How to be a man with connotation

In daily life, you should also read more books, or have more contact with some people with better performance, learn a method when they are dealing with people, and use them when they are in contact with men, so that men can feel that they also need to spend some effort to dress themselves up beautifully in appearance.

I think you can work hard, and then you must be steady in your conversation, you must have your own thoughts, you must know some etiquette, and you must study and read more often, so that you can make yourself have connotation.

But usually you have to read more books and learn more skills to make yourself better, so that when men get along with you, they will feel that you are very valuable and very connotative.

There are two steps in the cultivation of connotation, the first is to pretend to have connotation, and the second is to really have connotation. First of all, you should pretend to be very substantial, how to say it? It is to pretend to be deep, talk less nonsense and joke less, always maintain a mature and profound smile, pay attention to proportionality when talking to others, don't forget what kind of impression your performance will bring to others, when others say the wrong thing or do something inconsequential or inadvertently or intentionally hurt you, don't rush to fight back, keep smiling and fade away.

Don't change your image because of the outside world, for example, when you are happy with your classmates, even if you are happy, you should be light, suppress your feelings, and always pay attention to your words and expressions. The other thing is to speak to be sophisticated, mature and serious without losing a sense of humor, in fact, it is not complicated, that is, when you speak, do not make hurtful jokes, think twice, when you feel that the sentence you want to say is not good enough, don't say it, take it with a smile. And the best way to show the connotation can be described as tolerance, when you are angry, don't show it, if you have inadvertently behaved, don't forget to take the initiative to say hello to that person after the incident, show your generosity.

The other is that it really has connotation, which is not much to say. As long as you stick to what I said above, and then pay attention to the way people around you behave in the world, pay attention to accumulating experience, and slowly you will become proficient and sophisticated, and it is also very meaningful without pretending. But I can give you one assertion:

The only people who really have connotation are those who have devoted their lives to meditation (not only monks, but also those who live for true knowledge without seeking fame), and the other people who are called with connotation are actually fake, because their common characteristics are that they have a relatively high status in the crowd, and their self-esteem is particularly strong, and they are also very proud. The common connotation is the self-preservation ability cultivated in order to survive better in an unpleasant environment under the combined effect of social training and life setbacks, coupled with one's own wisdom to resist the outside world, and to put it mildly, it is the crystallization of maturity and wisdom experience. It's fake, don't care.

The connotation is from the inside out, not only their own life experience to be extensive, but also to practice more in etiquette, learn how to get along with various forms of people, when getting along with strangers, to be generous, cheerful, sincere, when getting along with friends, to be honest, someone to ask for help, to be willing to help others solve problems, if the problem can not be solved, to tell others sincerely, in public, to learn to be low-key, when others talk to you, to look at other people's eyes to answer, smiling, When others want you to talk about your own point of view, don't cower and postpone, whether it's right or wrong, you have the courage to say your own opinion, do the above points, and your personal connotation will be greatly improved.

The connotation is the experience you have and all your perceptions, shaped over time, learn to taste the bits and pieces of life, so as to brew a beautiful and warm life to be a persevering, know how to appreciate the heart.

Tolerant, open-minded, considerate, empathetic, perceptive to life, helpful, modest and prudent...

A man of real taste, leather shoes can have some.

Gray, pants can be a little wrinkled, body shape can be a little fat, and there is a back is definitely not less answered, that is by your connotation and exposed temperament.

This temperament is personality charm, it is the level and taste, and it is the most basic and core of a man, the most soulful, and the most humane thing.

Taste is not innate, but a kind of hard work, serious cultivation, and a kind of "self-detachment" spiritual tempering.

A man of taste, kind and tolerant, caring, responsible, compassionate, just, and dignified.

A man of taste, witty and humorous, calm and graceful. It can gain insight into a woman's mind in an instant, can hook your soul out and communicate with him, and can awaken your sleeping emotions.

A man of taste, brave and resolute, persistent, open-minded, free and bold. He has a strong personality, he is open, he is independent, he is strong-willed, he is strong and confident.

To see what kind of man you are.