What should I do to change my introversion in college?

Many college freshmen have walked into the university campus. However, there are some students who do not like to communicate with others because of their personality. If you maintain an introverted personality in college, you may feel lonely. What should students do if they want to change their introverted personality?

First, if students want to change their introverted personality, joining a club is a good choice. Participating in more clubs can make a big difference to students. The reason why many students are very introverted has a lot to do with the environment in high school.

Upon entering the university campus, students will change their learning and living environment. In such an environment, students are free to play and no longer need to be bound by the previous delivery. Students will meet a lot of people in the process of participating in club activities.

Second, it is recommended that students participate in more debate activities. In high school, many students don't focus on extracurricular activities. People spend most of their time studying, and they don't have much time to communicate with others.

Once in college, students must overcome this fear if they want to change. <>

University clubs also organize a variety of activities, such as debates, which can exercise people's communication skills. There are a lot of things involved in participating in a change activity, and students need to prepare a lot of materials and communicate before the competition. In such a process, students do not need to be afraid that they will say the wrong thing.

Because a debate is a moment for students to express their opinions, there is no right or wrong. At the same time, debating activities can also exercise people's thinking skills.

Strengthen communication skills.

Try to communicate with your roommates first, talk to them more, and go out to play more on holidays. Then slowly start playing with the rest of the class, so that you will be much more unconsciously cheerful. Joining a club is also a great exercise if you can.

Actively integrate into your class, get along with classmates is definitely the first step, and then communicate with teachers and school leaders, learn to carry out a series of activities to actively participate, too shy can participate in some behind-the-scenes first, and slowly reappear in front of the stage to show yourself.

You can join more clubs, and then participate in club activities, you can open yourself; Or the election squad cadres can also do.

My views on this issue are as follows:

1. The first thing is to be confident in yourself. Most of the introverts are people who have no self-confidence in themselves, and they always feel that the people around them are excellent, good-looking, good at studying, and very good popularity, while they just don't know anything and have no advantages. In fact, this is not the case, everyone has a shining point in their body, and they all have a side that is worth learning from others.

Therefore, you must have confidence in yourself, believe that you are very good, you can, you will be able to do it, you must keep cheering yourself up, raise your head, you will find that this world is very beautiful.

2. Communicate with others. Introverts may not know how to communicate with others and are afraid to communicate with others. But no matter how scared you are, you must cross the hurdle in your heart, when you start to communicate with others, you will find that it is not a very difficult thing to communicate with others, slowly learn to listen to each other, slowly tell your thoughts to others, after a long time, you will find that communicating with others is a very interesting thing.

3. Learn to speak. Speaking is an art, and you can see what kind of person she is from a person's conversation, so even if you can't speak, you must strive to make what you say comfortable for others to listen to, so that others have the desire to communicate with yourself. Before each speech, you can think more about whether you should say this sentence or not, and whether it will hurt the other person if you say it.

Over time, learning to speak is not a difficult task.

Personality is natural and innate, and some people are naturally cheerful, outgoing, and very good at talking to others. But on the contrary, some people are naturally introverted and not good at communicating with others. Although it is nature, when you go to university, such as society, you can't be too introverted, what should you do in this situation?

First of all, you need to understand why you are awkward to communicate with others. Find the source, and the solution is simple.

First: Introverts are not very confident in general, so the first thing you should do is improve your self-confidence. You can join some clubs to improve your ability to socialize with others.

You can also participate in some speeches or look at other people's speeches to compare yourself and recognize your own shortcomings, so as to improve your eloquence ability. In these processes, as long as you improve a little bit, you will be able to find your own self-confidence.

Second: Speaking is an art.

Saying a good word is the first step in reacting with others. Speaking is not only about having something in your stomach, but also about being able to express it. Otherwise, it will become "glutinous rice balls in a teapot, and you can't say anything".

To get others to accept your point of view, you must learn how to express yourself correctly. By establishing a connection with the person you're talking to, it's important to speak calmly, not too slowly, not too quickly, which will give people the impression that you're not confident and good at communicating with others. Try to say as few words as possible such as "um, uh, this".

Third: Don't be afraid of failure, don't give up because of failure, success is slowly piled up with failure.

When socializing with others, if you fail once, try a second time, and there will always be a time when you will succeed. In fact, when you take the first step, it is already an improvement compared to the past you.

In the end, to change your introversion, you still have to practice a lot of practice, create opportunities, and constantly improve just like learning.

If you are an introvert, you must make good use of this quiet potential, explore your own possibilities, and take the first step to find that the world suddenly opens up.

There are a lot of people in this world, who are either introverts or extroverts, and introverts are not too much of a problem.

There are two states in our personality, one is called the comfortable state and the other is called the adaptive state, and we have our own state of being the most comfortable and comfortable. There is also a state of adaptation to the environment. Then the general introvert will be more comfortable in their own state of solitude, but it does not mean that they have no way to be extroverted, and the comfortable state is difficult to change, but the adaptation state can be adjusted according to the needs of the environment.

First, think about what state you have changed. Set yourself a small goal. It's best to be realistic and don't put too much pressure on yourself.

You can start with things that you can accomplish and like to be willing to, and start with what you are interested in, so that you will be more motivated to participate. If the goal is too large, break down the large goal into smaller pieces, which are easy to operate and execute.

Introverts are often a little slower to warm up, if there is something you want to change, you can try to join some related groups, and gradually find your own suitable and comfortable way in this group, slowly communicate more, find a sense of belonging, and gradually be able to open yourself.

Another point is to accept your current state, because when you resist, there will be confrontation in your heart, which will make your emotions more unacceptable.

College students can consider participating in some clubs, there are many team building and activities in the clubs, and the introverted personality gradually changes in the communication and contact with each other.

Then you should participate in more club activities, so that you can become cheerful.

Join the student council or club, these places have a platform to train yourself. Changing the introverted personality is not achieved overnight, it is slowly changed through the accumulation and precipitation, the university is a colorful stage for many times, I hope you can make good use of this platform to shine in the university, come on!

College students must actively participate in class activities, and then participate in more club activities.

If you want to make your personality extroverted, you must first be willing to change, open your heart, accept this change, deal with strange or familiar classmates and friends, and expand your circle of friends.

Introverts, I think, are actually a lack of communication, and you may also talk eloquently with people you are more familiar with. You may not be able to find a topic for people you don't know well, I suggest that you don't limit your social circle to a few friends around you, you can go to some club activities at school, expand your social circle of friends, communicate more, and maybe it will be better. ‍‍

Based on my own upbringing, I don't think it's necessary to deliberately change my introverted personality! I think it's also a good thing to accept your introverted personality, there's nothing wrong with being introverted, you can talk less. Don't we often say that it can take a year or two to learn to speak, but sometimes it takes a lifetime to learn to shut up?

It doesn't matter if you're introverted or extroverted, it's important to make yourself strong and confident inside! ‍‍

Introverts are generally present at an early age, and it is not easy to change them all at once. People with such a personality are generally people who have an inferiority complex and are not in a very good family situation. Especially in schools, where there are so many people, it is even more difficult to change.

Usually, I have to study more to relieve my mood. The only time you can really change this personality is after you have joined the work, and it is a good job. People have a bit of a feeling of raising their eyebrows.

At this time, the inferiority complex and depressed mood can be released, and people will be happy. ‍‍

Joining a debate team, or the outreach department of a large organization such as the Student Council, often requires you to speak up and communicate.

Go to crowded places and be willing to take the initiative to help others. I'm also a more introverted person, but when I was in college, I liked to go to the library and other places, and I was more enthusiastic and liked to take the initiative to help others, so everyone thought I was more approachable, and they all liked to take the initiative to chat with me and take the initiative to play with me! Slowly, I became more and more cheerful!

You should all go to club activities and some social activities, and as long as there are activities, you must force yourself to participate. Communicate with people more, and over time, your personality will slowly change.

I think that in order to change my introverted personality, I must first open my heart.

Some people may want to say that they want to participate in more club activities, I don't think so, this may change their personality, but it's not big, the character is not developed in a day or two, their introversion may be determined by their own life from childhood to adulthood, when you really want to change your introverted personality, in fact, you have thought about the first step to sell, it's great already, more to overcome yourself than to participate in what so-called clubs are more effective, learn more about other ways to talk and get along, I believe that it will help me a lot. ‍‍

Go to some clubs, some activities, communicate more with the people in the club, know new things, and meet some new friends. There are a lot of club activities, go out with them for a walk, do some sports appropriately, running, swimming, cycling, these activities have clubs, you can participate, multiple people have multiple companions, don't be afraid of many people! Humans are social animals!

The more people there are, the more people it has! When you slowly integrate into them, you will find out how interesting things are around you, the people around you will also infect you, optimistic people will bring you into an optimistic atmosphere, you will live every day to the fullest, you will slowly become cheerful, lively, and cute. As for people, they should go to see the outside world more, and don't stay in the dormitory and soak in the library all day.

In this way, the character will become more and more withdrawn.

There are many club activities in the university, so you must participate in them more often to cultivate your abilities.

It's hard to change, if you really want to change, then try to go, if you can't change, adapt, nothing.

Introverts often have low self-esteem, and most of them have low self-esteem because they feel that they are inferior to others in something, that they are fat and not as good as others, that they do not have the temperament of others, that they have no money, and that they are not as good as others, or because they have been hit too much, and they are afraid that they will be ridiculed by others for what they do. If you want to change your introverted personality, you must first accept the encouragement of strangers, because the encouragement of strangers makes it easy for people to believe that they are sincere. Secondly, make a list of all the things that lead to low self-esteem, and break them one by one, if you are fat, you will study hard if you have bad grades, and if you don't look good, you will learn to make up.

Finally, reduce contact with people who belittle and suppress you, make some like-minded friends, forget about the things that make you unhappy, and encourage yourself more.

I don't think it's necessary, because personality is formed over a long period of time, and it is difficult to change it in a short period of time, and introversion also has the benefits of being introverted, so there is really no need to change.

Introverts can learn to broaden their social circle and try to get in touch with people with different personalities and levels, which is helpful for quickly integrating into the group in the future.