't complain anymore. What do you think about this?

For example, some people hate lazy people, and when a lazy person suddenly becomes a person worthy of pity, then this sentence becomes true.

There is a lot of truth to this, because the reason why many people are in a bad situation is often due to their own reasons, such as fraud, moral turpitude, and so on.

Because he is pitiful because of what happened to her, and what happened to him was also caused by his character and behavior.

The wretched man must have a place to hate (a man who is lonely and begs in the streets. It's a pitiful thing. In fact, it is because Sakura Yuan has thousands of families before, but it is rampant in the township, which is hateful.

When there is a difficulty, no one is willing to help, so it ends up like this. Or a person from a poor family, pointing to Hong, this is a pitiful place. In fact, he doesn't struggle, doesn't fight, and gets by.

That's what makes this man hateful. So the poor people must have been caused by those hateful reasons. For example, it is pitiful to see a woman being deceived.

But the reason is that she is deceived by rhetoric or money, and she does not listen to advice. caused her to be deceived. That's the hate.

Whether it's to satisfy spiritual vanity or material vanity. It's all hateful. And those men who deceive people are often because they have been hit hard by feelings, which is the so-called hateful people must have sad suffering.

To put it simply: it is precisely because of his hatred that the poor man causes his pity. The hateful man is precisely because of his pathetic suffering that causes him to be so hateful.

"The poor must have something to hate", this is a widely circulated old saying, this sentence has a certain truth, it is worth learning and understanding. This sentence is a criticism of a small number of people, and it is to keep us sober and rational when judging things.

A seemingly pitiful person in the real society, his many unsatisfactory things are likely to be caused by his own mistakes before, or it can be said that he is to blame, this kind of person who knows that he has done wrong and still refuses to change his teachings is the most hateful.

From ancient times to the present day, there has never been a shortage of poor people in society. These people are either poor and destitute due to natural and man-made disasters, or they are unable to take care of themselves due to congenital disabilities, resulting in powerlessness in the face of life, hunger and cold all day long. If no one helps, they will probably starve to death and freeze to death on the side of the road, and these people are the real poor people.

In our daily life, we often see some people like this, they are idle, drowsy, lazy and lazy all day long, and do not try to do anything, but they have all kinds of unrealistic fantasies, want to get rich overnight, want to get ahead, want to become famous overnight, want to be superior. They will even be driven by interests and desires to do things that harm society and break the law and commit crimes, and eventually lose their freedom and be imprisoned. This is the person to whom "the poor must have something to hate."

There are some people who are poor, but they don't want to struggle, don't want to work hard, do nothing every day, don't want to forge ahead, and let their lives become more and more poor and destitute.

Some families are superior, but they are not kind to others, they cause trouble everywhere, they are bullying others, they are insatiable, and in the end, they often break down and fall into a bleak situation at night. Such a person seems pitiful, but it is closely related to his unreasonable and bullying in his early years, and he really does not deserve our sympathy.

Therefore, when we sympathize with a person, we should also keep our eyes open, understand the story behind this person, and see if this person is worthy of our help. We should have a heart to help others, and at the same time, we should know whether our efforts are worth it. Don't start sympathizing with those who don't deserve our sympathy because of the overflow of our own momentary compassion, we don't need to waste our pity on these people.

The poor man must have something to hate", and the second half of the sentence is "The hateful must have pathetic suffering", and the second half of the sentence shows the warmth of human nature. Let us know that if a person does something that hurts nature or violates the law, although the behavior is hateful, the reasons behind the behavior, such as family environment, living conditions, emotional entanglements, etc., are sympathetic.