The mind is gone, the emotion is still there, and it will glow with a terrible brilliance

This is not something that can be changed very quickly, it will take a long time. Be mentally prepared, the most important thing is that you will have a certain sense of tension when communicating with people, you will feel that you don't know how to express it, and try to be as bold as possible to talk to strangers. Think about what you should say before you start the conversation and organize the order of the conversation and the main points of the conversation yourself.

People have a plan for their interactions, right, but some people may be more obvious, and some people are not so obvious, I don't deny that there is such a thing as a gentleman's friendship, and she may not be judged by right or wrong when she does this, but what matters is how you think of her behavior, this person.

If you think she's cute and worth associating, don't care too much about the subtleties, and if you find it intolerable, just cut it off, good luck.

Kiss! Don't give her money! Look at her attitude! I don't think you can have such a girl.

Don't pay blindly, since you can't stay together, forget it! Do feelings that require money still need to be maintained?

A bucket of rice raises a benefactor, and a load of rice raises an enemy.

I don't think this girl is enough or not.

Love you, a person who truly loves you will not ask you for money again and again, on the contrary, she will feel sorry for you to spend money, and she will save for you everywhere, she seems to be using money to measure feelings, or you are one of the spare tires, I am a girl I have often seen similar things, it is recommended to observe for the time being before making a decision.

Let's give you the general direction first:

One: If you don't have the money to go out to buy "just the house of you and your daughter-in-law", don't get married. Obviously, your mother, your second sister, and your daughter-in-law have a bad temper, and although it is possible to get better after your daughter-in-law gives birth, it will not solve the underlying problem.

Young couples should live separately from the family, otherwise the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law needs to be coordinated for a long time.

For the sake of the future family, for the sake of your mother and your daughter-in-law, you can let it go.

2: If you have the money to buy a house outside and can afford to take care of your daughter-in-law, and your parents agree to let you live outside. Definitely try to be with your daughter-in-law. It's not easy to love someone, and it's another five years. If you wake up with a stranger next to your pillow, then your life is meaningless.

If you are determined to marry your daughter-in-law, you can adopt the following strategies:

First talk to your daughter-in-law, say bear with it now, after all, the old people are a little stubborn, tell your daughter-in-law that you will go out to live in ,......the futureDoes your daughter-in-law really love you??? I didn't fight for it, how could I say that it was good to get together and disperse. I should be dizzy.

If she loves you, she will be willing to get along with your mother-in-law and second sister, if he doesn't love you, he is already tired. Then don't fight for it, so that her wife will feel that you owe her. If she agrees, then her parents won't have to worry about it.

Just show your heart.

Besides, your mother and second sister started to do it, I don't know if you have figured out their contradictions and prescribed the right medicine. And explain your wishes, your parents and your second sister should respect your wishes, after all, it is you who get married. Seeing that things have eased, bring your daughter-in-law to the door with some gifts to apologize and talk well...

The most important thing is to strive to have your own home outside, preferably to have a son, then the relationship between the two families will be established. It's easy to say anything.

Your second sister solved it first, and I felt that I was willing to make out what she said behind her back. And you shouldn't think that being nice to your daughter-in-law will make up for your family's bad treatment of her, which is not right. You should be nice to her, but you should still reconcile the conflict between your family and your daughter-in-law, in this case, if you want to live together, you should go out and live.

Occasionally, when your second sister is away, you will move your mother. Come one by one.

Your daughter-in-law is very good and very filial. This kind of girl bai needs to be cherished. But why doesn't your family like her?

Did you know? If you really love her, you have to do your family's work, and now the problem is that your family doesn't accept your daughter-in-law and not your daughter-in-law doesn't accept your family, as long as your family nods, you can have a good life. Otherwise, an unblessed marriage will go very hard.

Hearing what you say, in fact, there is no major right and wrong in principle, mainly some small details in life accumulate day by day.

It has become intolerance between the two parties, and it is a conflict between your families, and the relationship between the two of you is still very good, so it is a pity to separate like this. The best way is for you to move out to live, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies, friction is inevitable in living together, and the problem of isolating the source of conflict will naturally be solved. I hope you are happy.

You have to face up to the temperament and daily behavior of your daughter-in-law, second sister, and mother, communicate calmly with everyone, and understand and support everyone, and you need to adjust with emotions according to each person's situation.

Three women in one play, your daughter-in-law, your second sister, and your mother are obviously the root of the problem together, so they left decisively and lived separately! I want my daughter-in-law to know no.

Love is a matter for two bai.

Acting in a scene, how to act, discuss it with your wife, in fact, you and your wife work together to overcome difficulties, and your wife's refusal to accept grievances lies in your protection of her in your home.

I also came here with my parents' opposition. To be honest, it was quite difficult, and a lot of tears flowed. I wish you all reconciliation.

You have to copy and understand that it is you who marry a daughter-in-law, not your second sister looking for a daughter-in-law, and your second sister is really not a thing. Other people's sisters all hope that their younger brother is good. And your second sister still has the attitude of the old society, and the daughter-in-law has to give someone a horse before she enters the door, and the girl's family is not unable to marry, so why should she be angry with your family.

It's mainly your second sister who makes things like this, you have to talk to your second sister first, and it won't be a problem for your mother to do her job well.

Your family doesn't seem to like your daughter-in-law, so you have to communicate with your family first, and then move your daughter-in-law's parents with practical actions, so that they know that his daughter will never suffer if she follows you.

It is best to let both parties reconcile themselves.

Forbearance is precious, you can find the help of the column group and move others.

If it weren't for the relationship between the two of you, move out.

Agree to live separately upstairs.

It means that you are very bad, this kind of thing is not handled well, your wife can't keep it, you eat.

Hello. :) don't know what your emotional troubles are aimed at? You can try the following ways to solve the problem:

Keep a journal and record your unpleasantness.

Go to a place where no one is roaring and release the gloom.

Do what you love, sing and sing, play sports, etc.

Confide in friends and loved ones.

If possible, you can consult a professional psychological counselor.

In life, there will always be a lot of things that don't go well. The reason why people are endowed with emotions is to live their truest selves—a unique self. It's normal to experience emotional setbacks, but with optimism and composure, everything will get better over time.

I hope mine can help you. ：）

Feelings are the worst thing, it's best to follow fate, cherish it when you're together, be more tolerant and understanding, and be a person with no conscience when you're separated. Forget, of course it's better to be friends, and don't hold grudges or anything.

Playing lol won't teach you.

There's no reason why you ask Mao.

Principles are not ropes that bind themselves.

True love is when you can love, know how to cherish true love, and know how to let go when you can't love, because, letting go is the ...... you have everythingPlease love well when you cherish it, and bless ...... well when you let goNo one can say anything about love, but one thing I can be sure of, because this incident is my personal experience, love can make you do anything for each other, say anything, love is to give unconditionally for each other, do anything to do meaningful things! Even one person will not be alone!

If you love someone, if you are true love, let her know, if she doesn't care, give up early.

There are two situations, 1, the degree of liking is not very deep, divert attention, and develop a relationship with your own boy, then you will quickly forget him. 2. If you still can't let go of him, develop a friend relationship with him as a good buddy, and then at some inadvertent time, jokingly say to him, you know? When I didn't know you very well before, I was attracted by your appearance, and you were perfect in my heart, and I saw how he reacted.

Think of him as a very bad person.

It's hard for anyone to say about emotional matters, maybe it's really like she said, she is the way she does things. But as someone who has experienced feelings, I intuitively tell you that maybe she is getting along with someone else. Taking a step back, if her character is like this.

Think about it, if you marry her in the future, she will disappear for a while. Is there any difference between you marrying her and not marrying her? So it depends on how you feel about this and how she feels about you.

Something, don't be afraid of hurt. To put it bluntly, there are fewer injuries. If it goes on like this.

It won't do you any good. It's not a test I think. It's just a perfunctory, if she's serious about you, if you say break up, she'll take a step back and accept your request, and between men and women, it's most normal to hit each other.

If she can only contact you, does that mean that she is not allowed to answer your ** in the place where she lives? I don't think there's any other explanation except that it's not suitable to pick up another person who likes me in front of my sweetheart. I hope to adopt it.

When you meet such a good person, why do you want to go back to ordinary friends? (joking).

It looks like he's really interested in you, and it's almost impossible to make him change his mind. It is recommended that you first refuse him with a hard attitude. And frequent online chats are indeed easy to cause many problems, so I suggest that you don't chat online for the time being (that is, temporarily cut off contact with him, maybe then you will give yourself a comfort), put more energy into work, don't always think about him, it's meaningless.

You have to think not only of him, but also of yourself. Of course, you can get back in touch with him after a while, if he finds a girlfriend, then the matter will be solved, and if he still thinks about you, then you should be stubborn and refuse him again. Maybe he's still young and immature, but if you do, I'm sure his attitude will change.

I wish you success in your career and success in your relationship!

Ambiguous with him, but if you don't get too close, he will never be able to figure out your thoughts, and finally get discouraged and retreat.

When your relationship should not continue, you may have a lot of ways to get rid of it, but you will have a lot of worries about your choices. When your relationship is not strong, you will be troubled by it. Come on, friends!

Troubles don't go too far, because love is the greatest.

If you really like someone, first you have to let him (her) know so as not to miss it. Then look at what he thinks! If he already has someone he likes, then you have to learn to wait!

If he needs to think about it, then you can't be idle either! Love requires bravery! You can't rely on the sky!

In fact, there is something wrong with you, if you are sure that you want to marry him, you should indeed meet his parents, and don't use your career failure as an excuse. Because for the woman, career is not the whole of his choice of mate! So、、Let's take the time to go see his parents with him first、、As for the career thing, you can't get koko right away if you think about it!

Think about it, if you two really want to live together, is it your past? Or is she coming? If your answer is that you don't know either, then you are doing the right thing, and if you think clearly, you can go to her parents regardless of whether you have a job or not, it's not a big deal.

The relationship between two people The third person is difficult to understand It is understandable that girls pay more attention to the family If you want to continue to develop, you should indeed meet your parents Both parties have mishandled the relationship There is no right or wrong relationship As long as you don't regret it I hope you are doing well.

The parents don't agree, the woman has an opinion, and she can't get by.

It's nothing, it's just a normal life.

Definitely your girlfriend's problem!! Everything is an excuse)

You like her.

Is it? Do you really like her? Isn't it -

Girls like to mess with the people they love.

It's like saying that you're short or something, but in fact, it's all about it, and I don't necessarily dislike you in my heart, otherwise why would I have to spend it with you.

A man can't even understand his girlfriend's little willfulness, and he is still complaining here that she is not satisfied, and that is just her willfulness.

She always wants you to be better to her.

She wants to know that you really love him.

You say you're nice to her? It's good and you still dislike her here?

You're all living together, and you're still so irresponsible.

She said that she was not in a hurry to get married or anything like that when she wanted to see her parents, it was just that you didn't give her a sense of security.

How do you let him give his heart to you.

You are not responsible for him at all, and you say let it go.

It's strange if she's not in a hurry, you have to know that your problem is not how she is, have you ever thought about yourself.

She will want you to meet your parents, not to marry you, and to be with you is not in a hurry, but just to prove that you have your heart for her.

Totally despised for you, not a man!! I don't have any sense of responsibility to be a man.