Should I confess my more complicated past to my significant other?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-16
4 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Often encounter this kind of thing, the best solution to find the closest person to tell it, such as your parents, don't be afraid, the world cares about you the most is your parents, after a period of calm, be yourself, you will meet yourself in life who know how to cherish you, come on, maintain a positive attitude.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't say it.、I guess this kind of thing will only feel okay if the man likes you very much....

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When you are in love, you need to be honest. But there are some people who are very small-minded, and when they are in love, if they confess their love history to each other, they will make their other half jealous. So whether you should confess your love history to your lover or not, I think it depends on the situation.

    1. If the other party's heart is not very big and cares about his past, I feel the need to confess. I think some people have very small hearts, and they feel that their object should follow them wholeheartedly. He wouldn't be able to accept it if he found out that his object had kissed, held hands, hugged, or made more intimate gestures with her ex.

    I think that in the face of such a lover, he should tell him the situation with Zheng Xiangshi, otherwise he will not be able to accept it when he knows these situations from other people's mouths in the future. He will feel that you are cheating on him. When you get married, he will be dissatisfied with you, and it will affect your marriage.

    I think that in the face of such a person, we should only let him know the truth as soon as possible, continue to be together if he can accept it, and separate as soon as possible if he can't accept it, otherwise I will be hurt in the future.

    Second, if the other party doesn't care about his past, I don't think there's any need to confess. Some people have more cheerful personalities and open-mindedness, and they don't care about some of each other's love history. I think it's okay to face such a person without telling him about his love experience.

    Because in the future, when he knows these things from others, he can accept them, and now tell him that he can still accept them. So you don't have to tell him about these situations, so as not to add some unnecessary trouble to your feelings.

    So when you are in love, whether you want to confess your love history to the other party depends on the situation, if the other party cares about your past, then confess, if the other party doesn't care, you don't have to confess, because it doesn't make much sense to confess, just face the current feelings.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't mind, he's honest and trusts you to understand.

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