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Keep your distance from the male classmates in front of the teacher, so as not to be misunderstood and affect others. If it's a non-existent thing, it won't take long for it to be self-defeating, and the body is not afraid of shadows, and it's important to read at the moment
After learning about the child's early love, it is necessary to do a good job of self-psychological adjustment and strengthen the guidance of the child. Be calm and prudent, not impatient and reprimand; Be able to face up to early love and analyze the reasons for children's early love with a calm mind; We should treat children with equality, sincerity and trust, and respect, care and understand children. If parents have a psychological state of anger, anger, anger, etc., do not vent it on their children.
Characteristics of puppy love.
1. Hazy.
Adolescents are not clear about the outcome of the development of early love, and adolescents in early love only desire to have separate contact with their lovers, but lack a clear understanding of the formation of future families, dealing with the relationship between love and school, and distinguishing between friendship and love.
2. Contradiction.
Teenagers who are in early love are full of contradictions, they want to contact their favorite lovers, but they are also afraid of being discovered by their parents. It can be said that pleasure and pain coexist in the process of early love. For the puppy lover who has a crush, this contradiction is also manifested in the contradiction of whether or not to declare love to the admirer.
3. Variability.
Love is volatile and unstable, as adolescents often fail to manage relationships.
skills and experience, resulting in a lack of mutual trust between the two parties; Relationships are generally not sustainable. It is this that often causes psychological pain on both sides.
The above content reference: Encyclopedia - Puppy Love.
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I also encountered this situation today, I was misunderstood by the principal, and I fainted. The best thing to do is not to play with just that one boy, otherwise it will cause suspicion and speculation. Let's be open and bold to make friends!
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This classmate, your cousin was misunderstood for early love? That's very simple, you tell your cousin to explain it to the teacher, and talk to the teacher about it? Or tell your cousin to calm down and think about it, why is it misunderstood by the teacher, after all, the bell must be tied to the bell!
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I have also encountered this kind of thing, general actions prove everything, you can make your cousin gossip as a small spice in life, why explain things that are not there in the first place, there is no need at all, the most important thing is to be yourself.
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I really sympathize with you, well, if not, you tell your cousin to be brave, first explain to his dad what is going on, and when his dad is clear, let his dad and her go and explain to the teacher.
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I think it's because the teacher thinks too much, is it that as long as boys and girls are together, they are in love? In fact, you can come with both parents, and then you can find classmates, they know best! After saying that if they are really in love, did the teacher catch them on the spot for intimate action or walk together after school?
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In fact, there are some things that don't need to be explained, the more you explain, the more you can't understand, go your own way and let others say it, you are not afraid of shadows, you can do your own thing, and you have to stand the test!! Trust you.
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Your cousin thinks so, but the boy is not necessarily, and the girl is better to have less sex with the boy.
Or stay up, stay up until the first year of junior high school, forget about it, make more friends, maybe it's the best. Choose.
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I think the best way is to let parents take their children to the school to find the teacher to make it clear, after all, the child is still young, this kind of title must feel very wronged on the head, parents come forward, is the best solution.
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Explain to them clearly, be calm, don't be in a hurry, the more anxious you are, the more you can't explain clearly, his teacher is really annoying!!
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You ask your cousin to explain to your parents, and then explain to the teacher, you see that your cousin should be very well-behaved, and the teacher will believe it, and you can also ask the boy to explain to the teacher together.
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Hello to the man, come and teach your cousin, what's wrong with this, do they have excessive behavior, no, has the teacher ever read a book, then he has taken a political class, don't you know the normal interaction between men and women, isn't it okay to discuss problems, what are there men and women in the class, just ask, she thinks it's ancient, you just tell her... And being a teacher doesn't just think what the two of them are doing, right?,So what kind of teacher should you be... Can't think rationally---
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Actually, this is not a big deal, how can you give birth to your cousin teacher if the man and the woman are not together. Just talk to the teacher like this.
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Those who are clear are self-purifying, and don't explain anything, and explanation is a cover-up.
The more you say it's not, the more adults say it's darker.
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In fact, you can find time to communicate with the teacher, and I believe the teacher will understand, as long as it is not a teacher who thinks wildly.
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You can ask the male classmate to go with your cousin and talk to the teacher and explain clearly that if the teacher is still wronged, the principal's office of the political and educational office does not eat rice. --It's all Chinese education! There are too many loopholes, and I don't know how many good students have become gangsters, alas.
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Not explaining is the best explanation. Those who are clear are self-purifying.
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Ask your cousin to explain it to her dad.
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I don't know if what I said could be helpful when I saw your question, but I'll try to explain it as much as I can. I'll guess some things first, I don't know if it's right, first of all, your cousin's parents must not be very knowledgeable, or maybe illiterate. Second, the teacher must be over forty years old, and he is the kind of person who is very closed to the world.
Thirdly, the guy (and your cousin) who had a good relationship with your cousin as I said upstairs may have a crush on each other, but you know it's not love between a man and a woman. Then there are three tasks that you need to do. One, your cousin's parents find someone from the village or a relative who is a college student (the higher the education, the better), and you explain all this to him, and let him explain the situation to her parents, and as far as I know, the trust that the less knowledgeable have in the knowledgeable person, or the kind of self-belief that is very high, can play a big role.
Two. It is the teacher with the elm head, should be well educated, the child comes to school to be educated, the child has an accident, you don't solve it yourself, tell the parents, ask you to beg, if you can't teach, get out of the house as soon as possible, let him observe well, and solve it in the most appropriate way, and can not hurt the two children, at this time the child's mind is the most fragile, the most sensitive, as for the specifics you control. Three.
It's your cousin, if you want to tell him the facts, maybe he can't even figure out what it feels like to be himself, so you have to understand what the relationship between people is like in the healthiest way, and tell her when and what kind of situation should love. It's up to you to do that, and that's all I can say. Hope it helps you a little.
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Go straight to the teacher and talk to him.
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The puppy love is discovered by the teacher, it depends on how early you are. If it is a relationship before the age of 18, it is called early love.
For example, if you fall in love when you are in elementary school, junior high school, or high school, this is early love. The connection to college is basically not puppy love.
1. Before high school, they are in the stage of learning and growth, and it is the stage when a person presides down the foundation. If you fall in love at this stage, it will affect your studies and growth;
2. Sex will inevitably occur in love, and immature sexual behavior will lead to a series of problems, such as development and various diseases;
3. If the puppy love is discovered by the teacher, it is recommended to listen to the teacher's guidance and arrangement, and with the help of the teacher, establish a correct outlook on life.
Values, right and wrong, devote all energy to study, physical exercise, etc.;
4. Maintain the innocent friendship between classmates and cherish the innocent friendship between classmates, which may be a lifelong friendship.
Therefore, before high school it is not suitable for love, if you cross the thunder pool.
It is recommended to stop in time, quit in time, take this as a good memory, and wait for the university to be admitted to the university before falling in love.
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It's not good to fall in love in the first place, but it's a good thing if the teacher finds out! You can catch the teacher's discovery and explain it to the male classmates, and in the future, you can only learn from each other, don't talk about the love of children, and focus on learning!
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It is still not recommended to fall in love at the school stage, and when to do what is right!
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No ifs, you haven't been found yet, have you?
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1. Once the teacher finds that the child has a tendency to fall in love, he must stop it in time, because the sooner he stops it, the more he will curb the development of the child's love.
2. As a teacher, it is not only about teaching, but also about educating people, you can chat with students who are in love during class or after school, and tell them that the main task at present is to study, and the rest will wait until they are successful.
3. Many teachers are very angry when they find out that students are in early love, not only insulting students, but even hitting students, which is a very wrong practice, which will only make students in the rebellious period more rebellious.
4. Students who are in early love must give timely feedback to their parents, after all, parents are the closest people to students, and it is necessary to let parents and colleagues educate.
5. Many students who are in early love often have poor academic performance, and many teachers don't want to care about such students at all, which will only lead to students' learning getting worse and worse, and we should pay more attention to students in early love in life.
It's nothing, it's a very normal physiological phenomenon between boys and girls, it's okay, your parents will understand, just don't do it in the future. When I was in sixth grade, we also had a couple in my class, and they sat together when they went on trips, and they were very close. It doesn't matter, girls at this time are generally very sensitive!
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You tell him that you are not good, that you are telling the other person that you are deliberately offending him, and that you are speaking too bluntly, that you are not skillful in offending him. And the actual situation is that you are just expressing your own opinion, not intentionally offending and attacking him, or even expressing a different opinion because he is worried, so you are not expressing your heart correctly, what you need to do is to tell the other person that you are worried about him, and only say such things for his consideration, and the other party's emotions will calm down.
If you're still in love, turn it off.
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