Life problems, seek insights! Problems encountered in life, please advise!

In fact, my thoughts are similar to yours, because I think that since I choose to learn to run business with my brother-in-law, no matter what, I have to try, in the process of running business, my communication skills will gradually be improved, and after two months, if I still feel that the business industry is not suitable for me, it is not too late to quit! As for what you said about telling my relatives directly, forget it, the reason is that my brother-in-law spent a lot of money on housing and furniture for me to come to Shenzhen.

I'm also introverted, and I don't like the salesman industry because I need to meet people face-to-face, which is my personal problem. But you can't stop working because of this, so you can change to another job.

Although the sales industry is very hard and lucrative, if you really don't fit in, it may be very difficult to go on this career path.

If you are worried that you will not be able to explain to your relatives and lose face, then explain your own situation to him, and tell him your worries clearly, so as not to cause unnecessary misunderstandings.

But if you're trying this industry yourself, that's another story. First of all, don't be afraid to run business because you are introverted, you can practice your communication skills first. In fact, those old salesmen also started from hitting a wall, and it is impossible to succeed at the beginning, which is all accumulated in a sentence and sentence.

If you can't become a salesman all at once, you can also do other positions in the company first, see how other salesmen work, usually they will definitely have some communication, that is, whether it is that kind of formal communication. It's up to you to learn with your heart.

When you first arrive in a city or an industry, don't worry too much about the salary, it is recommended that you learn from the experience first, understand the industry, and then consider the next step after you can be self-reliant. There is nothing suitable for a person who is not suitable to say, believe in yourself, and boldly take the first step. Don't embarrass yourself and don't embarrass your brother-in-law, find one to do first, there will be less inexperience, since you want to do this business, then lower your posture, nothing, be confident that you will do well.

According to what you said, at present, you are not suitable for being a salesman, it is true that you are advised to try to find an industry related to exercising eloquence, first accumulate experience, exercise and speak, the problem of low salary you mentioned before is not a problem, no matter how high the salary is, you have no ability to stand up, the company is a place to work, his colleagues do not entertain you, there is no opinion, it is indeed busy, you should not be old, first exercise your eloquence, the sales area is very wide, and you have accumulated enough experience to change jobs It's going to get better if you start a little bit, and if you're willing to work hard, it's only a matter of time before you succeed.

In my recent life, I encountered such a problem, I met a rich customer at work, I had quit my job at that time, and on the day I left, he drove me to the train station to take the bus, and he said that he treated me like a sister, and then he became my brother, and my brother was very good to me. Later, I went to another city, I and my brother by sending messages to contact, until one day, my mother was sick and had to have surgery, my dad sent me a message saying that my mother was very dangerous, I was in a hurry when I rented a child, and I didn't know what to do, so I remembered the customer, called him **, he lent it to me, and later, I encountered this type of problem a few times, and it was He Gaizhao who asked him to help, until a few days ago, I told him, brother, it may take a long time to pay back your money. He sent me a message back, which said, then you can be my little wife! When I heard it, I thought he was joking with me, so I asked, I'm asking you very seriously now, you just said that you were joking!

He said he couldn't understand himself either. I was in a hurry, so I called him **, he said he liked me and didn't want me to be his sister, I said impossible, I will pay you back your money in the future, he said no!

You say I shouldn't pay him back!

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