How to make a real friend? And how can friendships be better maintained?

I believe that a friend is the one who shows you the way forward. A friend is someone who solves your problems, a friend is a person who knows you well, and a friend is someone who cares for you.

A friend is someone who gets along with you day and night, and not someone who doesn't go around talking about you because you have some trivial shortcomings. Because no one is perfect! Besides, your friend is not a perfect person!

Friends are gold, friends are silver, friends are sunshine, friends are the moon. Friends are stars. A friend is the one who lights the light for you as you walk towards the Black Bank.

Friends don't turn away from you because you're in a difficult time right now. Friends don't abandon you because you're at a low point in your life. A true friend doesn't follow the crowd, someone who doesn't sprinkle another handful of salt on your wounds.

Friends will not stay away from your people because of the villain's accusations against you, but at this time, lend a helping hand to care for you and care for your people. A true friend doesn't get carried away. People who will not fall with the wind, who will not flatter those who are useful, and kick away those who are useless.

A true friend doesn't put aside the friendship of a friend for a little self-interest.

You will think about him and will tolerate him. Contact more, then what problems do you encounter? Even if it's a big question, but with your friendship, I don't think it's going to be an intersection that breaks your friendship.

Making friends and making friends is a long-term place, and it is sincere.

Someone who has been around you for a long, long time

What is friendship, friendship is an emotion that comes from a two-way (or interactive) relationship, that is, the emotion condensed by both parties, any unilateral overture, can not be called friendship. I feel that when I was a child, it was called real friendship, helping each other, going out to play together, there were no calculations because of interests, and there was no quarrel between you and me. In this issue of friendship stories, we will talk about what true friendship is.

1. It is transparent and true.

With him, he knows all your strengths and weaknesses, he is transparent in front of you, you are innocent and transparent in front of him, there is nothing to hide, he is not hypocritical to each other, he gets along with each other sincerely, and he has a sense of being friendly with each other.

2. It's worrying about worrying.

True friendship is not to get tired of being together every day, it bears the tempering of time, even if it is thousands of miles apart, not seen for a long time, but there will always be worries about each other, whether the other party is being bullied, whether life is good.

3. It is the true love of tribulation.

There can be many kinds of friends, but there are very few true friendships, and true friendship can no longer be eaten together in the glory years, but it must be mutual help and care for each other in times of trouble.

4. It is trust and support.

A friend who has a true friendship is the one who understands your character, stands behind you and trusts you and supports you when everyone misunderstands you, and the one who still supports you and encourages you when you are frustrated.

5. It is a straightforward admonition.

Really good friends will count you down by your side for your big and small things, most afraid that you will suffer, most afraid that you will be unhappy, most afraid of you being lost, take the risk of turning your face with you, and dissuade you with the sharpest kind words, have you ever cherished such a friend?

6. It's tears and laughter.

When you are together, you can laugh together, even if you haven't seen each other for a long time, but when you meet, you still hug each other and cry, and you still sit and laugh together. A friend with true friendship, he is willing to accompany you for every big and small thing, laughing and crying together.

Getting along with friends needs to use some skills and methods to control, learn the way of friendship to get along, I believe you can also better make like-minded mentors and friends!

Greetings to contact often!

In the social environment, it is inevitable that there will be times when we are physically and mentally exhausted, and the care of family members will make us feel warm, but for difficult problems, perhaps confiding in friends is the best place to go. Maintaining regular contact between friends and unraveling each other's distress and confusion is actually a great way to release stress.

Treat friendship with sincerity!

Getting along with friends requires sincere dedication, one to say, never duplicity, present your most authentic side in front of your friends, and believe that your friends will also be willing to share their true feelings with you. Once life falls into hypocrisy and deception, friends will abandon it and sneer at it.

Keep a proper distance!

Distance is easy to produce beauty, even if it is a close lover, it is inevitable that there will be some friction between day and night, most of the exchanges between friends are due to similar interests, he will be close to you because of common topics, but please don't think wishfully that friends will tolerate your shortcomings like relatives, and still retain their own private sky in each other's hearts, you will not be lonely on the emotional road, and you also have a certain degree of freedom.

Touch base. No matter where we are, whether we are together or not, we should keep in touch from time to time, ask about the situation of our friend, how his life is there, and share the joy and emotion of life together. You may have friends you haven't seen for years, keep in touch from time to time, and when you meet again, you'll still have a deep friendship.

Be loyal to your friends. It's not easy for us to know a friend, and we can't say that the boat of friendship will capsize. Everyone has shortcomings, and if someone says about our friend's shortcomings, we shouldn't doubt our friend, but help our friend, fight side by side with our friend, we have been with our friend for so long, and we know what a friend is like.

Of course, we can't speak ill of our friends with others, and we are loyal to each other.

Don't care. Our friends also have their own friends, don't be angry when he doesn't invite you, he didn't forget about you, maybe they know each other, if you show up and only the two of you know each other, the occasion is always a little awkward. So we have to understand.

Sometimes friends may always want to take advantage of you, let you do this and that, you pay for dinner, don't care about this, suffering is a blessing, when you have something, friends will also help you without hesitation. The premise is that this friend is worth making and is your real friend.

Equal to each other. There is no distinction between friends, not that you are rich and powerful, you are higher than them, friends are equal, they can talk to each other about their hearts, no one looks down on anyone, there are blessings to share, there are difficulties to share, shoulder to shoulder to fight.

Build a sincere relationship first: True friends are built through sincere communication and mutual understanding. Before you start dating new people, make sure you're already making progress in building trust, which will lay the groundwork for a more intimate relationship.

Share your life with friends: Sharing your life, hobbies, worries, and joys can deepen your friendship. By sharing your experiences and feelings with friends, you can get to know them better and also understand them better.

Pay attention to their needs: Not just meet your own needs, but try to understand your friend's needs and offer help and support within your means. Such an act will strengthen the trust and friendship between you.

Respect their views and choices: Don't try to change them or try to convince them to accept your views on the Celestial Cave. Respect their views and choices, and try to understand their position.

Be open and honest: Maintaining open and honest communication with friends is key to building a true friendship. Don't hide anything and don't try to deceive them.

In conclusion, making true friends takes time, effort, and sincerity. By sharing your life, paying attention to the needs of others, respecting others' perspectives and choices, being open and honest, and supporting each other in times of difficulty, you can build closer, more genuine friendships.

I can share some examples of how friends have become co-workers:

1.Since their student days, the two have been constantly studying, playing, and sharing each other's lives together, and have gradually established a deep relationship. Later, they experienced a lot of difficulties and challenges together, including job loss, love troubles, and more.

During these experiences, they supported each other and spent time together, which led to a stronger friendship.

2.The two met at work, and because they had similar professional backgrounds and common interests, they gradually became very good friends. Later, they co-founded a company and faced various challenges and difficulties together, but they always supported each other and worked together, and in the end they achieved great success.

3.A couple is good friends before they get married, they travel together, watch movies, exchange feelings and lives with each other. Later, they decided to get married and start a new phase of their lives.

In this process, they support each other, grow together, and become each other's closest partners and partners.

These examples illustrate that becoming a shared partner among friends is a very precious experience that can add more color and meaning to life. When we face difficulties and challenges, having someone who can support each other and get through it together will make me feel stronger and more confident in overcoming difficulties.

It's not uncommon for friends to share responsibilities with each other. The more time spent together, the deeper the level of mutual trust and understanding will become, and the closer and more tacit understanding between the friends will become, and eventually they will become partners in the same burden. This transition is a very good thing because it means that you have someone you can share with and take on the pressures and challenges of life, which also makes your life more fulfilling and meaningful.