Am I going too far?

You get his help. with your feelings and his affection. are two different things.

Help, which can be help between friends. And love can't help. The money you owe him can be repaid at any time, After all, the love that is exchanged for money and help is not true love.

I think you're going too far to deal with him by escaping, because you've explained to him before that you're going to be a brother and sister. He also understands your thoughts, and he still wants to be boyfriend and girlfriend with you in the dark, because he doesn't control his feelings, of course, it takes time. If you use your methods to escape, I think, you must have feelings for him in your heart, but there is a very complex struggle of thoughts within you.

If it weren't for your boyfriend in the first place, I think you'd probably be in a relationship with him. So you keep your old sibling relationship.

However, I can tell you that if you choose which, you are not wrong, and to grasp the feelings, you can only choose one of the two. It was a difficult decision to make. May you get true love.

It's better to explain everything clearly, and it's not a way to dodge!

Maybe, it's hard to say.

At the end of the day, you have to choose a tree that is your own, and then decide whether you want to give up the whole forest.

But don't universities have that kind of mailing account? Just put it in.

Nothing is absolute, let alone perfect, how much expectation there is, how much consciousness there must be, things can't always start from one point of view, besides, love is like this, joys and sorrows, gathering and scattering impermanence,..If you don't like him, you have to be ruthless to the end, otherwise, he will love you more and more, and in the end, you will say that I don't like you,..Didn't it hurt him even more ..?

If you owe money, you can find a courier company.

How do you feel like your brother and me?

You're right. If you can't be with him, you will be separated from him. But the practice is not.

You'd better make it clear with him. Otherwise, he wouldn't have given up.

You can now go to him under the pretext of paying back the money.

Speak clearly.

Hello, it's not too much, it's not the right way to guide the child, you hit the child, the child is sad and you won't be happy, the correct education of the child needs to pay special attention to: 1. Patience, composure, calmness. No matter what, you must be calm, understand why the child is doing this, and then tell him the consequences of doing so, pay special attention, do not be impatient, this kind of character of parents to bring out the child, the future character will be more withdrawn, the same will be boring.

3. Understand your child. Parents must pay attention to the child's mood, do not ignore the child's mood, and only let the child do it according to their own will, this is not education, it is abuse. 4.

Teach children to reflect on themselves. "Children are the mirror of their parents" If parents themselves are strict with themselves, children will definitely follow this example.

Hope it helps.

This is a bit excessive, and it is a little scary for the child, after all, the child is still young and curious, and he does not know whether his approach is wrong.

Four-year-old children are naughty, you can slowly educate him, but you can't beat him corporal punishment, hit him, it hurts in your heart, some children are more and more beaten.

That's too much, isn't it? He's still a child, it's a child's nature to love to play, the child just splashes water, you really yell at him and scold him and punish him, there must be something wrong with your way of education!

I think what you're doing is really excessive, because the child is only 4 years old and still doesn't understand a lot of things, and it's normal to like to play in the water, and you should let him know that it's not right and shouldn't do it.

One thing, after all, he is 4 years old, he shouldn't do it, the penalty station is okay, it's okay, you should make it clear to him, the disadvantages of splashing water in the house, or give examples to illustrate that this matter is not right.

I think you are indeed excessive, as a child, it is their nature to play, if you play with water, if you say something about him, if you want to beat him like this, it will also have a psychological shadow on the child.

You are really going too far, although this child is not playing in the water, but because he is young, it is the nature of a child to be playful, and you don't need to stop him by hitting the child.

You have really gone too far, child, no matter how old you are, you can't beat the child now, the education method must be correct, you can punish him for standing in the corner for ten minutes, but you can't beat her, otherwise your child will follow your example and hit people at every turn?

The punishment is a bit heavy, not excessive! Be patient with your child, preferably with words or deeds.

A 4-year-old child who doesn't know anything at an age, so he doesn't have too many worries about what he does, and at this time, parents should discipline their children well and should not be angry with their children.

I think your child should be disciplined so that he doesn't do anything wrong, and if you don't discipline him strictly, he will still do something wrong in the future. So it's right for you to do this, and he won't make mistakes again in the future.

It's normal for a child to be naughty, especially when it's so old, so even if you punish him a little too much, you have to apologize to him afterwards and explain it to him.

In any case, teach your child not to use the way of beating, the child may be too young to understand, I think you can reason with him and tell her not to splash water in the house.

The education is to be strict and tell him that it is not permissible to do so. Once you realize your mistake, reason with him later.

In fact, judging from the situation you described, there may still be some misunderstandings between you, in this case, more communication and more understanding will eliminate the misunderstanding.

The so-called love is "one thing to one thing," the more humble you give, the other party will take it for granted, the more arrogant you are, the other party will be interested in you like this.

Tsundere does not mean that there is no one in your eyes, or you ignore the efforts of others, but you can afford to let go in love, when you love him, you will not blindly fall into love, be a girl with a love brain, do not love, and will not fall into self-pity, but to gather and disperse, and maintain your due posture.

In the end, you will find that it is really necessary to be a tsundere woman, it makes you understand that in the world of love, there must be a bottom line and principles, rather than blindly following each other, so it will be very tiring to get along.

Don't think "what if I'm tsundere and make the other person think I'm a nice person to get along with"? If there is a person who thinks like this, it can only mean that he is not the right person for you, whether you are arrogant or humble, he will not like you, and when you meet such a person, don't waste your efforts.

The easier it is to get something, the less it is cherished, the more arrogant it is, the more people think you are rare, and the more he knows how to cherish it.

The common mistake that women make in love is that if they love him, they will give up themselves for him, and if they love him, they will become humble.

Maybe this is also a kind of love, but in the end, you will find that you are no longer attractive when you lose yourself, and the other party no longer likes you as much as before, and there will even be all kinds of dislikes, thinking, "How did you become like this", "I still like the original you." ”

This also reminds those girls in love that even if you love someone again, even if your relationship is good, you have to be yourself in love, a little "tsundere" and a little "personality", so that you will be more prominent and more likable.

What you can't get will make people feel mysterious, make people want to cherish, be a tsundere girl, so that he will feel that he wants to conquer you, and after conquering, he will not dare to give up easily, for fear of losing you from now on.

If you repeatedly give in and give up everything for him, he will only feel that this thing should be like this, and he will not feel moved, nor will he feel that there is anything to be grateful for.

Only if you keep your own style and make him feel that even if you leave him, you will live well, so you will naturally make him unforgettable.

Actually, he doesn't seem to say anything too much, maybe you're a little sensitive.

It's normal for boys to talk to each other about "son, stupid x stupid" or something like that, and boys and girls generally get along with each other, as the saying goes, "See what people say!" It will be relatively polite.

This boy he told you, the word "Han criticism" may be a habit of thinking, take off your hand to type this word, and then the previous sentence seems to be afraid that you will be deceived, in my opinion, maybe he is afraid that you will be deceived, and then say such things.

Are you going to hit me? This sentence is a provocation, and you may have had similar language before, which provoked his disbelief, so he will say this.

Later, you say that you liked him, and it all makes sense. You still like him in your heart, so if he says something impolite, you feel very sad, that he is trampling on your sincerity, and that it is difficult to control your emotions.

Hey, the truth may not be so heavy, you like him too much, and you are afraid of being like before, so you are extremely repulsed in your heart, don't think about it, leave everything to time.

This must be the other party's excess, the reason why he is so excessive, it is because of your connivance with him, your weakness, so you have to make yourself stronger.

Baby, your temper is too good, you will look good to bully, girls have to hold the mentality that your sister is noble and you are not worthy. Although I don't know what you're talking about, judging from the chat history alone, you used to like him, but now you don't like it, don't dwell on anything important (personal advice), and when you keep worrying about it, obviously your chat doesn't make you happy from it, so leave time for more meaningful things.

This other party is excessive, and a situation like this should be blocked directly, and never contacted again in the future, so as to save yourself from being angry.

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