How can a man choose his other half?

The most important criterion for a boy to choose his other half is that the personalities of the two people should be compatible. When many couples are just together, the relationship between them is very good, but when they get along for a while, they will find that the other party is not very suitable for them, and the personalities of the two people are completely incompatible. For example, boys are very introverted, and girls are very extroverted, and girls will complain that boys are like a piece of wood and don't know any romance.

When you get married, you will live together for the rest of your life, and if you don't get along with each other, you will often quarrel.

Boys must choose a girl they like. Sometimes, a guy will be with a girl he doesn't like for some reason, and there is no affection between the two of them at all. The basis of love is that there is affection between the two parties, and if you face a person you don't like all day long, you will definitely be worse than dead.

Only when you choose a girl you like, will you feel that falling in love is a wonderful thing, and you can also get the happiness you want, and you will have the confidence to grow old with her.

Boys should choose girls who match their three views. Nowadays, many girls pay special attention to material conditions, and some girls even choose to marry someone they don't like in order to get more money. When a boy chooses a partner, he must observe whether the other party's three views are compatible with himself.

So that there are no big disagreements between you. Later in life, you can also avoid a lot of unnecessary troubles.

I think thoughtfulness should come first. The reason why my dad lived a happy life was because my mom was very considerate. Because my father is very strong, so on many occasions my mother will let him, which will give him a long face, and my mother is very beautiful, and the cooking is also very delicious, as long as the guests come to our house, they will praise my mother, and then say that my parents and daughter-in-law are well married.

The gentle and considerate mother makes everyone like it very much, and Dad also feels very proud. <>

It is better to marry a girl who is financially independent, but not too strong and not focused on work. I am a very strong and responsible girl, and I think whoever marries me in the future will be unlucky. Because when feelings and work are put together, I will choose work more, but such girls often don't care about their families, because there will be a feeling of having more than enough heart and not enough power, so I suggest that boys still choose, more family-oriented girls.

Another advantage of a girl's financial independence is that she will not always ask you for money, which can also reduce your financial burden. If the two of you buy a house together, in the process of the mortgage, he can also contribute to the house, and life can be said to be more comfortable. It is better for two people to bear than one.

Girls who are very good at cooking and girls who can cook food are welcome, and if guests come to your house, you will feel very face-saving. And in ordinary life, especially after having children. A girl who can cook will make the family happier a lot.

For example, every time we have a birthday or a holiday, my mother will cook a lot of delicious food, some of which I have never seen before, and many people envy the life of our family, just because my mother can cook. You don't want to get married, because your wife can't cook, order takeout every day, or you are very tired, and you have to cook after work. The wife who can cook is back, and the boy is more homely.

My dad doesn't like to eat at dinners, he thinks that no one makes as good as my mother's, so sometimes he insists on going home to eat when he gets off work late.

If a man wants to choose a other half, he must follow the truest thoughts of his heart to choose, no matter what he does, it depends on his own wishes.

First, choose the one you like. A life is a long life, and the other half is someone who is going to live with us for a lifetime, and if you don't like him, it's hard to live. Nowadays, the divorce rate in society is actually very high, and there are many people who are more hasty and look for their other half like completing tasks, which is not good.

So, you have to choose the person you really like and work hard.

Again, you have to choose what is good for you. It's useless if the person you like doesn't like you. So, on the basis of you liking her, she also likes you, and she also has to be good to you, if she is lukewarm to you, there will be no difference between one person and two people in the future. <>

Also, two people need to have a common interest in hobbies. Only when the three views are consistent will it be easier to get along for a long time and not feel bored. Otherwise, it will feel as if there is no way to sustain it over time.

There are many people who will choose a partner who is similar to their work, because there are topics to talk about, or at least some common interests and hobbies, which can keep your relationship fresh.

In the end, there are not so many rules for choosing the other half, and the most important thing is to look at your own ideas. Maybe you like someone at first sight, and the other standards don't exist. If you qualify, but you don't like it, you can't do it.

We have also seen many people who have been married for many years and have been in a very good relationship and maintain that feeling of being in love, so this is also because their love for each other has never diminished. It's also because we all love each other, which is very important.

Therefore, men should listen to their hearts to choose, and then find what they like and spend a long and beautiful life together.

The first is your own pursuit, the other party's pursuit, and your common pursuit.

The pursuit of oneself is to look at some of the shining points that they want most, arrange them in a good order, distinguish the priorities, the main thing is that perfect people do not exist, so they must give up in order to have gains, boys like beautiful, fashionable, **, sensible, and then they are capable, outgoing, so I think I have to find a perfect goddess for you, so choose the most suitable for yourself, analyze your character, and then you want to find what kind of general number, If you are a more introverted one, you can find a cheerful person to be your wife, otherwise you are both introverted, and there is no fun at home, just like Chen Xiaochun and Ying Caier, one is introverted and the other is extroverted, so complementary, the two are also very affectionate. So find the one that suits your personality first.

The pursuit of the other party is to see what the other party wants, if the pursuit of two people for each other is similar, then congratulations, you have found a more suitable other half, in fact, most of the time it is not suitable, and then slowly through communication run-in, this love will become sweeter, more firm, to overcome difficulties together, to face all kinds of things in life together, this is the most beautiful love.

For the third one, it is a boy who is already in love, you should have a common pursuit, you can't be tired of being together every day, and then there is no pursuit, life is in the world, the important thing is to live a wonderful life, you can't get by day by day, otherwise it will be boring for decades. Set a small goal for two people and achieve it slowly, so that both people will be more motivated and hopeful to live your life the way you want. Boys don't have to ask too much, be the girl you love and make the person you love happy, that's the most important thing.

I think men need to pay attention to the following aspects when choosing a wife.

1.Filial. I think filial piety is the most important thing between husband and wife. Whether you honor your mother-in-law or her mother-in-law, it is all right.

Both parents need to be honored, it's not a question of which side you choose, if you choose a wife, you must choose a very filial wife.

If she gets married and quarrels with your mother all day long, and your family will not be harmonious all day long, what is the point of such a wedding?

2.There shouldn't be too much difference in age.

If you choose a wife, then your age and your wife's age should not be too big. Generally speaking, up and down ten years old, it's about the same. If the gap widens, then you will not feel like a husband and wife, but like a mother and son or a father and daughter.

Now many stars in the entertainment industry are married to husbands who are much older than themselves, just like Liu Shishi married Wu Qilong. Liu Shishi is only in his twenties, Wu Qilong is in his forties, in terms of age, Wu Qilong can call his father-in-law brother, don't you feel embarrassed!

Some people even married someone older than their father, which directly embarrassed their father.

3.Family backgrounds can't be too different.

Family background is a very important issue, if the family background of two people is too different, then the living habits will not be very similar, and there may be conflicts when they are together.

Just like the daughter of a poor family suddenly got along with Wang Sicong, the gap between the rich and the poor in the family is too big, and it is very difficult for the parents to pass this hurdle.

Therefore, there is a certain truth in the ancient saying that the door is right. Although I don't think so, it's worth considering.

How to choose the other half correctly, you can't go wrong with grasping these points.

I won't choose, marry someone I don't like, and feel that this is a disservice to two people.

If you really decide to get married, you must choose a person you like, and feel more suitable for each other, so that there will be happiness and joy in such a life.

But real life is particularly complicated, and there are still a considerable number of people, for various reasons, who marry someone they don't like and live together for the rest of their lives.

There are men and women among them, and each of us has these people around us, and there are about three categories.

First of all, the first category is that some men or women have some accidents, they are older, and they can't find a more suitable one, so they can only retreat to the next best thing, find the opposite sex who is willing to live with them, and the two of them live together and take care of each other.

Of course, some have children, and some have no children at all, and the two people live in a special loneliness, and they usually don't communicate at all, just find some work every day, earn some money, and live every day now.

The second is those who can't help themselves, the family is particularly poor, and can only use marriage to achieve their own goals.

There is a girl who is still beautiful, but her family is deep in the mountains, her parents are seriously ill, and there is a younger brother, and the family is very poor.

At this time, there was a leader's stupid son, but he had a soft spot for this girl who worked part-time, and he liked this girl. The people around him helped the leader and discussed with the girl's family to marry the girl to this stupid son.

Later, the leader gave a large sum of money to the girl's family, and arranged a job for the girl's younger brother, and the girl naturally married this stupid son.

The girl also accepted her fate calmly, sometimes looking miserable, but most of them looked depressed and flat.

There are also those who marry people they don't like for their own desires or purposes.

Nowadays, such men and women are also everywhere, but there are more girls. Most of them took a fancy to the man's power or status and married the man.

When we first started together, I felt that my economic status had changed, and I had money in my hands that I had never seen before, and I was very comfortable.

But after a long time, it doesn't look happy. After all, the gap between the two people is too big, the age gap, the physical gap, the thinking gap, the social status, and the ideological concept are too big.

The two of them don't go out together at all, for fear of being criticized or discriminated against by others, and they feel very unhappy.

How happy it is to be able to control your own destiny and marry the person you like! I hope that people who truly have this ability will be able to cherish the life in front of them.

How to choose the other half will lead to a happier life, which is the key to choosing your own marriage.

1. Similar academic qualifications.

If there is a large gap between the cultural levels of two people, it will be difficult to get along, and there may be differences in their views, three views, and pursuits, and such a relationship will be more tiring to get along. Therefore, when choosing the other half, it is best that the other party's education or knowledge is the same or similar to your own, and not very far apart.

Second, the viewpoint is the same.

If you have the same views and similar views on certain people and things, it is easy for two people to have a common language and understand each other's behavior. And when encountering problems, the two can also remind each other and support each other.

3. Appreciate each other.

Two people must appreciate each other and have something that attracts each other. Only love is needed before marriage, and after marriage, when the two really enter the firewood, rice, oil and salt, it is time to take responsibility and obligation, and at this time, both of them need to have a belief in paying for each other and the family. Why should you pay for your significant other?

Is it because you feel she's worth your effort? What are her strengths, practices, and virtues that you are worth paying for? These are what you appreciate about each other.

Fourth, common interests and hobbies.

When two people have common interests and hobbies, they can act in unison in their leisure life, and two people will have more opportunities to accompany each other, as well as more opportunities for communication and exchange. Therefore, whether it is before or after marriage, cultivating more common interests and hobbies will help the emotional communication between the two.

Fifth, good character.

When choosing a partner, the character of the other person is important. Hardworking, kind, thrifty, tolerant, responsible, keeping promises, strong and unyielding, grateful, low-key and humble, helpful, these are all good qualities. Of course, there is no perfect person, and everyone can choose what they think is important.

Sixth, there are common ideals and pursuits.

If one person has been working hard to create a high-quality life for the family, while the other person is only lazy, selfish, and only waiting to share the fruits of other people's labor, such feelings are difficult to continue.