It s only been three months since we got married, and now my husband and I are facing a divorce cris

First of all, your requirements seem reasonable, but they can't be met, because there is no emotional foundation between you, and there is a lack of understanding, so your lover doesn't know what you want and what you want, and your temptation itself is wrong, so the original fragile feelings must be less and less motivated in repeated tossing.

A harmonious marriage is made by two people who are dedicated to management and care. Marriage is nothing more than love, sex, and responsibility. The way husband and wife get along with each other and the way of social relations and friends are no different, tolerance, understanding, and communication.

It is recommended to compare the above key factors to see where the root cause of the conflict is, and only by finding the root cause and communicating and resolving it will the marriage be harmonious.

Don't take marriage so hastily, divorce a little thing, you must know that it is not easy to get married, especially for women, it is not fun to have the title of second marriage.

I found it inappropriate at the beginning, why do we still want to be together?

Marriage is a combination of mutual running-in, no matter how loving the couple is, they have the urge to strangle each other in marriage, and no matter how good the relationship is, there will be a day when it is as plain as water. The emotional foundation of the two parties is still there, and mentioning "divorce" is not the original intention of the parties, but often a means to vent their pain and threaten the other party. When your husband asks for a divorce, you should sit down calmly and analyze the reasons why he wants to get a divorce.

In fact, your marital status is not harmonious, even if it is a divorce situation, it is not terrible.

Many people don't know how to deal with marital conflicts or conflicts when they are faced with them, so they simply don't solve them. This is actually a reaction to avoid the problem, and if you don't face it, it seems that the problem will disappear naturally. Although there is the sweetness of love, it is more about the hardships of life, and there are even many unimaginable difficulties, which often lead to crises.

Longing for the understanding of the other party, love or companionship has never been obtained, and what is even more desperate is that in the end, there is no longer even a quarrel, but the suffocating silence and ignorance in the room. Many women are unable to win back their husbands, so they simply pull their children to the front line of the battlefield, and accuse their fathers of how bad they are in front of their children every day. When you don't feel loved, when you find that there are not only trivial but also negative emotions in your life, then you should realize that your marriage has deviated from its proper trajectory.

I think first you have to look back at what you both have lacking in your married life, starting with yourself. Then think carefully about the changes in your husband's thinking and make a comprehensive analysis. Calmly express your thoughts, and the other party will not be able to find a point of view to refute you, and they will also begin to reflect on whether they have a problem.

It is not recommended to redeem it, and it is not recommended to drag it out, you reflect on yourself first, and after you reflect on it, I will tell you, he can't blame him if he doesn't love you, he can divorce you, and then love to find whomever to whom.

When your marriage is in crisis and your husband insists on a divorce, you can try to tell him why you are divorcing, is your relationship broken? Or your relationship is weak, in fact, your relationship can be cultivated slowly, and you don't have to divorce, unless there is no relationship between you.

If your husband insists on divorce, you should ask why you insist on divorce and find out the conflicts you have directly.

When our marriage is in crisis and my husband insists on divorce, I think if it is me, I will give him a chance and let go, because he no longer loves me, so I should not force him to continue in the abyss of pain.

When the husband insists on divorce, he may only be forced to accept it, because there is only one person in the marriage, and hard work is far from enough.

When your husband files for divorce, if you don't want to divorce, you must control your emotions and don't let your emotions get out of control.

You should divorce him, and in the face of this problem, your husband has no confidence, which means that the two of you have no feelings, so you don't have to entangle each other.

Hello, if you suffer from a marital crisis in your marriage, and your husband insists on divorce, if you can't get it back, you can divorce by agreement to protect your rights and interests.

Then see why he got divorced, if there is someone, then don't save it, it will make yourself miserable.

If you feel that this marriage still needs to be insisted on, you can try to keep your husband, but you can't keep it, then forget it, after all, the twisted melon is not sweet.

You should try to keep it, when the marriage encounters a crisis, it is generally the man who wants to divorce, and the woman asks to keep it, at this time you can mobilize relatives and friends to persuade your husband, let him focus on marriage, for the sake of the children, do not easily say divorce.

If you are the party at fault in the marriage, and your husband does not forgive you and resolutely divorces, you can try to redeem it, if he insists on your marriage, it should not go on.

When the marriage encounters a crisis and the husband insists on divorce, I think it is better for you to divorce him, and don't live together reluctantly.

Legal Analysis: Divorce can be granted after three months of marriage. In the case of divorce by agreement, after negotiation between the two parties, they should go through the divorce formalities at the original marriage registration authority with the divorce agreement, marriage certificate and ID card of both parties and receive the divorce certificate; In the case of divorce by litigation, the lawsuit is filed in the court where the defendant is domiciled, or in the court where the defendant has lived for more than one year, and the lawsuit is generally six months in the first instance and three months in the second instance.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration office. The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted in repentance. In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person; (2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; (3) Having gambling, drug abuse, or other vices that have been repeatedly taught; (4) They have been separated for two years due to emotional discord; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted. Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

Be sure not to break the jar, communicate more with your husband, understand the reason, and correct it in time if it is your own reason. If it is a contradiction caused by poor communication, then it is necessary to strengthen communication and express all ideas.

As a wife, I think divorce should be done. Because the husband has made up his mind, there is no need for us to humble and keep it, such a marriage has no meaning.

You can ask your husband why he wants to divorce, ask him if he has already thought about it, and if he thinks about it, choose to divorce.

As a wife, you can analyze whether there is a gap between two people that is related to the bottom line of principles, if not, you can calmly communicate and solve it, and if so, it is recommended to divorce.

At the same time of divorce, you should fight for a little more property, and don't let yourself get nothing after the divorce, only a body of harm.