My child starts to rebel and run away from home, what should I do?

Children who want to run away from home are mostly because they feel that they can't communicate with their parents and can't solve problems through communication, so what parents can do at this time is to communicate with their children in a timely manner, and communicate rationally and calmly, and don't threaten him with beating the child at every turn, which will not solve the problem and will only exacerbate the conflict.

This age is the time of rebellion, and it is really difficult to deal with this kind of problem, after all, my daughter is only in the third grade. I think the child runs away from home must be because the parents usually lack care for the child, maybe the busy work neglects the child, or the parents treat the child too roughly, at every turn is to beat and scold, and the child is too much pressure to study, there is a boredom of school, parents should not put too much pressure on the child, only he feels the love and care of his parents at home, relaxed and happy, naturally there will be no idea of running away from home!

Let him go, under the condition of ensuring personal safety, how far can he go, but you have to know where he is, what he is doing, pay attention to him from afar, see if what he is doing is really bad or wrong, if he can't support it anymore, he will go home, or will be willing to let you take him home, don't be too hard, don't be too soft.

I think you can find an elder who the child trusts or admires to communicate with him, find out the root of the problem, try to understand, I really can't communicate, I can't understand, I can protect the child within my ability, let the child indulge a little.

During the rebellious period, as a parent, you can't be too blunt, you should communicate well with your child, like a friend, until your child's heart, and then know that your child is wrong, and your parents should guide you in time.

I remember last March, when the coaches and I were resting, a student ran to our lounge, and we all felt very strange at that time, why did he come to us during normal class time? But we made eye contact and took him to the training ground. When he was about to walk to the door of the training ground, he suddenly sneaked out (only later did he know that he saw the back of his family who had just left at that time), because he was overly aggressive, and he didn't care about him at the time, and when I arrived at the training ground, I chatted with him, and found out the reason why he ran away, it turned out that he was beaten because of his studies and wanted to run away from home.

Then I asked him a few questions, the first one: what is the destination of the runaway from home? The second:

Do you have a mobile phone or cash? If so, how much money do you have on your phone and how much cash do you have? The third:

What skills do you have or what do you take to support yourself? How to protect yourself in case of emergencies? Results:

He didn't prepare anything, and he couldn't support himself. Then I asked him for his family's ** number, and with his permission, his family was contacted. For a child who has not yet run away from home, it is recommended that you communicate with him first, and then two people can plan a runaway from home, let the child plan, and you assist.

Then take the kids on a trip that is not far away.

When you know how to understand your child, you know how to let go of things and pay attention to him. In fact, the child will treat you in turn as you treat him in turn. I also treat you as a good friend, and I am willing to tell you all things in my heart. The family affection in the world is inseparable, and the best thing is the family.

I think that for children who run away from home, after finding the reason, we should first relieve the doubts about the child's punishment. Then let the child know the hardships and dangers of a child outside, and the child can easily discourage the idea of running away from home.

Find out the reason why today's children don't understand their parents due to the early rebellious period. I always feel that the outside world is very exciting. Yes, it's exciting. At this time, you should put yourself in the shoes of the child and understand it.

First of all, you need to understand the reasons why your child is rebellious and runs away from home. Is it the fault of the parents. Listen more to your child's ideas and opinions.

Rebellious periodWhat to do if your child runs away from home:

1. Prepare in advance to prevent problems before they happen.

Since the reason for the child's running away from home is excessive academic pressure, parents should help their children relieve pressure when they enter school; If your child suffers a setback, you should pay attention to encouragement and take steps to catch up. As long as children do not lose confidence in learning, the phenomenon of running away from home will not occur.

2. Strengthen the connection with children.

Parents should strengthen emotional communication with their children, care for them from life, get close to them emotionally, understand them psychologically, and shorten the distance with their children.

At the same time, parents should also strengthen the contact with the school, timely and comprehensively grasp the situation of their children at school, and regularly inform the school teachers of the situation of students at home, so as to avoid the "blind spots" of supervision between the school and parents, and gradually form a "trinity" network of family, school and society.

3. For children who have run away, it is necessary to make up for the loss and self-reflection.

For children who have run away from home, parents should actively communicate with them, welcome them home, and not blame them, and parents should reflect on why they will cause their children to have thoughts of running away from home. Eliminate the child's motivation to run away from home, so that he can discourage the idea of running away from home.

How to educate children during the rebellious period:

1.Communication: Children who belong to the rebellious period may have confrontation with their parents, at this time parents need to communicate and communicate with their children, and pay attention to the calm tone, understand the children's own needs, and listen to the children's opinions.

2.Correct guidance: After clarifying the child's needs and opinions, if you feel that the child's opinions are more reasonable, you can help the child realize his ideas. If your child's opinions or needs are unreasonable, you need to reason with your child and make them clear about the seriousness of the matter.

Wrong homeschooling has a bad effect on children.

Nowadays, "doting + blaming" Chinese family education is very common, parents always like to dote, blame their children, intervene in all aspects of their children's lives, and accuse or even beat and scold their children if they are slightly dissatisfied. Children will become more and more sensitive, inferior, and easily choose to escape because they can't bear the pressure, so they will be tired of school, run away from home and other behaviors.

Parents pay too much attention to their children's grades, which leads to their children's dislike of school.

Many parents pay too much attention to their children's learning and grades, which makes them unable to feel the care of their parents, because they can't bear this kind of life under pressure, which produces rebellious psychology, so they use boredom, truancy and other ways to escape excessive schoolwork pressure, and even come up with the idea of running away from home, especially once the child is unbearable, such as failing the exam, they will run away from home in the rebellious period of youth.

The impact of parental quarrels on children is profound.

Children who have a bad relationship with their parents, especially those who grow up in the quarrels of their parents, tend to become sensitive and insecure. They can't feel the warmth of home, they can't get the love of their parents, and when they witness their parents' quarrels, they will only feel that they are superfluous, and even feel hated and hated by their parents, so it is easy to have the urge to run away from home. Children who grow up in such an environment have low self-esteem, a sense of distance from others, and are prone to problems in their social life.

In life, parents must communicate well with their children, and when children express negative emotions, they must intervene in time to educate children to vent their feelings in a normal way.

I think to find out why the child ran away from home, it's not that the child is all rebellious! Get to know him more and communicate with him.

You can call the police. It is useful to call the police when an adult child runs away from home, as follows: an adult child who has been away from home for more than 24 hours can be reported to the police as missing, and the public security organ will file a case for the record.

If you run away from home for more than 24 hours, you may report the missing person to the police at the place where the missing person is registered, or report the case to the public security organ at the place of the missing person's household registration.

What if you say a child is rebellious and runs away from home? Go look for him, and after finding him, you must patiently persuade and educate him and enlighten him. You must not beat and scold, you must tell him well, life will help him a lot at the beginning, he can listen to it, he can understand his parents' hearts, he will learn well, and he will also have a positive tone.

1. If you are a student, notify the school immediately. Schools are an important force for the protection of minors, especially school students. On the one hand, the class teacher knows the child's good friends at school and may soon know where the child is going.

On the other hand, there is a lot of strength in the school, and they will mobilize teachers and classmates to help you find it together.

2. Ask your child's friends. Whether it's a student or not, the average child will have it.

One or two good friends, parents should also know. Find your child's best friend and ask where your child is going. If they don't know, let him exert his strength to expand the scope of educated youth, and some ways that parents don't know will come out, and the scope of search will be expanded.

3. Master your child's social tools. Through teachers, classmates, and friends, we learned about the child's mobile phone number, network and other social tools, and registered them one by one. Look up in Internet cafes and game rooms where you often surf the Internet, and you may find the answer.

4. Check your child's call history. Go to the telecom operator to check the child's mobile phone communication, so that you can find out who the child is with, if there is no call, see if there is a record of Internet traffic, if there is a traffic record, the possibility of the child's safety is relatively large, and parents can also temporarily rest assured. At this time, maybe the telecom operator will not give you an inquiry, then it is best to bring the household registration book and argue with them to explain the interests, after all, you are the guardian of the child and have the right to inquire.

5. Check your child's online track. Many parents may not understand, but by asking their children's classmates and friends, they can know their children's usual online or game and platform nicknames. Let someone who is in contact with your child tell parents if there is any online activity.

6. Call the police in time and ask the public security for help. The above approach and this step should be carried out simultaneously. The disappearance of minors is not trivial, and the police will not refuse to accept it.

Through their professional inquiry tools and means, the whereabouts of missing children are generally found. If all means are exhausted and there is still bad news that there is no news, the police will pay more attention and do everything possible to help parents find it.

1. Calm consideration: When the child runs away from home, parents should be calm and prepared, and their children's temper and character, after all, they still understand it after all, and they must know it in their hearts. Children run away from home, parents should look at the age characteristics of the child, different age characteristics of the child run away time, way, place, outside time, the expectations of parents are not the same, children under the age of 10 run away from home, divided into different situations, if the parents are blaming corporal punishment, dissatisfied, suddenly frenzy, run away from home, this situation, parents can rest assured, the child will not go far, as soon as he goes out, will see if you follow, you follow, he will become more serious in the future, you can see him on the lineHe himself will be back in a moment.

3. Don't scold: 10 years old children will not choose to run away from home at night, because they are younger, they are generally more afraid of the dark, afraid, and will not run away from home alone.

4. Put aside a period of re-education

Children aged 10 to 13 have their own ideas and opinions, children of this age will not come back immediately after running away from home, and generally choose to live in the best of the same school nearby, parents should not rush to let him come back, they are angry, they will only intensify the contradiction when they come back, after living for two or three days, the child himself will forget, after taking the initiative to come back, parents will first admit to the child that it is not right, and the child will listen patiently to your reasoning.

Children over the age of 15: children over 15 years old running away from home is the most worrying, age is in the most rebellious stage, children are in contact with a wide range of people, more miscellaneous, children run away from home, parents should contact his classmates and friends in time, friends, if classmates and friends know, parents do not rush to persuade, you can let children classmates and friends persuade, the effect will be better, not too ignorant children will take the initiative to go home after being persuaded by friends.

6. It is best to call the police: children over 15 years old run away from home, parents can not be contacted, through classmates, friends and relatives can not be contacted or do not know the situation, parents should call the police in time, children may be mixed with people in society, or go out to run away from home, or go back to see netizens alone, etc.

7. Eliminate the exodus factor

Children who run away from home have their own ideas, and parents must figure out the reason why their children run away from home, which is poor learning, boredom, and truancy; Parents must eliminate the dissatisfaction in their children's hearts, and they must sincerely care for their children, so that their children will not run away from home.