What does it take to have a baby? Why are people reluctant to have children now?

Living in the 21st century today, people's concept of life has undergone a great change, around us, we can find that there are fewer and fewer people who are willing to have children, so many people will have such a question, that is, what does it take to have a child? Why are people reluctant to have children now? For this problem, there are many things to go through, for example, from October pregnancy to the birth of the child is a difficult process, and the child has to be raised after birthDue to a certain change in people's ideology, most people are now reluctant to have children, so let's explain it in detail.

We all know that with the rapid development of social economy, now the status of women in society is becoming more and more fair, now girls also have the same right to receive education, and it can even be said that most of the girls have received education, so the ability in all aspects has been greatly improved compared with before, now many women have achieved economic independence, and there are fewer and fewer housewives and the like, for the life of a housewife, many girls are unwilling to go, Hence this reluctance to have children.

And it is very troublesome to give birth to a child, from October pregnancy to the birth of the child, this is a difficult process, how much pain to endure in the process, and then wait until the child is born after their life is restricted in all aspects, every day is a family child, this kind of life is okay in the short term, but if it is like this in the long term.

So many women can't accept it, plus now people's ideas have also undergone a great change, feeling that having children is a kind of trouble, before people's concept is to raise children to prevent old age, but now the various pension insurance systems in society, these can well promote the change of people's thinking, so now many people are reluctant to have children.

It takes a lot to have a child, to prepare a child to eat, drink and have fun, it takes a lot of money, and now many people have a lot of social pressure, the quality of life requirements are relatively high, and it takes a lot of money to cultivate children, so they are reluctant to have children.

1. To experience the painful life of pregnancy in October, during this period, there are many taboos and many things that cannot be done.

2. Giving birth to a child is a more sinful thing, and it will also bring discomfort to people.

Having a baby is about experiencing morning sickness and starting to be painful. Nowadays, many people are probably reluctant to have a baby because of financial pressure, because life is more stressful, so if the baby is brought to this world, it may not bring him excellent living conditions.

Women who give birth to children have to experience body shape, physical and mental trauma, and now women are self-conscious and determined, becoming very independent, and do not want to become useless because of having children, lose their jobs and lose their figure, and invest too much financial energy, which is not good for women.

With fewer children, home education can be a big problem.

More and more young people don't want to have children, and some don't get married at all, which really makes it difficult for parents. A young man who was forced by his parents to give birth to a child and complete the task of inheriting the family lineage died or died. Some people are down, and there are brothers and sisters in the family, and when they give birth, they have a reason not to give birth.

As a result, there are very few children added to a family. Less nature is also precious, especially after the only child gets married, and only one child is born, then the four old people on both sides of the couple will compete for the belt and the kiss. In this way, homeschooling will become a big problem.

Because there are few children, the family members are more pampered, and some children are spoiled and lawless, and they will beat the elderly. And some "little princesses" and "little stupid emperors" will have many bad problems, such as squeamishness, selfishness, impoliteness to rent shirts, temper and so on. Even if young parents understand education and educate their children very well, but the old people are still used to taking the baby, so that the two generations will have conflicts in the education of their children, for example, as soon as the parents discipline their children, the old people will not be able to protect the calves, which will inevitably affect family harmony in the long run, and it is not conducive to children's education.

**。There are fewer people, labor costs are increasing, and businesses are under pressure.

Further, the continued decline in fertility also means that in the future, the population will be smaller and the labor force will be smaller. In this way, although the competition for jobs is not fierce in the future, the employee benefits will be better, especially the middle-aged people will no longer worry about being eliminated by young people at every turn. But businesses are under pressure because the cost of hiring labor has increased.

At a deeper level, it will also affect economic development.

Therefore, now the state encourages the birth of a second child, which is also considered from the perspective of sustainable development. The appropriate increase in population and the increasing number of young people are also a kind of alleviation of the aging of the population.

The main reason for the low willingness to have children is that the pace of life is relatively fast, and both work pressure and economic pressure are relatively large, so now people mainly complete career success, and then they will have family happiness, so everyone is busy and has no time and energy to raise children, which is the main reason for the decrease in willingness.

The main reason for everyone's low willingness to have children.

First, the cost of raising children is too high. At present, the supply of public kindergartens is still insufficient, and the better private kindergartens are basically not enough for one person's salary, coupled with daily expenses, and the family burden is very heavy. Moreover, when children are educated, all kinds of auxiliary sail training, guidance classes, and trusteeship classes must come together, and the burden of compulsory education cannot be light.

In addition to the economic cost, there is also the time cost. Nowadays, families pay great attention to the education of their children, and many schools and teachers turn children's homework into parents' homework, but parents do not have professional education to educate their children. Many parents go to work all day and come home to educate their children, which is very stressful.

Some of the young parents even went to the hospital early.

Second, career prospects, having children, women's work has the most auspicious impact, from pregnancy to maternity leave, breastfeeding leave, and the daily care of children, women tend to put the most energy. In this way, their career development space will be greatly compressed. In fact, many men in families who have children will also have their energy affected, from watching their children to helping them with their homework.

The easiest thing for everyone to see is that once you get married and have children, there is no time for all kinds of friends to get together.

In recent years, the fertility rate in China has fallen to an all-time low, and we need to delve into the causes of this blind ear phenomenon and come up with effective solutions.

Socio-economic factors.

With the development of the economy, people's living standards have gradually improved, but at the same time, it has also brought more pressure. Many people face problems such as high housing prices and heavy educational burdens, which make it difficult for them to afford the cost of raising their children.

Educational and cultural factors.

Modern people attach more importance to personal freedom and independence, and they tend to pursue satisfaction in career, study, travel, etc., while they are less willing to have children. At the same time, modern people's concepts of marriage and childbirth are gradually changing, and many people believe that marriage and childbirth are no longer inevitable life choices.

Technological and medical factors.

With the development of medicine and technology, many infertility problems can be solved through artificial insemination, IVF, etc., which makes many people feel that they can postpone childbearing and wait until their career and life are stable before considering having children.

Increasing the fertility rate will not happen overnight, and will require long-term policy and social support. Here are some suggestions that may help boost fertility: Jabu.

Reducing the financial burden on young people, such as improving social benefits such as housing and health care, and strengthening employment opportunities and remuneration packages.

Strengthen the protection and concern for women, and establish a more complete system for protecting women's rights and interests.

Encourage and support businesses and departments to provide childcare services such as parental leave, flexible working hours and nurseries.

Raise awareness, education and awareness about childbearing and parenting, such as preconception care and fertility literacy.

These are only some of the recommendations that need to be taken into account in order to achieve a real increase in fertility and a comprehensive population development strategy.

1. Lowering the legal age of marriage does not improve the marriage rate and the birth rate of the population.

If we look at the legal age of marriage in several developed countries, such as 15 years old in France, 18 years old for men and 16 years old for women in Japan, 16 years old in South Korea, etc., the legal age of marriage in these countries is very small, but their marriage rate and birth rate have not improved. In other words, the current low birth rate of our population has basically nothing to do with the legal age of marriage.

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In developed regions, the opportunity cost of having children is very high, which is one of the important reasons for reluctance to have children.

The decline in people's willingness to marry and have children is often related to social and economic development, and from an economic point of view, the opportunity cost of having children in developed countries and regions is very large. On the contrary, in economically underdeveloped places, where these women are already unemployed, having a child is not a loss for them, and the opportunity cost is much smaller.

Therefore, we can see that the more developed the country, the lower the fertility rate; In poor and backward countries, fertility rates tend to be high.

2. In our national conditions, it is irresponsible to lower the legal marriage to 18 years old.

Can 18-year-old men and women take on the responsibility of marriage? It would be irresponsible to let them marry before they are yet able to take on this responsibility.

When most people are 18 years old, they are still in their first year of college, and most of the students are often responsible for the tuition and living expenses at this time.

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Parents are old and young, and they need to reduce their burden.

According to relevant data, the average cost of Chinese college students in four years is about 10,000. At this time, it is often the time when parents are most stressed, not only do they have to provide for their children to go to college, but also have to take care of the elderly on both sides, and the pressure of work and life has already made parents almost breathless!

May I ask the boys and girls at this time, do they have the conditions to get married? If you get married and have children in your first or second year of college, who will support you? Throw it to your parents? This is all irresponsible.

3. Improving the benefits of marriage and childbirth is a good way to improve the fertility rate.

If we want to increase our marriage and fertility rates, we must improve and enhance the relevant fertility and parenting benefits, and give preferential treatment to women who have children. For example, the birth of a child, cash incentives, and the state pays child support to children between the ages of 1 and 6, free medical care for young children, free kindergarten attendance, and so on.

In addition, the society should provide relevant services for women returning to the workplace after childbirth, such as free skills training, free psychological counseling, and so on.

Conclusion: If we want to increase our fertility rate, we must do a good job of relevant social security, and we must not let childbearing and raising children become an unbearable burden for young couples; Modern working women should not be allowed to lose themselves because of giving birth and raising children, and the society should take relevant supporting measures for these professional women to return to the workplace.

The pressure is high, the salary is not high, the consumption is high, and any adult who does not have a loan on him, like a low salary, would not dare to have a child at all.