Why is it yourself who falls in love with someone and hurts in the end

If. This love does not belong to you, so please let go of your hand. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go.

Letting go is a kind of helpless despair, and it hurts to the heart. When the people who once cherished life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized: it turned out that what they once thought was eternal, but in fact it was just a meeting in Pingshui.

I once thought that I could hold hands all the way like this, but when I let go, I realized that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel is still parallel, even if it is not far apart, it is already the end of the world. The price of bravery is to let go of oneself first, admit defeat, accept helplessness, sigh softly, and wish him happiness in the future. Curled up in the corner, waiting for the wound to heal, experiencing the freedom of daring to love, hate, and loss.

The feeling of happiness may only be instantaneous, and after a moment, it is a person's wonderful. In the days after letting go, I will always be unhappy, and I will inexplicably cry for a song, a play, or even a sentence, always feel that the sky is dark, the clouds are gray, and I always feel that I have lost the meaning of life. However, a friend told me

You have nothing to lose, you just go back to the days before you knew him. I am relieved, just like fireworks can't hang in the sky forever, as long as they have been brilliant, why bother with days without fireworks? We are all ordinary Hongchen men and women, unable to earn the love network of love and hate, and unable to escape the whirlpool of love and being loved.

After the heartbreak and sadness, there is endless loneliness. Lonely? Perhaps.

But savoring the chic after loneliness, thinking about the happiness other than him, thinking about no longer having to rack your brains to guess his mind, will you breathe a sigh of relief and feel a little more relaxed? Is it really let go? I can face him calmly, even though there is a faint indescribable sourness in my heart, but I no longer cry, crying because a person's memory is in my heart, and I will not disperse it no matter what.

There was such a song. Are you afraid of loving me? 》：

Are you afraid of loving me, have you forgotten your tears? The heart is waiting for the rain to fall, and the tears have reached the cheeks; Are you afraid of loving me, isn't your heart dead? One step is nothing more than a cliff.

I asked myself again and again, "Am I scared of loving you?" "The answer is yes, I'm afraid, I'm really afraid.

The heart full of holes is so fragile that it can no longer withstand the torture of pain into the bone marrow, so I let you go, and let myself have a way to live, condensing you into a painting, deeply engraved in my mind, looking, thinking, but I will no longer be the person in the painting. You can better appreciate the beauty of the painting when you are outside the painting, isn't it? Shake hands vigorously and say sincerely:

Goodbye, cherish! Turn your head and walk away freely, letting the back be deeply engraved in your mind. When you can recall the moments of your past with a relieved mind, you can appreciate the beauty of letting go.

God let me meet you at the wrong time, and I cried; However, God is fair. Would you cry if, he asked me to leave you at the right time?

Don't forget, you're sad and she's sad at the same time. Sadness is not yours alone.

The more real the love, the deeper the hurt. It is your own heart that is sad in the end.

Because you love each other more than the other person.

People's desires cannot be satisfied, and people in reality are not perfect, under your constant nitpicking, the other half will be annoyed, there is a feeling of being left out, so you need to calm down, start arguing, escalate, distance, break up!

While you are pursuing another person, it is based on the first one, and you will inevitably remember the good of the first one, which is precisely what she can't give now, so you will regret it!

I send you a famous saying: The crowd is looking for him, and suddenly he looks back, but that person is in the lamplight!

Love does not change everything you have and are now because you cry, after all, the tears are not as thick as your emotional journey for many years, even if you are in tears. Love doesn't believe in tears, and tears don't believe in love! Whatever it is.

No matter what the emotion. Love, hate. Sad.

Joy will fade with time. will be carried away by the years. "Forget" the past, cherish the present, and look forward to the future.

This is our happy life.

There are many times in life when you need to consciously give up, because when you have, you may be losing, and when you give up, you may be regaining. Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach.

[It's not hard to love someone].

Loving someone will give desperately, and when you don't get something in return, you feel hurt, right? Want.

It's just that you're already together, and then something distressing appears in the middle, so that you can misunderstand.

Or make you lose faith in each other. You're going to get hurt. Love is something to give. If you don't go.

Pay then how can you get hurt? If you want to drive a little, the so-called boat will naturally go straight to the bridge. It's hurt, and you have to figure it out yourself.

Make it up to it, don't just think about yourself being hurt, in fact, the other party will be sad too, really. See how you put it.

Hold it. Be sure to adjust your mentality and think wildly. If you really love each other, you will love even if you are hurt.

Right? Loving someone doesn't have to be loved by the other person, as long as you feel that you have given it. `