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The main thing is that others should be good, be good to you, and the two of you are suitable together. In terms of work, only he is self-motivated, and his work can be better in the future. On the basis of feelings, the economy is also quite important.
Although his salary is not very high at present, as long as he has a heart and a goal, he can still slowly increase it in the future. Take a long-term view. See if he has the potential in this area, whether he is appropriate in terms of life and things, etc.
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Mainly good for you and have a certain economic base.
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There is no emotional foundation in the first place, and it is definitely not possible to get married in a different place.
If you want to know whether it is suitable or not, you can get along for a while The major events of a lifetime can not be sloppy and anxious.
Of course, finding a husband has to be weighed in all aspects, and everyone wants a different life, and the key depends on what you want.
If you want to have a stable salary, it's mainly good for you and your family.
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As long as he is good to you, will take care of you, and you love him, won't you be happy? Look at people, don't look at his money, look at his people. If you think you'll be happy with him, it's okay.
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A man must eat a peck of salt with his friend before he knows him.
It took a long time to see it.
It's okay in the short term, but be cautious.
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I don't think you should make a decision so early, there is no emotional foundation for two people, and then you can understand and understand each other, and you will see people's hearts over time. The things faced during love and marriage are not the same as the emotions of two people. I think there are two points for reference, 1, are you with him in your heart and not worried about any problems in the future, and you feel happy every day when you look at him?
2. Can he understand your joys, sorrows, and sorrows, can he understand your mind, in other words, do you think he can be your soul confidant? If the answer is all yes, I think you will be happy if you marry him. I'm in a similar situation to you, but I've been married for more than a year, and my husband loves me very much and treats me very well, but I sometimes feel unhappy in life, and not all husbands can read the women around them.
Today's men will become very lazy after marriage, and no longer bother to understand the reasons why their wives are happy and depressed, and most of today's women are delicate, work pressure, economic pressure, and family relationship pressure will make women irritable for no reason, but most men will not understand or take the initiative to comfort. Therefore, the married life of not being able to find someone to talk to is not unhappiness, and even if it is good in other aspects, it is not happiness. So let me ask, do you and your husband-to-be have a heart-to-heart connection?
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It must be the happiest to find an obedient and responsible husband, such a husband will definitely be very professional to you, and love you very much, and secondly, when you express some opinions, he will also listen to you.
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A woman should find a man with shoulders and responsibilities to marry, and she will be happy.
Only when a woman marries a man with shoulders and responsibilities will you gain a true sense of security and happiness. If a man has no shoulders and responsibilities, and only knows how to escape when he encounters problems, then you can't get the happiness you really want from a man.
A woman should find a man who is open-minded enough to marry, and she will be happy.
An open-minded man who will not go toe-to-toe with you and will not put you in a dilemma. He is generous enough to you that he will not treat you with a small belly. If you live with a man who is particularly narrow-minded or narrow-minded, you will feel like you are living for years.
Living with such a man is an ordeal for you, not a pleasure.
A woman should find a man who loves you wholeheartedly to marry, and she will be happy. If a man is always half-hearted in the face of feelings, and he can't love you wholeheartedly, then such a man will make you feel particularly painful. Because he can't give you the happiness you really want.
You are always with him, always full of all kinds of quarrels and misunderstandings.
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Very attentive husband. Because this kind of husband attaches great importance to your little emotions, and will often give you some small surprises, it is very tolerant of you.
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Find a husband who loves you very much, if your husband is very protective of you, and he wants you to do anything for you, then you are the happiest person in the world.
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Find the right other half, happy people are similar; Find the wrong half, the unfortunate people have their own misfortunes.
I'm the lucky one.
If you are slightly more beautiful, gentle, and temperamental; Meeting love and liking should be simple, rare to meet understanding.
As a person who lacks love, understanding is especially important. In my family of origin, my parents are people who don't express love, I am insecure, I can't feel love, and then I will do something; to verify that you are in love with me.
My other half is gentle, not anxious, calm; Often I get anxious: Oh my God, what to do, it's terrible. He calmly analyzed, what's the big deal. I thought: Oh too, the whole person is also calm and relaxed.
My partner is patient, serious, and loving, and he is full of affection for family members, strangers, and small insects that fly into the house...
Half of me is very capable, we never have to worry about the work things, I go to work seriously, I am aggressive, I take it home on time, and I give you my salary card; It's also a very important part of a family.
The children at home, changing diapers and feeding milk powder when they are young, and taking baths are all done by him, and when they grow up, they play and take baths with him; Buying vegetables and washing dishes, drying clothes, collecting clothes, doing housework, the hot water at home has not been cut off, you can feel his dedication to the family, the importance of the family, you also feel full of happiness.
His goodness will definitely not be finished for a while, so that in the future company, I will slowly find that in the long-term life, we support each other and stay together.
He is so beautiful, he can't talk sweetly, before going to bed at night, "I really hope to live to be eighty years old, and you are still by my side." Only the group.
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First, it is necessary to understand whether the shortcomings of both sides make each other tolerant and tolerant. When you are in love, you generally see the advantages of the other party, and even the shortcomings that are exposed will be ignored as cuteness. And after getting married, it's different, living together for a long time, you can often see a lot of each other's shortcomings, and a lot of different living habits from yourself.
If you love each other and tolerate all the strengths and weaknesses of each other, then your marriage should not be too wrong. Marriage is a process of mutual tolerance.
Second, it is necessary to understand whether the other party's education level is basically the same as your own. A high degree of education may not necessarily bring a high quality of life, and a low degree of education will never have a high level of quality of life. A low level of education usually means low income, a poor living environment, and a life at the bottom of society.
Excessively low educational qualifications will also bring inevitable troubles to the understanding of real life, the mediation of marital conflicts and the attitude towards daily life.
3. Understand whether the other person's personality and hobbies are similar to your own interests. A boy's vanity is easily lost by the girl's beauty, knowing that as the eldest grandson disappears, even the most beautiful looks will wither. Therefore, one should consider the local folk customs, and the other should think twice before acting, considering the economic situation of the boy's family, considering the boy's ability to work, and considering whether the boy has the potential for development in his career.
Fourth, it is necessary to find out whether the other party's character cultivation meets their own requirements. It is necessary to comprehensively examine the character and quality of the other party and how to deal with people, and whether the other party can be filial to his parents and elders, whether he has a minimum sense of responsibility and dedication, and whether he has basic moral character, which is very important for forming a family and living after marriage. As long as there is a good character and personality, no matter how poor the family is, as long as it works hard, it will be able to make a fortune, and no matter how difficult the life is, as long as it is hard work, there will be bright sunshine.
Fifth, it is necessary to understand whether the living environment of the other family's is roughly the same. Similar tutoring can speed up the emotional integration of husband and wife and reduce the distress during the run-in period. For those who don't know each other in the past, it is important to understand the other person's family background and tutoring situation.
A good family education can make a person knowledgeable, can make a person develop good living habits, can make a person form excellent quality characteristics, and can make a person become a figure accepted by the public.
Now it is convenient to go to the divorce registration office of the Civil Affairs Bureau to fill in the agreement.
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