Who understands the culture of the wine table ???? How to look at the wine table culture

In ancient times, the wine table culture was a form of etiquette that expressed respect for elders, which also seems more ceremonial. The hospitality of the Chinese is vividly displayed at the banquet. The emotional exchange between people is often sublimated when toasting.

WhileIn today's society, this kind of hospitality has become more and more deformed。The wine table culture has become more and more "ugly", probably to persuade alcohol, to drink more proudly, the motive is complex, all of them are a kind of "friendship kidnapping", completely losing the elegant taste of drinking and writing poems by literati in the past. In my opinion, in fact, people with high realms never need to seek their own value at the wine table.

In fact, whether it is wine culture or toasting culture, it is not a bad habit. On the contrary, the essence of a meal is not to eat and drink, but to socialize. Connecting feelings and enhancing friendship is its original purpose.

And drinking is just a means of entertainment to liven up the atmosphere. The 5,000-year-old wine culture has continued to this day, and has formed a wine culture with Chinese characteristics. There's no denying that drinking alcohol can liven up the atmosphere and enhance relationships. China's wine table culture is a kind of etiquette and an art.

Reasons why the wine table culture has become ugly:

1. Face psychology, slapping a swollen face and becoming fat.

Drink in moderation, this is a truth that everyone understands. However, many people can't stop holding up their wine glasses, and our current wine table culture advocates that "being able to drink" is a good man, and a good amount of alcohol means being refreshed, and a poor amount of alcohol means admitting it. Chinese people have a good face, and at the wine table, many people will choose to earn back their "face" by self-harm.

2. The idea of power: If the toast fails, the wine will be punished.

Always thinking about ruling others in his bones is also a remnant of feudal thinking. People with this mentality often think that daughters-in-law must listen to their husbands, and sons must listen to their fathers. They like to impose their will on others, and when they are rejected, they feel that their authority is being challenged, so the toast becomes a persuasion, or even a forced drink.

Wine table culture should be very common now, basically** will have it, although the wine table culture in each place is slightly different, but it is still roughly the same, Reed's assistant** tell me what is different over there.

Safeguard your own rights and interests, and maintain what culture should be.

It's annoying, and I'm speechless to see those who persuade them to drink.

What many people hate is not the wine table culture, but the leaders and Party A who are greedy for cups and forced to drink, and there must always be something to modify something on the land boundary of the world, and it is more about business at the wine table, but also to pull in the "feelings" between the two parties, and be familiar with the communication between the two parties. It's hard to say before, but now the situation is also very good, if you really don't drink, no one will force you, whether it is high-level or grass-roots everyone, everyone is the same, work is too busy, and I have to drink so much wine with you, it's very annoying. More people think that if you don't drink, you will think that you will not give face to the leader, and the consequence is nothing more than the fear that the other party will give you small shoes, or there is no hope of promotion.

Actually, it's more about emotional intelligence and the ability to deal with interpersonal relationships (people have strengths and weaknesses). Nowadays, technology is very advanced, technology is very advanced, and work and business are heavy, and this fast-paced life has caused young people to not see clearly and look down on the so-called wine table culture (a product of slow pace). In fact, there are very few bad "VIPs" at the wine table, just like the good people and bad people in society, and the proportion is still very small.

Wine table culture is a special public place, the other party takes the initiative to ask you to eat and drink is to find a quiet and closed environment to talk about things slowly, but also to see how you are, through the conversation to understand whether you are familiar with the business, rules, how to deal with things to what point you agree to also means that you want to see the other party's conditions, it is impossible for a sophisticated person to say it thoroughly, say death, and make it clear that you have to be responsible. It's also a means of protecting both sides, and if used properly, you'll get the information you want. Since it is a means, there are many kinds of means, such as drinking tea, can't you talk about drinking tea?

Drinking tea can also be discussed, but drinking tea is a one-on-one negotiation, which belongs to the difficult level, and it is necessary to cut the meat and make concessions, play hooligans, and it is easy to make mistakes (the general situation is a game between the first leader and the first leader). The wine table is one-to-many, many-to-many. Relatively speaking, it is relatively simple, saying the wrong thing and making the wrong decision can be said to drink too much, and it is more about protecting young people (novices).

Most young people, of course, reject it. It's hard for them to even negotiate with the aunt in the vegetable market, not to mention that you let him negotiate with the person in charge, except for the talented and sure failure, even if he fails, he still drinks so much, hurts his body and is sad, and when he goes home, he is said to be a fool by his family, he is disgusted by his girlfriend, and there is no reason not to be discouraged, disgusted, and rejected by his girlfriend. If you really hate rejection, you can improve your ability at work, and the top ones will have people who appreciate you.

After all, professional things are done by professional people.

There must be a reason for the wine table culture that has been passed down for so many years, just look at it with a normal heart. I'm a businessman, and I don't like to drink, but at the moment, there's no more reliable way to replace it. In any case, the environment is getting better and better, and the days of drinking when talking about business are gone.

First of all, don't say anything about "wine table culture", I'm more used to calling it "wine table".

Why? Today's wine table is more like a game: talking about business "doing business", many businesses are signed by the noisy people when they are dizzy, and they are helpless when they look back; Exchange feelings and "do the game", a sentence we often hear between pushing the cup and changing the lamp is--- Do you look down on me?

Then the latter was forced to drink but had no choice but to do so; Flattery "do the game", the superior borrows wine to talk and boast, and the subordinate borrows wine to nod and praise again and again.

The current wine table is different from the early wine table culture, which is a part of the political culture, closely combined with rituals such as sacrifices and celebrations, and is an upper-class culture belonging to the royal family and the authorities, with clear systems, requirements and processes. The current liquor bureau is more inclined to artificial progress or means to achieve the end, and false infiltration in it has deviated from the original intention.

I think it's a good signal that the current post-mortem is waking up and opposing the "drinking game". Wine is the carrier of culture, but it should not become a mask of "chaos" and "hypocrisy", let alone a health killer.

I really hope that from now on, the wine table culture can really develop in a better direction.

What is the cavitation of wine table stockings? The Kyushu culture is a kind of eating and drinking on the wine table. I'm drinking and discussing things.

8 plus 1 means drinking, which is mostly used on the wine table, and also has the meaning of adding wine, and the same saying is three plus six. It is a kind of wine culture, and the so-called wine culture refers to the general term of material culture and spiritual culture produced in the process of production, sales and consumption of wine.

Introduction of sake and cultureLiquor is a beverage made by fermentation of grain. China is the earliest country to make wine, as early as 2000 years ago invented the wine-making technology, and constantly improve and perfect, and now has developed to produce a variety of concentrations, a variety of aromas, a variety of alcohol-containing beverages. Winemaking is the process of using micro-sensitive Liangze biological fermentation to produce beverages with a certain concentration of alcohol.

Winemaking raw materials and winemaking vessels are the two prerequisites for cereal winemaking.

Wine culture has a long history in China, and many literati have written tentative descriptions of tasting and appreciating fine wines, leaving wine fights, writing poems, painting, health preservation, banquets, and other Dionysian sayings. Wine culture has penetrated into all fields of human social life, and has a huge impact and role in human life, literature and art, medical key and health care, industrial and agricultural production, political and economic aspects.

What is "Wine Table Culture"? According to the literature, at least in the Zhou Dynasty, the food etiquette has formed a fairly complete system, and this traditional banquet and drinking ceremony is preserved in most parts of our country. But in reality, there are always some people at the wine table who like to persuade to drink, regardless of whether others can drink or not, they only blindly persuade wine.

As a result, the wine table culture is gradually disgusted by young people.

Social change, changes in the educational environment.

Society is progressing, and young people are being educated to advocate equality and pay attention to the protection of their own rights and interests. The work pays more attention to one's own ability, and competes with one's own ability.

The Internet is flatter and the needs are diverse.

In the current environment, to create "all-round" talents, as long as you have strong ability, the space for display is very large. Similar to "outsourcing" can be outsourced and outsourced, which also benefits from changes in the company's and organizational structure. That is, you can be both a buyer and a seller as long as you have the ability.

The Internet provides a platform for the protection of rights.

In such an era of information, as long as there is substantial evidence, rights protection is no longer an unbreakable barrier, and ordinary people also have a voice. There is no longer a need for the old man to use the wine table culture to solve things.

The damage caused by the "wine table culture" is innumerable, and in the face of the deformed wine table culture, I believe that the younger generation can gradually eliminate it.